Why do we wear Kippot?
The kippah is a means to draw out one's inner sense of respect for God.
Upon hearing the sound of the rooster, one should recite: Blessed…Who gave the heart [sekhvi] understanding to distinguish between day and night...
Upon spreading a shawl upon his head, one should recite: Blessed…Who crowns Israel with glory.
What is the origin of married women covering their heads?
Shabbat Rituals
- you can fulfill the mitzvah of Shabbat candle-lighting with even one candle.
The basic reason why we light two candles for Shabbat is that they correspond to the two forms of the mitzvah of Shabbat.
In Exodus we are told, “Remember (zachor) the day of Shabbat and make it holy.”
In Deuteronomy we are instructed, “Keep (shamor) the day of Shabbat and make it holy.”
Two Souls
Some explain that the reason for lighting at least two candles is based on the Talmudic teaching that on Shabbat we receive an additional soul, which imbues us with an extra sense of holiness and spirituality throughout the day. The additional candle corresponds to the second soul.
Based on this soul-candle comparison, the most common custom is that in addition to the two basic candles, an additional candle is lit for every child that is born (e.g., if there are three children, five candles are lit).
1. When our ancestors traveled in the desert for forty years, they subsisted on the manna that miraculously fell from heaven every day. The challah we eat on Shabbat is actually in place of that manna. Since the manna was encased between layers of dew that preserved its freshness, we envelop the challahs between the tablecloth (or cutting board) and the challah cover, reliving the manna miracle at our Shabbat meal.
2. In Talmudic times, before tables and chairs, banquet participants were served their meal on three-legged trays, which were brought to them by the waiters. On Shabbat, these table-trays would be brought out only after kiddush, in order to demonstrate that the meal is being served in honor of the Shabbat, which had just been sanctified during the recitation of kiddush. Today, we don’t carry small tables in and out. Instead, we set the table with the challah, but cover it until the time when it would have been carried in. This delivers the message that the meal only begins after, and because of, kiddush.
3. Not only do different types of food require different blessings, but there is actually a hierarchy that regulates the order in which we recite blessings and eat various foods.
Generally, the seven foods with which the land of Israel is praised—wheat, barley, grapes, figs, pomegranates, olives and dates—take priority over other foods. In the event that one is eating two or more of these foods, they are eaten in the order that they are mentioned in the Torah. Since grain is mentioned before grapes, it would follow that the bread should be eaten before the wine.
We therefore cover the bread (“wheat”) in order that it not be “shamed” by the fact that we drink the kiddush wine (“grapes”) before we partake of the challah.
(א) דיני קידוש על היין. ובו יז סעיפים:
כשיבא לביתו ימהר לאכול מיד:
(1) 1. When he arrives at his home, he should hurry to eat the meal immediately.
Drinking the wine: Even those who are accustomed to reciting Kiddush standing, are to drink the wine after Kiddush only after they sit.
The Gemara asks: But according to the opinion of Shmuel, why do I need to recite kiddush in the synagogue at all, if one does not fulfill his obligation with that kiddush? The Gemara answers: The purpose of kiddush in the synagogue is to fulfill the obligations of the guests who eat and drink and sleep in the synagogue. Since these visitors are staying in the synagogue for Shabbat, they must hear kiddush there. And Shmuel follows his line of reasoning, as Shmuel said: There is no valid kiddush except in the place of one’s Shabbat meal. If one does not eat a meal in the location in which he recites kiddush, he has not fulfilled the mitzva of kiddush.
A mezuzah serves two functions: Every time you enter or leave, the mezuzah reminds you that you have a covenant with God; second, the mezuzah serves as a symbol to everyone else that this particular dwelling is constituted as a Jewish household, operating by a special set of rules, rituals, and beliefs.
The parchment is inscribed on only one side. On its reverse side, only one word appears: Shaddai, one of the names used for God. When the scroll is rolled properly, the “Shaddai” is facing the eye. The Hebrew letters of “Shaddai,” shin, dalet, yod are also the initials of the phrase shomer daltot yisrael, the Guardian of the doors of Israel.
There is no Talmudic source obligating one to kiss the mezuzah, although there may be a source for touching the mezuzah. Kissing the mezuzah seems to have been introduced by the Arizal (sixteenth century), and is thus a relatively recent custom.
The first record of someone touching a mezuzah in this way is found in the Talmud in a story of the famous Roman convert to Judaism, Onkelos the son of Kalonymus.
Talmud, Avodah Zarah 11a.
The Talmud relates that the Roman emperor sent soldiers to bring Onkelos to him:
They went, and Onkelos told them verses from the Torah [Bible], and they were inspired and converted.
The emperor sent another group of soldiers, telling them not to tell him anything. Onkelos said, “Let me tell you something trivial . . .” Inspired by his words, they all converted.
The emperor sent another group of soldiers, and told them not to discuss anything with him.
As they were taking him out of the house, Onkelos saw a mezuzah on the doorway; he stretched out his arm and touched it. Onkelos asked them, “What is this that I am touching?” The soldiers responded, “You tell us.”
Onkelos explained to them, “It is the custom of the world that the king sits in the inside of the palace, and the guards protect him from the outside. However, with G‑d, His servants are inside their homes and He protects them from the outside, as the verse says (Psalms 121:8), “G‑d will protect your departure and your arrival from now and forever.”
The soldiers were inspired, and they converted. The emperor did not send any additional soldiers.
The Onkelos story can be interpreted in one of two ways. It is possible that touching the mezuzah, as Onkelos did, was a standard practice at the time; thus, the Gemara provides evidence that almost 2,000 years ago it was customary to have an “ongoing relationship” with the mezuzah. Alternatively, Onkelos’ act can be viewed as an impromptu gesture to win over the imperial delegation (which was subsequently used as a basis for instituting the practice of touching the mezuzah).
(ב) נתינתה בטפח החיצון: הגה י"א כשאדם יוצא מן הבית יניח ידו על המזוזה (מהרי"ל שם ומוכח בעבודת כוכבים דף י"א) ויאמר ה' ישמר צאתי וגו' (במדרש) וכן כשיכנס אדם לבית יניח ידו על המזוזה:
(2) Its placement is in the outer wall. Rama (Moses Isserless): There are those who say that when a person leaves his house, he puts his hand on the Mezuzah there and says “God will guard my going, etc.” And so too when one enters a house, one puts his hand on the Mezuzah.
Commentaries explain that it reminds you to contemplate the unity of G‑d, as Maimonides writes in his code of Jewish law, the Mishneh Torah:
Mishneh Torah, Laws of Mezuzah 6:13.
A person needs to be very careful in his or her observance of mezuzah, for it is incumbent on every individual and during the entire day.
Through the mezuzah, every time a person enters or leaves his home, he will encounter the unity of G‑d and remember his love for G‑d. Thus he will awaken from his “sleep,” and recognize his obsession with the vanity of the times. And he will know that there is nothing that lasts eternally, besides for the knowledge of the Creator of the world.
Through contemplating this, the person will regain awareness and follow the path of the upright.
Rituals of the Torah Service
When the Ark was to set out, Moses would say: Advance, O LORD! May Your enemies be scattered, And may Your foes flee before You!
"Gadlu L'Adonai Iti..."
There is debate as to whether or not we should bow toward the Torah or Ark at any times. There is concern that we could be creating an idol by bowing to the Torah or Ark.
We are bowing to the Divine Presence within the Torah or Ark
It is common practice in shuls around the world for congregants to hold their pinky finger up to the Torah when it is opened and lifted for hagbah. Interestingly enough, however, the source for such a practice is far from clear.
The earliest mention of such a practice is Me’am Loez on Parshas Ki Savo, 27:26:
“It is customary to point to the writing with the little finger and to kiss it.”
What is really interesting is that the origin of the practice is completely unknown. The Me’am Loez simply records a custom that he observed. There is no known origin for the practice.
And when it halted, he would say: Return, O LORD, You who are Israel’s myriads of thousands!
“When Rabbi Akiva would pray by himself, he would bow down with such vigor that he would start his prayers in one corner of the room and finish in another” (Brachos 31a). Physically lowering oneself before God shows humility, and is an integral part of prayer. Although intense displays are not appropriate for most situations, our Sages established that one should bow down during Shemoneh Esrei.
“When bowing down a person should bend his body quickly and pick himself up slowly, in order to show that bowing is not a burden. While bending over he should make sure that he moves every vertebra in his spine” (Shulchan Aruch 113: 4,6). Our Sages were very specific about how we should bow down in order to express appropriate humility, since excessive displays can in fact be a sign of arrogance.
Fact: There is a late post-Talmudic custom for a person who drops a sefer Torah to fast, usually one day.
Yet there is no source in either the Babylonian or Jerusalem Talmud, the Rambam, Tur or Shulchan Aruch for fasting when a Torah falls, let alone fasting for forty days.
In practice, the custom is to fast one or three BaHaB days, and this applies either to the one who dropped the sefer Torah or to all present at the time.