Vayeitzei Discussion Sheet

Summary

On the way to Haran Jacob dreams of a ladder with angels going up and down; in his dream, G-d promises to be with him. Jacob then gets to Haran and meets Rachel at the well. He falls in love with her and her father Laban promises that they can marry in exchange for 7 years of Jacob’s labor. The night of the wedding Laban switches Rachel for her older sister Leah; Jacob has to promise 7 more years of labor to get to marry Rachel. Between Leah and Rachel and their respective maids of Zilpah and Bilha, Jacob has 11 sons and one daughter.

(יב) וַֽיַּחֲלֹ֗ם וְהִנֵּ֤ה סֻלָּם֙ מֻצָּ֣ב אַ֔רְצָה וְרֹאשׁ֖וֹ מַגִּ֣יעַ הַשָּׁמָ֑יְמָה וְהִנֵּה֙ מַלְאֲכֵ֣י אֱלֹקִ֔ים עֹלִ֥ים וְיֹרְדִ֖ים בּֽוֹ׃
(12) He had a dream; a stairway was set on the ground and its top reached to the sky, and angels of God were going up and down on it.

1. Why does it first say that the angels were going up and then it says that they were going down? Wouldn’t the angels have to go down first before they could come up?

2. What other explanation can you give?

(טז) וַיִּיקַ֣ץ יַעֲקֹב֮ מִשְּׁנָתוֹ֒ וַיֹּ֕אמֶר אָכֵן֙ יֵ֣שׁ ה' בַּמָּק֖וֹם הַזֶּ֑ה וְאָנֹכִ֖י לֹ֥א יָדָֽעְתִּי׃
(16) Jacob awoke from his sleep and said, “Surely the LORD is present in this place, and I did not know it!”

1. What other places might G-d be in where we wouldn’t expect to find G-d?

2. How can we bring G-d into more places?

(כ) וַיִּדַּ֥ר יַעֲקֹ֖ב נֶ֣דֶר לֵאמֹ֑ר אִם־יִהְיֶ֨ה אֱלֹקִ֜ים עִמָּדִ֗י וּשְׁמָרַ֙נִי֙ בַּדֶּ֤רֶךְ הַזֶּה֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר אָנֹכִ֣י הוֹלֵ֔ךְ וְנָֽתַן־לִ֥י לֶ֛חֶם לֶאֱכֹ֖ל וּבֶ֥גֶד לִלְבֹּֽשׁ׃ (כא) וְשַׁבְתִּ֥י בְשָׁל֖וֹם אֶל־בֵּ֣ית אָבִ֑י וְהָיָ֧ה ה' לִ֖י לֵאלֹקִֽים׃
(20) Jacob then made a vow, saying, “If God remains with me, if He protects me on this journey that I am making, and gives me bread to eat and clothing to wear, (21) and if I return safe to my father’s house—the LORD shall be my God.

1. It sounds like Jacob is setting preconditions for accepting G-d as his divinity. How do you feel about that?

(כב) וְהָאֶ֣בֶן הַזֹּ֗את אֲשֶׁר־שַׂ֙מְתִּי֙ מַצֵּבָ֔ה יִהְיֶ֖ה בֵּ֣ית אֱלֹקִ֑ים וְכֹל֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר תִּתֶּן־לִ֔י עַשֵּׂ֖ר אֲעַשְּׂרֶ֥נּוּ לָֽךְ׃
(22) And this stone, which I have set up as a pillar, shall be God’s abode; and of all that You give me, I will set aside a tithe for You.”

1. G-d has given us 3 T’s: Time, treasure, and talent. How can we tithe, or set aside, some of that for G-d?