The Purpose of this World
From God’s Optimism by Yehoshua November
When some Jews cannot explain the sorrow of their lives
they take a vow of atheism.
Then everywhere they go,
they curse the God they don’t believe exists.
But why, why don’t they grab Him by the lapels,
pull His formless body down into this lowly world,
and make Him explain.
After all, this is the purpose of creation–
to make this coarse realm a dwelling place
for His presence.
וַיִּשְׁלַ֨ח יַעֲקֹ֤ב מַלְאָכִים֙ לְפָנָ֔יו אֶל־עֵשָׂ֖ו אָחִ֑יו אַ֥רְצָה שֵׂעִ֖יר שְׂדֵ֥ה אֱדֽוֹם׃ וַיְצַ֤ו אֹתָם֙ לֵאמֹ֔ר כֹּ֣ה תֹאמְר֔וּן לַֽאדֹנִ֖י לְעֵשָׂ֑ו כֹּ֤ה אָמַר֙ עַבְדְּךָ֣ יַעֲקֹ֔ב עִם־לָבָ֣ן גַּ֔רְתִּי וָאֵחַ֖ר עַד־עָֽתָּה׃ וַֽיְהִי־לִי֙ שׁ֣וֹר וַחֲמ֔וֹר צֹ֖אן וְעֶ֣בֶד וְשִׁפְחָ֑ה וָֽאֶשְׁלְחָה֙ לְהַגִּ֣יד לַֽאדֹנִ֔י לִמְצֹא־חֵ֖ן בְּעֵינֶֽיךָ׃ וַיָּשֻׁ֙בוּ֙ הַמַּלְאָכִ֔ים אֶֽל־יַעֲקֹ֖ב לֵאמֹ֑ר בָּ֤אנוּ אֶל־אָחִ֙יךָ֙ אֶל־עֵשָׂ֔ו וְגַם֙ הֹלֵ֣ךְ לִקְרָֽאתְךָ֔ וְאַרְבַּע־מֵא֥וֹת אִ֖ישׁ עִמּֽוֹ׃ וַיִּירָ֧א יַעֲקֹ֛ב מְאֹ֖ד וַיֵּ֣צֶר ל֑וֹ וַיַּ֜חַץ אֶת־הָעָ֣ם אֲשֶׁר־אִתּ֗וֹ וְאֶת־הַצֹּ֧אן וְאֶת־הַבָּקָ֛ר וְהַגְּמַלִּ֖ים לִשְׁנֵ֥י מַחֲנֽוֹת׃ וַיֹּ֕אמֶר אִם־יָב֥וֹא עֵשָׂ֛ו אֶל־הַמַּחֲנֶ֥ה הָאַחַ֖ת וְהִכָּ֑הוּ וְהָיָ֛ה הַמַּחֲנֶ֥ה הַנִּשְׁאָ֖ר לִפְלֵיטָֽה׃
(ב) ויאבק איש. מְנַחֵם פֵּי' וַיִּתְעַפֵּר אִישׁ, לְשׁוֹן אָבָק, שֶׁהָיוּ מַעֲלִים עָפָר בְּרַגְלֵיהֶם עַ"י נִעְנוּעָם. וְלִי נִרְאֶה שֶׁהוּא לְשׁוֹן וַיִּתְקַשֵּׁר, וְלָשׁוֹן אֲרַמִּי הוּא, בָּתַר דַּאֲבִיקוּ בֵיהּ, וַאֲבֵיק לֵיהּ מֵיבַק – לְשׁוֹן עֲנִיבָה, שֶׁכֵּן דֶּרֶךְ שְׁנַיִם שֶׁמִּתְעַצְּמִים לְהַפִּיל אִישׁ אֶת רֵעֵהוּ, שֶׁחוֹבְקוֹ וְאוֹבְקוֹ בִּזְרוֹעוֹתָיו. וּפֵרְשׁוּ רַזִ"לִ שֶׁהוּא שָׂרוֹ שֶׁל עֵשָׂו (בראשית רבה):
(2) ויאבק איש AND A MAN WRESTLED — Menachem (ben Seruk) explains: “a man covered himself with dust”, taking the verb as connected in sense with אבק “dust”. It would mean that they were raising the dust with their feet through their movements. I, however, am of opinion that is means “he fastened himself on”, and that it is an Aramaic word, as (Sanhedrin 63b) “after they have joined (אביקו) it", and (Menachot 42a) “and he twined (the “Fringes”) with loops”. It denotes “intertwining”, for such is the manner of two people who make strong efforts to throw each other — one clasps the other and twines himself round him with his arms. Our Rabbis of blessed memory explained that he was Esau’s guardian angel (Genesis Rabbah 77:3).
Dawning
This is not a one time wrestling match. We will need to assert ourselves again and again, to practice standing tall and not collapsing or hiding or shutting down. We will, for a very long time, perhaps forever, be both Yaakov and Yisrael, and that is good. We need both energies.
But maybe over time, the darkness of the Yaakov pain can lessen. Maybe over time the darkness of feeling that smallness and insecurity, the darkness of feeling secondary, the pain of not fully mattering, maybe over time that can lessen and gradually dissipate. The Torah says that Yaakov fought the angel until alot hashahar (32:25) which the Ibn Ezra interprets as “until the going up” of the shehor, the darkness. We continually wrestle with this angel until the darkness lifts, until the darkness lifts inside us, and we are filled with the light of morning. Yaakov, stepping out the next morning, saw the sun shining brightly upon him even as he limped– Vayizrah lo hashemesh (32:32). The sun shined for him that morning. When the darkness lifts, we find out that the world was created for us, for each of us individually; we find out how much we matter in this world, that the sun rises for each one of us every morning, and we can, even as we limp from our injuries, walk forward in joy, in the joy of knowing our own vitality and inherent value. Surely the sun does shine especially for each one of us.
Dr. Rachel Anisfeld
https://rachelanisfeld.com/2022/12/08/essay-coming-to-know-our-own-strength-through-wrestling-parashat-vayishlach/
…The process of Adam becoming whole is achieved at the cost of his “tzela”. The price Jacob pays for his bifurcation and wrestling with self at Jakob - the injury that will make him whole in the sense of achieving integrity - is his limping away, (tzolea) from the encounter. From “Wrestling Jacob: Deception, Identity and Freudian Slips in Genesis”, by Rav Shmuel Klitzner, Pg 117
… At first, the narrative voice of the text (verse 25) simply calls him ish - a man. However Jacob refers to him as (the) Lord (verse31). In verse 29, the stranger may be referring to himself as both divine and as human when he says to Jacob, ‘you have striven (competed) with divine and with human.’ In other words, instead of seeing this verse as a reference to separate struggles with divine forces and human adversaries in separate unidentified episodes, it is likely - given the two variant descriptions surrounding this verse- that the stranger is at once identifying himself as both divine and human.
Wrestling Jacob, Klitsner pg. 124
Hevrutah:
- Given what we've studied so far, do you think Jacob is on the Path to Wholeness? Why or why not?
- Read selected commentary below.
- Which commentaries add to your understanding of the story?
- Which add to your understanding of wholeness?
Facing Esav
"... Jacob cannot fully face his own past unless he seeks reconciliation with Esau, and this he can only do if he becomes a different person. When Jacob becomes Israel he can achieve reconciliation with his brother."
-Gunther Plaut 233
Oneness:
“And Jacob remained alone” (Gen 32:24). It is written “There is none like the God
of Jeshurun” (Deut 33:26).
R Berekhiah in the name of R. Simon said: “There is none like God.” And who is like God? Jeshurun! — [That is,] Grandfather Israel.
Just as it is written of the Holy One blessed be He “and the Lord alone shall be
exalted on that day” (Isa 2:11), so too Jacob “And Jacob was left alone” (ibid).
—Genesis Rabbah 77.1
Rashi unless you have blessed me: Acknowledge for me the blessings [with] which my father blessed me, which Esau is contesting.
ברכתני: הודה לי על הברכות שברכני אבי, שעשו מערער עליהם:
no… Jacob: It shall no longer be said that the blessings came to you through trickery (עָקְבָה) and deceit, but with nobility and openness, and ultimately, the Holy One, blessed be He, will reveal Himself to you in Beth-el and change your name, and there He will bless you, and I will be there.“ He then acknowledged them (the blessings) as being his (Jacob’s). This is [the meaning of] what is written (Hos. 12:5) ”He strove with an angel and prevailed over him; he wept and supplicated him,“ [meaning that] the angel wept and supplicated him. With what did he supplicate him? ”In Beth-el he will find Him, and there He will speak with us“ (ibid). Wait for me until He speaks with us there. Jacob, however, did not consent, [to release the angel] and, against his (the angel’s) will, he (the angel) acknowledged them (the blessings) as being his (Jacob’s). This is [the meaning of] ”And he blessed him there," that he entreated him to wait, but he did not wish [to do so]. — [from The Zohar, vol. 3, 45a]
Rachel Barenblatt—The Velveteen Rabbi
When Esau saw him he came running.
They embraced and wept, each grateful
to see the profile he knew better than his own.
You didn't need to send gifts, Esau said
but Jacob introduced his wives and children,
his prosperity, and Esau acquiesced.
For one impossible moment Jacob reached out.
To see your face, he said, is like seeing
the face of God: brother, it is so good!
But when Esau replied, let us journey together
from this day forward as we have never done
and I will proceed at your pace, Jacob demurred.
The children are frail, and the flocks:
you go on ahead, he said, and I will follow
but he did not follow.
Once Esau headed out toward Seir
Jacob went the other way, to Shechem, where
his sons would slaughter an entire village.
And again the possibility
of inhabiting a different kind of story
vanished into the unforgiving air.
"Maximus" by D.H. Lawrence
God is older that the sun and moon
and the eye cannot behold him
nor voice describe him.
But a naked man, a stranger, leaned on the gate
with his cloak over his arm, waiting to be asked in.
So I called him: Come in, if you will!
He came in slowly, and sat down by the hearth.
I said to him: And what is your name?
He looked at me without answer, but such a loveliness
entered me, I smiled to myself, saying: He is God!
So he said: Hermes!
God is older than the sun and moon
and the eye cannot behold him
nor the voice describe him:
and still, this is the God Hermes, sitting by my hearth.