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רות A study in duality and personality
הדף מאת: תמי לוז-גרבר / המדרשה באורנים
Tonight's class will focus on Ruth's personality. She was a Moabite woman, a widow, childless, and chose to join her mother-in-law to Israel. We will trace her personality through the pesukim and selected Midrashim.
Make sure you have a Megillat Ruth out with you, or open this link: https://www.sefaria.org/Ruth.1?lang=bi in another tab.
Task one will focus on studies that show opposing forces, dualities, or two sides of a coin.
Read פרק ב Chapter 2 carefully.
Questions for Discussion:
Why did Ruth go to the field to glean?
Why do you think Boaz noticed her?
What was Naomi's reaction to Ruth's report about her day?
לימוד מדרשים מתוך "רות רבה"
"וַתֹּאמֶר רוּת הַמּוֹאֲבִיָּה אֶל נָעֳמִי אֵלְכָה נָּא הַשָּׂדֶה וַאֲלַקֳטָה בַשִּׁבֳּלִים אַחַר אֲשֶׁר אֶמְצָא חֵן בְּעֵינָיו וַתֹּאמֶר לָהּ לְכִי בִתִּי" (רות ב, ב). רבי ינאי אמר: בת ארבעים שנה היתה ואין קוראין בת אלא לבת ארבעים שנה. "וַתֵּלֶךְ וַתָּבוֹא" (ב, ג) - עד כדון לא אזלת [=עד כאן לא הלכה]? ואת אמרת "וַתָּבוֹא", רבי יהודה בר' סימון אמר: התחילה מסיימת לפניה הדרכים.
"וַיִּקֶר מִקְרֶהָ" - א"ר יוחנן: כל הרואה אותה מריק קרי.
"חֶלְקַת הַשָּׂדֶה... מִמִּשְׁפַּחַת אֱלִימֶלֶךְ" - שניתן לה ממי שהוא ראוי ליפול בחלקה.
"And Ruth the Moabitess said unto Naomi: 'Let me now go to the field, and glean among the ears of corn after him in whose sight I shall find favor (Ruth 2:2)". Rabbi Yannai said "she was forty years old ("a daughter of forty years") and they did not call her a "daughter" but rather "a daughter of forty years"". "And she went, and came (Ruth 2:3)": not yet had she left, and you say "and she came"? Rabbi Yehudah the son of Rabbi Simon said "she started leaving marks before her on the paths". "And she happened by chance (veyiqer miqreha)" Rabbi Yochanan said: "Everyone who saw her orgasmed (meriq qeri)". "The portion of the field...of the family of Elimelech (Ruth 2:3)": it was given to her from what would fall as her "portion".
Questions for Discussion:
  1. What questions do you think the Midrash has that prompts the Midrash to add this story?
  2. What can you infer about Ruth's personality from this Midrash? Write down your one-word inference.

"לְמִי הַנַּעֲרָה הַזֹּאת?" (ב, ה) - ולא הוה חכים לה? [=ולא הכיר אותה?] אלא כיון שראה אותה נעימה ומעשיה נאים, התחיל שואל עליה. כל הנשים שוחחות ומלקטות, וזו יושבת ומלקטת. כל הנשים מסלקות כליהם, וזו משלשלת כליה. כל הנשים משחקות עם הקוצרים, וזו מצנעת עצמה. כל הנשים מלקטות בין העמרים, וזו מלקטת מן ההפקר.
"וַיַּעַן הַנַּעַר הַנִּצָּב עַל הַקּוֹצְרִים וַיֹּאמַר נַעֲרָה מוֹאֲבִיָּה הִיא" (ב, ו), ואת אמרת מעשיה נאים ונעימים? אלא רבתה רפתה לה.

"Then said Boaz unto his servant that was set over the reapers (Ruth 2:5)": over how many was he set? Rabbi Eliezer the son of Miriam: "over forty two he was set, because, see!: "And Solomon numbered all the strangers that were in the land of Israel...And he set 70,000 of them to bear burdens (2 Chronicles 2:16-17)", and he who works this way is able to see and know what a worker does. "Whose maiden is this?" And he did not recognize her? Rather when he saw that she was pleasant and her demeanor modest, he began to ask about her. All the women bent to glean, but she sat and gleaned. All the women raised their dresses [to work], but she let down her dress. All the women laughed with the reapers, but she was reserved by herself. All the women gleaned between the sheaves, but she gleaned from the public leavings. And in the same way "And when Saul saw David go forth against the Philistine, he said unto Abner ['Abner, whose son is this youth?] (1 Samuel 17:55)": and he did not recognize him. Yet the day before he had sent to Jesse and said: "'Let David stand before me; for he has found favor in my sight. (1 Samuel 16:22)"; so now he is asking about him? Rather when Saul saw the head of the Philistine in his hand he began to ask about him. Is he [a descendant] from Perez, he was a king. Or is he from Zerah, he was a judge? And Doeg the Edomite happened at that time to be present and said to him: "Even if he is a descendant of Perez, is he not forbidden? Is not he forbidden by his family? Is he not [a descendant] from Ruth, the Moabitess?" But Abner said to him, "but has not the new halakhah been made, "Ammonite but not Ammonitess, Moabite but not Moabitess"? And Doeg said to him "If [we follow the precedent] then Edomite but not Edomitess, Egyptian but not female Egyptian? Why were the men rejected, was it “Because they met you not with bread and with water? (Deut 23:5)". The women were also to have gone to meet the men?" And for a moment the halakhah was hidden from Abner's eyes. Saul said to him "[as for] the halakhah that was hidden from your eyes, go and ask Samuel and his Beit Din. When he came near to Samuel and his Beit Din he said to him: "So, from where do you hold your opinion? It is not from Doeg. Doeg is a heretic and he is not going to leave the world in peace, and I cannot let you go until it is solved." And Samuel said: "As it is written: "All glorious is the king's daughter within the palace (Psalm 45:14)" for a woman, she does not go out, and for a man he does go out: "and because they hired against you (Deuteronomy 23:5)". It is for a man to hire and not a woman". "And the servant that was set over the reapers answered and said: 'It is a Moabite maiden' (Ruth 2:6)". And you said her demeanor is pleasant and modest. Rather her mother in law taught her.
Questions for Discussion:
  1. What prompts the Midrash to add this to the description of Ruth?
  2. What can you infer from this about Ruth's personality? Write down your one-word inference.
  3. What is THE SAME in both Midrashim? What is DIFFERENT in both Midrashim?

(יח) וְכֵיצַד דִּינָן. עַמּוֹן וּמוֹאָב אִסּוּרָן אִסּוּר עוֹלָם זְכָרִים וְלֹא נְקֵבוֹת שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים כג ד) "לֹא יָבֹא עַמּוֹנִי וּמוֹאָבִי בִּקְהַל ה'" וְגוֹ'. הֲלָכָה לְמשֶׁה מִסִּינַי שֶׁהָעַמּוֹנִי הַזָּכָר וְהַמּוֹאָבִי הַזָּכָר הוּא שֶׁאָסוּר לְעוֹלָם לִשָּׂא בַּת יִשְׂרָאֵל אֲפִלּוּ בֶּן בְּנוֹ עַד סוֹף הָעוֹלָם. אֲבָל עַמּוֹנִית וּמוֹאָבִית מֻתֶּרֶת מִיָּד כִּשְׁאָר הָאֻמּוֹת:

(1) If a Jewish person sleeps with a non-Jew in the way of married people, they receive biblically ordained lashes, as it says “You shall not intermarry with them: do not give your daughter to their sons or take their daughters for your sons.” (Deuteronomy 7:3) The same law is true concerning the seven nations of the land of Canaan and all other nations. This is also explained by Ezra, “We will not give our daughters in marriage to the peoples of the land, or take their daughters for our sons.” (Nehemiah 10:31)

(13) i.e. The illegitimate children of a Hebrew servant and Caanite maid-servant are not considered Jews. Because of this, his father's seed was wasted because it did not go toward the birth of another Jew. This is said in Deuteronomy 23:18, "No Israelite man or woman shall become a temple prostitute."

Questions for Discussion:
If the first two midrashim represent physicality and spirtuality, then what are your thoughts about Ruth's connection to תורה שבכתב (physical לוחות) and תורה שבעל פה (sometimes refered to as the "neshama" of the Torah)?

(י) בענין מגילת רות בשבועות שהיא מצות גמילת חסדים י"ל על פי מ"ש בסוכה [מ"ט ב'] ותורת חסד על לשונה וכי יש תורה שאינה של חסד אלא הלומד תורה לשמה זו תורה של חסד ע"ש. והענין הוא כי באמת התורה נקראת אש דת. אך בפיהן של ישראל היא מתמתקת כמ"ש במד' כתפוח כו'. ופריו מתוק לחכי לחכי הי' מתוק כו'. והיינו מטעם שכתב שם במד' שתפוח אין לו צל וכולם ברחו רק בנ"י נמשכו לקבל התורה לשמה הגם שלא הרגישו שיהי' להם טובה לכן זכו למתיקות של התורה. וזהו השבח של בנ"י שתורת חסד על לשונה שבפיהן של ישראל שלומדין לשמה זוכין להפיק רצון ולמתק הדברים להיות תורת חסד [וזהו טעם מנהג ישראל לאכול חלב בשבועות]:

Questions for Discussion:
What dichotomy does this שפת אמת present?
This is the third dichotomy that we are studying. What do all three presentations of duality have in common? What is different in all three presentations of dichotomy?
How is Ruth the person and Ruth the sefer about dual forces?
In the next section of study, we will be reading different Midrashim that offer more insights and inspiration about Ruth's personality.
Right now, your list of adjectives that describe Ruth is two words long. For each of the following Midrashim, add ONE (or two if you and your chavruta can't agree on one) word to the list with each successive Midrash. At the end of the shiur, we will compare lists.

"וַתִּפֹּל עַל פָּנֶיהָ וַתִּשְׁתַּחוּ אָרְצָה וַתֹּאמֶר אֵלָיו מַדּוּעַ מָצָאתִי חֵן בְּעֵינֶיךָ לְהַכִּירֵנִי וְאָנֹכִי נָכְרִיָּה" (ב, י) - מלמד שנתנבאה שהוא עתיד להכירה כדרך כל הארץ.

"Then she fell on her face, and bowed down to the ground (Ruth 2:10)" this teaches that she prophesied she was going to be familiar like the way of the whole earth.
Questions for Discussion:
  1. What does this Midrash add to the two previous ones?
  2. What is your word?

(יד) יַעַשׂ ה' עִמָּכֶם חֶסֶד, רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בַּר אָדָא אָמַר, יַעֲשֶׂה כְּתִיב, כַּאֲשֶׁר עֲשִׂיתֶם עִם הַמֵּתִים, שֶׁנִּטְפַּלְתֶּם בְּתַכְרִיכֵיהוֹן, וְעִמָּדִי, שֶׁוִתְּרוּ לָהּ כְּתֻבּוֹתֵיהֶן. אָמַר רַבִּי זְעֵירָא, מְגִלָּה זוֹ אֵין בָּהּ לֹא טֻמְאָה, וְלֹא טָהֳרָה, וְלֹא אִסּוּר, וְלֹא הֶתֵּר, וְלָמָּה נִכְתְּבָה לְלַמֶּדְךָ כַּמָּה שָׂכָר טוֹב לְגוֹמְלֵי חֲסָדִים.

(14) "God will deal kindly with you (Ruth 1:8)" . Rabbi Chanina son of Ada says, "He will deal (ya'aseh)" is what is written (k'tiv), "as you dealt with the dead" when you were occupied with their shrouds, "and with me" when they renounced their ketubot. Rabbi Zeira says: "This book [of Ruth] does not have anything in it concerned with impurity or purity nor what is forbidden and what is permitted. So why is it written? To teach us the greatness of the reward for acts of lovingkindness."

Questions for discussion:
Based on this Midrash, can you think of a fourth word to describe Ruth?
Can you think of what חסדים Naomi did? Ruth did? Boaz did?
Below is a translation of the underlined text in the image. The text is from ספר נחלת שמעון - מגילת רות written by Rabbi Shimon Krasner of Baltimore, MD. I saw that it wasn't displaying properly on some devices:
And it is speaking about a great thing, because this book is about kindness, and all it does is awaken our hearts to the great deeds of Hashem, to know what are the great things He does and the great plans He executes... For he saw in Ruth the most righteous of women, and He said she is fitting as the house of all royalty...
And this is similar to Tamar the righeous woman, that Hashem chose her to be the mother of majesty, that her whole essence was being of a majestic type, as Yehuda had chosen her for his sons and then ultimately for himself.
...And this is what it means when it says that Hashem "builds the house of Israel" at all, that He sees to build the home upon great righeous women...
...And this is the reason that the men of the Beit Din bless Boaz by saying, "Let this woman be similar to Rivka and Leah..." - "And your home should be..."
Questions for Discussion:
What חסד did Hashem do for the Jewish people?
When building מלכות ישראל, why is there so much focus on women?
Can you add a fifth word to describe Ruth based on what you infer from the passage?

אמר ר' יוסי: שלשה הן שבא יצרן לתקפן ונזדרזו עליו כל אחד ואחד בשבועה, ואלה הן: יוסף ודוד ובועז... בועז מניין, שנאמר "חַי ה' שִׁכְבִי עַד הַבֹּקֶר" (ג, יג).
ר' יהודה ור' חוניא - ר' יהודה אומר: כל אותו הלילה היה יצרו מקטרגו ואומר: את פנוי ומבקש אשה, והיא פנויה ומבקשת איש, עמוד ובועלה ותהיה לך לאשה! ונשבע ליצרו ואמר: "חַי ה'" - שאיני נוגע בה, ולאשה אמר "שִׁכְבִי עַד הַבֹּקֶר", "אִם יִגְאָלֵךְ טוֹב יִגְאָל".
ור' חוניא אמר כתיב "גֶּבֶר חָכָם בַּעוֹז (משלי כד, ה) גבר חכם בועז, "וְאִישׁ דַּעַת מְאַמֶּץ כֹּחַ" שנזדרז על יצרו בשבועה.

"Stay the night", this night you stay without a husband, but this is the last night you spend without a husband. "Then, in the morning, if he will redeem you, very well; let him redeem you; but if he will not redeem you, then I will redeem you (Ruth 3:13)". Rabbi Meir was sitting and expounding and expounding the law in Tiberias and Elisha, his rabbi, passed by on the street riding a horse on Shabbat. And they said to Rabbi Meir: "Look! Elisha is passing by in the street!" Rabbi Meir greeted him and Elisha said: "what are you up to expounding?" Rabbi Meir said "and Hashem blessed the end of Job's life more than the beginning (Job 42:12)". And Elisha responded: "What are you saying about it?" And he replied: ""blessed" that is he doubled his wealth for him". And Elisha said to him "Akiva your teacher did not used to say that, but rather "And Hashem blessed the end of Job's life more than the beginning": because of his mindful repentance and good deeds which were in his hand at the beginning. What else?" And Rabbi Meir responded: "the end of a matter is better than its beginning (Ecclesiastes 7:8)". And Elisha said "What did you say about that"? And Rabbi Meir replied "you have the example of a man who buys merchandise in his youth and he has a loss, and he profits from it in old age. Another interpretation: "the end of a matter is better than its beginning" you have the example of a man who does evil deeds in his youth but good deeds in his old age. Another interpretation: "the end of a matter is better than its beginning": a man can learn Torah in his youth and forget it, but in his old age he can renew it, and so "the end of a matter is better than its beginning". And Elisha said to him: "Akiva your teacher did not say this, but rather "the end of a matter is good" that is when it is good "from its beginning". And for me there is this example: Avuyah, my father, was a great man of his generation and when the time came for my circumcision he invited all the great men of Jerusalem, and he invited Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Joshua among them. And when they ate and drank some sang songs and others alphabetic acrostics. Rabbi Eliezer said to Rabbi Joshua, these men are busying themselves on pointless things, and we are neglecting to pursue our affairs. So they began with the Torah and from the Torah the Prophets and from the Prophets to the writings and they rejoiced in these words as when they were given from Sinai surrounded by flaming fire. And were they not given from Sinai in fire, as it is said "And the mountain burned with a fire reaching up to the heart of the sky (Deuteronomy 4:11)"? And Avuya said "So great is the power of the Torah, this son of mine, if he survives, I will offer to give him to the Torah." And so because the intention of my thought was not for the sake of Heaven, my Torah did not continue in me. And what further did you discuss, Meir?" Rabbi Meir responded to him: "Gold or glass cannot match its value, Nor vessels of fine gold be exchanged for it (Job 28:17)". And he said: "What did you say about that?" And Rabbi Meir said: "These are words of the Torah which are difficult to buy as vessels of gold and easy to destroy like glass". Elisha responded: "Akiva your teacher did not speak this way, but rather as vessels of gold and glass if they are broken, it is possible to repair them, so a wise disciple that has lost his Mishnah is able to renew it". And then Elisha said: "return". And Rabbi Meir said: "Why?". And he responded: "because this is the edge of the Shabbat boundary". He responded: "How do you know?" Elisha said: "From the footsteps of my horse which has gone across 2,ooo amot. And Meir said: "And with all this wisdom of yours you will not return?" And Elisha responded: "That is not in my power". And he asked: "Why?". And Elisha explained to him "I was riding on a horse and while passing behind a synagogue on Yom Kippur that fell on Shabbat I heard a voice from Heaven break forth saying: "Turn back, O rebellious children (Jeremiah 3:22). Turn back to Me, and I will turn back to you (Malachi 3:7), except for Elisha the son of Avuya because he knows my strength and has rebelled against me". How did this thing happen to him? They said that one time he was sitting and reciting in the Valley of Geinosar and he saw that one man went to the top of a palm tree and took the mother bird with her young and descended without trouble, and on the day after Shabbat he saw another man go to the top of the palm tree and he took the young and sent away the mother and when he came down a snake bit him and he died. He said: "As it is written: "Let the mother go, and take only the young, in order that you may fare well and have a long life (Deuteronomy 22:7), but how is it good for this man and how is there a long life for this man?" And he did not know that it had been interpreted by Rabbi Akiva in public: "that you may fare well (tov)" in the world that is entirely good (<tov< i="">) and "have a long life (ha'arakhta)" that is in the length ('arokh) of eternity". And some were saying because he saw the tongue of Rabbi Judah the baker given to the mouth of a dog. And Elisha said: "If the tongue which occupied itself every day in Torah [is treated] thus, how much more the tongue of the one who knows nothing and is not occupied in Torah!" and thus he said "If so then there is no reward for the righteous and no resurrection of the dead!" And some were saying it is because his mother while pregnant was passing by the idolatrous temples and she smelled [the sacrifices] and they gave to her from the sacrificial meat and she ate it and it was poison spreading in her belly like the venom of a large snake. After many days Elisha the son of Avuya became sick and they said to Rabbi Meir: "Elisha your teacher is sick." He went to greet him and said "Repent again". And Elisha responded: "After this they would accept me?" And Rabbi Meir said: "You return man to dust (Psalm 90:3)”; until the crushing of the soul". As soon as he heard this Elisha son of Avuya wept and died. And Rabbi Meir was rejoicing and said: "my teacher was taken as he repented!". And when they buried Elisha, a light descended to burn his grave and they said to Rabbi Meir: "the grave of your teacher is burning". And he went and spread his tallit over it. And he said to Elisha: "Stay this night, and it shall be in the morning, that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman, well (tov); let him do the kinsman's part but if he be not willing to do the part of a kinsman to thee, then will I do the part of a kinsman to thee, as Hashem lives; lie down until the morning.' (Ruth 3:13)". "Stay this night" in this world that is all night. "It shall be in the morning, that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman, well": "It shall be in the morning" that is in the world that is all good"; "that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman" that is the Holy One, blessed be He, as it is said "Good is Hashem to all (Psalm 145:9)". "If he be not willing to do the part of a kinsman to thee, then will I do the part of a kinsman to thee, as Hashem lives; lie down until the morning.'" and the fire stopped. And they said to him: "Our teacher, in the world to come if they say to you: 'would you rather see your father or your teacher', what would you say?" Rabbi Meir said: "my father and only then my teacher". And they said to him "Did they hear you or not?" And he replied: "Is it not the tradition that the case of the Torah with the Torah and the case of tefillin with tefillin may be saved? They save Elisha because of the merits of his Torah". After many days his daughters came seeking charity from Rabbi and he said: "May no one show him mercy; may none pity his orphans (Psalm 109:12)". They said to him "Do not consider his actions but his Torah!" And as soon as he heard that Rabbi began weeping and decreed that they should be given help, saying: "if he whose Torah was not for the name of Heaven stands thus, how much more so for he whose Torah was for the name of Heaven!" Rabbi Yose: "these are the three to whom the yetzer came to attack and they each strengthened themselves with an oath. And these are they: Joseph, David, and Boaz". Joseph, as it is written: "How then could I do this most wicked thing (Genesis 39:9)". Rabbi Chunya said in the name of Rabbi Idei: "Is the scripture ever mistaken? "And I sin against God (Genesis 39:9)"; but here "I sin against Hashem" is not written but "against God" and Joseph said "I will not sin and not do this most wicked thing". From where David? As it is said: "And David went on, “As Hashem lives, Hashem Himself will strike him down, or his time will come and he will die, or he will go down to battle and perish (1 Samuel 26:10)". To whom did he swear? Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Samuel the son of Nachman: Rabbi Eliezer said: "He swore to his yetzer". Rabbi Samuel son of Nachman: "He swore to Abishai son of Zeruah and he said: "As Hashem lives if you touch him I will mix your blood with his blood". From where Boaz? As it is said: "As Hashem lives lie down until the morning (Ruth 3:13)". Rabbi Yehudah and Rabbi Chunya: Rabbi Yehudah says "all that very night his yetzer fought with him and said: "You are unmarried and seek a wife, and she is unmarried and seeks a husband; stand up man and become the master of this woman!" And Boaz swore to his yetzer: "As Hashem lives I will not touch her!" And to the woman he said: "Stay this night. It shall be in the morning, that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman, well". And Rabbi Chunya says: "It is written: "A wise man is strength (ba'oz) (Proverbs 24:5)"; [rather read] "A wise man is Boaz; a knowledgeable man exerts power" when he strengthened himself against his yetzer with an oath.
Questions for Discussion:
What do Yosef, David, and Boaz all have in common?
What quality have these men ADDED to the collection of words that you have listed about Ruth?
Now, when you put all five of those words together, does that sound like the very definition of מלכות?
*Bonus question that has nothing to do with this shiur: Why do you think Yehuda is missing from the above list, when David/Batsheva and Boaz/Ruth are here?

ד"א "אשת חיל מי ימצא" - זש"ה (תהלים צב טז): "עוד ינובון בשיבה וגו'", כנגד אברהם ושרה, שהיו שקולים כאחד בצדקה ובגמילות חסדים, היו סימן טוב לעולם, כך אין מונע מן הצדיקים נשים כשרות שהוא מזווג להם, שכן מצינו באשתו של נוח שהיו שקולין מעשיה כמעשיו, לפיכך זכתה עמו וניצלה ממי המבול. "בטח בה לב בעלה" - זו שרה אמנו, שהעשיר אברהם בשבילה, שנאמר (בראשית יב טז): "ולאברם היטיב בעבורה". "גמלתהו טוב ולא רע" - זו רבקה אמנו, שגמלה ליצחק בשעה שמתה שרה אמו. "דרשה צמר ופשתים" - זו לאה אמנו, שקיבלה ליעקב בסבר פנים יפות, דכתיב (בראשית ל טז): "ויבוא יעקב מן השדה בערב, ותצא לאה לקראתו ותאמר 'אליי תבוא כי שכור שכרתיך וגו'", לפיכך זכתה ויצאו ממנה מלכים ונביאים. "היתה כאניות סוחר" - זו רחל אמנו, שהיתה מתביישת על הבנים בכל יום, לפיכך זכתה ויצא ממנה בן שהוא דומה לספינה שהיא מלאה כל טוב שבעולם, כך יוסף נתקיים כל העולם בזכותו, וכלכל את העולם בשני רעבון. "ותקם בעוד לילה" - זו בתיה בת פרעה, גויה היתה ונעשית יהודיה, והזכירו שמה בין הכשרות, בשביל שעסקה במשה, לפיכך זכתה ונכנסה בחייה לגן עדן. "זממה שדה ותיקחהו, [מפרי כפיה נטע כרם]" - זו היא יוכבד, שיצא ממנה משה, שהוא שקול כנגד כל ישראל, שנקראו כרם, שנאמר (ישעיהו ה ז): "כי כרם ה' צבאות בית ישראל". "חגרה בעוז מתניה" - זו מרים, שקודם שנולד משה אמרה 'עתידה אמי שתלד בן שמושיע את ישראל', כיוון שנולד וכבד עליהם עול מלכות, עמד אביה וטפחה על ראשה, אמר לה 'היכן נבואתיך?', ועמד וירק בפניה, ועם כל זאת היא מתאמצת בנבואתה, דכתיב (שמות ב ד): "ותתצב אחותו מרחוק". "טעמה כי טוב סחרה, [לא יכבה בלילה נרה]" - זו חנה, שטעםה טעם תפילה, שנאמר (שמואל א ב א): "ותתפלל חנה ותאמר עלץ לבי בה' וגו'", לפיכך זכתה ויצא ממנה בן שהיה זוג למשה ולאהרן, שהיו מאירין לישראל כנרות, דכתיב (תהלים צט ו): "משה ואהרן בכהניו, ושמואל בקוראי שמו", וכתיב ביה בשמואל (שמואל א ג ג): "ונר אלהים טרם יכבה ושמואל שוכב בהיכל ה'". "ידיה שלחה בכישור" - זו יעל, שלא הרגה את סיסרא בכלי זיין, אלא ביתד בכוח ידיה. ומפני מה לא הרגתו בכלי זיין? לקיים מה שנאמר (דברים כב ה): "לא יהיה כלי גבר על אשה". "כפה פרשה לעני" - זו אשה אלמנה הצרפית, שכלכלה לאליהו בלחם ומים. "לא תירא לביתה משלג, כי כל ביתה לבוש שנים" - זו רחב הזונה, בשעה שבאו ישראל להחריב יריחו לא נתייראה מהם, מפני שנתנו לה סימן, (יהושע ב יח): "את תקות חוט השני". "מרבדים עשתה לה, [שש וארגמן לבושה]" - זו בת שבע, שיצא ממנה שלמה, שהיה מרוקם בשש וארגמן, ומלך מסוף העולם ועד סופו. "נודע בשערים בעלה" - זו מיכל, שהצילה דוד מן המיתה. "סדין עשתה ותמכור" - זו אמו של שמשון, שנושעו ישראל על-ידו. "עוז והדר לבושה, [ותשחק ליום אחרון]" - זו אלישבע בת עמינדב, שראתה ארבע שמחות ביום אחד: אחיה נשיא, ובעלה כהן גדול, ואחי בעלה מלך, ושני בניה פרחי כהונה. "פיה פתחה בחכמה" - זו אשה חכמה, שאמרה (שמואל ב כ טז): "שמעו שמעו אמרו נא אל יואב קרב עד הנה ואדברה אליך", שהצילה את העיר בחכמתה, וזו היתה סרח בת אשר. "צופיה הליכות ביתה" - זו אשתו של עובדיה, שהצילה בניה ולא עבדו עבודה זרה עם אחאב. "קמו בניה ויאשרוה" - זו שונמית, שנקראה (מלכים ב ד ח): "אשה גדולה", ומפני מה - מפני שהחזיקה באלישע לאכול. "רבות בנות עשו חיל, ואת עלית על כולנה" - זו רות המואביה, שנכנסה תחת כנפי השכינה. "שקר החן והבל היופי" - שהניחה אמה ואבותיה ועושרה, ובאה עם חמותה, וקיבלה כל המצוות: תחום שבת - (רות א טז): "אל אשר תלכי אלך"; איסור יחוד עם איש - "ובאשר תליני אלין"; תרי"ג מצוות - "עמך עמי"; עבודה זרה - "ואלהייך אלהיי"; ארבע מיתות בית דין - "באשר תמותי אמות"; "ושם אקבר" - אלו שני קברות המתוקנות לבית דין, אחד לנסקלים ולנשרפים ואחד לנהרגין ולנחנקין. לפיכך זכתה ויצא ממנה דוד, שריווה להקב"ה בשירות ותושבחות, לפיכך נאמר: "תנו לה מפרי ידיה ויהללוה בשערים מעשיה". החזק במוסר, שמרו התורה, ותינצלו מיצר הרע.

(5) Many women have done well (Proverbs 31:29): Adam, the first man, was commanded about six commandments. Noach [was additionally commanded] about [not eating] a limb from a live animal. Avraham about circumcision. Yitschak was educated with [these] eight [commandments]. Yaakov [was additionally commanded] about [not eating] the sciatic nerve. Yehudah about levirate marriage. [The people of] Israel about two hundred and forty-eight positive commandments corresponding to the two hundred and forty-eight limbs in a man - each and every limb says to man, "I plead of you to do this commandment with me" - and three hundred and sixty-five negative commandments corresponding to the three hundred and sixty-five days of the solar [year] - and each and every day says to man, "I plead of you not to do this sin on me." "Grace is false, beauty is illusory" (Proverbs 31:30) - the grace of Noach was false, as it states (Genesis 6:8), "But Noach found grace in the eyes of the Lord." Rabbi Levi said, "Only in his generation [did he find grace]." "Beauty is illusory" - illusory was the beauty of Adam, the first man. Rabbi Shimon ben Manassia said, "The ball of Adam, the first man's heel would dim the sun. And do not wonder - it is customary in the world that when a man makes two salver vessels, one for himself and one for his household, which does he make [nicer], is it not his? So [too], Adam, the first man, was created to serve in front of the Holy One, blessed be He; and the sun was created to make light for the creatures. And if the ball of his heel was such, the contour of his face, all the more so." "A woman that has fear of the Lord, she is to be praised" - this is Moshe. "Give of the fruit of her hand" (Proverbs 31:30) - Rabbi Yose bar Yirmiyah said, "Why did he compare the prophets to women? Rather, just like [a] woman is not embarrassed to claim the needs of the home from her husband, so [too] were the prophets not embarrassed to claim the needs of Israel from in front of the Holy One, blessed be He." The Holy One blessed be He said, "My sons, be involved in Torah [study] day and night, and I will count it for you as if you hold up the heavens and the earth," as it states (Joshua 1:8), "Let not this book of the Torah cease from your mouth, but meditate upon it day and night"; and it states (Joshua 1:9), “Did I not command you, 'Be strong and resolute; do not be terrified or dismayed'"; and it states (Ezra 3:11), "with praise and thanks to the Lord, for He is good, for His kindness upon Israel is forever, and the people raised a great shout with praise to the Lord, for the foundation of the House of the Lord had been laid"; (Proverbs 23:23) "Acquire truth"; (Proverbs 5:17) "They will be yours alone"; (Proverbs 9:9) "Give to a wise man, and he will grow wiser"; (Proverbs 9:11) "For through me your days will increase, and years of life be added." Another interpretation: "A woman of valor who can find?" - this is [the meaning] of what the verse states (Psalms 92:15), "In old age they still produce fruit, etc." - corresponding to Avraham and Sarah who were of the same measure concerning charity and acts of kindness; they were a good sign for the world. In this way, He does not prevent proper women from the righteous ones, [but] matches them. As so [too] do we find with the wife of Noach that her actions and his actions were of the same measure - that is why she merited with him and was rescued from the waters of the flood. "Her husband puts his confidence in her" - this is Sarah, our mother, as Avaraham grew rich on her account, as it states (Genesis 12:16), "And he benefited Avraham for her sake." "She bestows good to him, and not bad" - this is Rivkah, our mother, who bestowed [good] to Yitzchak at the time that Sarah, his mother died. "She seeks wool and flax" - this is Leah, our mother, who received Yaakov with a pleasant countenance, as it is written (Genesis 30:16), "And Yaakov came from the field in the evening, and Leah went out to meet him and said, 'You are to sleep with me, for I have hired you, etc.'" Therefore she merited and kings and prophets came from her. "She is like a merchant fleet" - this is Rachel, our mother, who was embarrassed about [her lack of] children every day. Therefore she merited and a son came from her who was similar to a ship that is filled will all the good [found] in the world - so [was it with] Yosef, that the whole world survived from his merit and he supported the world in the years of famine. "She rises while it is still night" - this is Batya, the daughter of Pharaoh. She was a gentile and became a Jewess and they mentioned her name among the proper [women], since she took care of Moshe. Therefore she merited and entered the Garden of Eden in her lifetime. "She sets her mind on a field and acquires it; [she plants a vineyard from the produce of her hand]" - this is Yocheved, that from her came Moshe who is equivalent to all of Israel, which is called a vineyard, as it states (Isaiah 5:7), "For the vineyard of the Lord of hosts is the House of Israel." "She girds her loins with strength" - this is Miriam, as before Moshe was born, she said, "In the future, my mother will give birth to the savior of Israel." Once he was born and the yoke upon them became heavier, her father got up and bopped her on the head. He said to her, "Where is your prophecy?" And he got up and spit in front of her face. And nonetheless, she exerted herself about her prophecy, as it is written (Exodus 2:4), "And his sister stood from a distance." "She advises (taamah) that her merchandise is good; [her lamp never goes out at night]" - this is Channah who tasted (taamah) the taste of prayer, as it states (I Samuel 2:1), "And Hannah prayed, 'My heart exults in the Lord, etc.'" Therefore she merited and a son came from her that was the match of Moshe and Aharon, which would bring light to Israel like lamps, as it is written (Psalms 99:6), "Moshe and Aharon among his priests, and Shmuel among the ones that call His name." And it is written about Shmuel (I Samuel 3:3), "The lamp of God had not yet gone out, and Shmuel was sleeping in the temple of the Lord." "She sets her hand to the distaff" - this is Yael, who did not kill Sisera with a weapon, but rather with a peg through the force of her hands. And because of what did she not kill him with a weapon? In order to fulfill that which it states (Deuteronomy 22:5), "There shall not be the vessel of a man on a woman." "Her palm she spreads out to the poor" - this is the widowed woman of Tsarfat, who supported Eliyahu with bread and water. "She is not worried for her home because of snow, for her whole home is dressed in crimson" - this is Rachav the prostitute. When Israel came to destroy Yericho, she did not fear from them, because they give her a sign - (Joshua 2:18) "this line of scarlet string." "She makes covers for herself; [her clothing is linen and purple]" - this is Batsheva, that from her came Shlomo, who was adorned with linen and purple and ruled from [one] end of the world to the [other] end. "Her husband is known in the gates," - this is Michal, who saved David from death. "She makes cloth and sells it" - this is the mother of Shimshon, that through him Israel was saved. "Strength and splendor are her clothing; [and she laughs to the last day]" - this is Elisheva, the daughter of Aminadav, who saw four joyful events in one day: her brother [became] a prince; her husband, high priest; the brother of her husband, king; and her two children, young priests. "She opens her mouth with wisdom" - this is the wise woman who said (II Samuel 20:16), “Listen, listen! Please tell Yoav, 'Come over here and I will speak to you,'” who saved the city with her wisdom; and this was Sarach the daughter of Asher. "She oversees the activities of her household" - this is the wife of Ovadiah, who rescued her sons and they did not worship idolatry with Achav. "Her children rise and declare her happy" - this is the Shunamite, who is called a great woman (II Kings 4:8). And because of what? Because she pressed upon Elisha to eat. “Many women have done well, but you surpass them all” - this is Ruth the Moabitess, who came under the wings of the Divine presence. "Grace is false, beauty is illusory" - as she left her mother and her forefathers and her wealth, and came with her mother-in-law and accepted all of the commandments: the domain of Shabbat - "to where you will walk, I will walk" (Ruth 1:16); the prohibition of isolation with a man - "and in that which you will lay, I will lay"; the six hundred and thirteen commandments - "your people is my people"; idolatry - "your God is my God"; the four death penalties of the court - "and in that which you will die, I will die"; "and there will I be buried" - these are the two graveyards arranged for the court, one for the stoned and the burned, and one for the killed and the strangled. Therefore, she merited and David came from her, who gave pleasure with songs and praises to the Holy One, blessed be He. Therefore it is stated, "Give of the fruit of her hand and let her works praise her in the gates." Be strong in ethical behavior, keep the Torah, and be rescued from the evil inclination.

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