ר' עקיבא אומר: (ויקרא יט) ואהבת לרעך כמוך, זה כלל גדול בתורה, שלא תאמר הואיל ונתבזיתי יתבזה חבירי עמי, הואיל ונתקללתי יתקלל חבירי עמי.
אמר רבי תנחומא: אם עשית כן, דע למי אתה מבזה, בדמות אלהים עשה אותו.
Quoting the Book of Vayikra, Rabbi Akiva said, "Love your neighbor as yourself is the greatest principle of the Torah. A person should not think, 'Because I feel embarrassed, my friend should feel embarrassed along with with me. Because I was cursed, my friend should be cursed along with me.'"
Says Rabbi Tanchuma: If you do this (and embarrass your friend), know whom you are embarrassing - for he was made in the Image of Hashem.
וְהַמַּלְבִּין פְּנֵי חֲבֵרוֹ בָרַבִּים... אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיֵּשׁ בְּיָדוֹ תוֹרָה וּמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים, אֵין לוֹ חֵלֶק לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא:
Rabbi Elazar Ha-Moda'i says, "...One who humiliates his fellow in public... though he may have knowledge of Torah and good deeds, he has no share in the world to come (Heaven)."
In memory of Gadol HaDor, HaRav Chaim Kanievsky. In the early days of the COVID-19 outbreak, Rav Kanievsky interpreted COVID quarantines in light of the quarantining of a gossiper suffering from tzara'at: As a society, we needed to use our time apart to work on those flaws that spiritually separate us, like lashon hara and excessive pride.
“We choose our clothes more carefully than we choose our words, though what we say about and to others can define them indelibly. That is why ethical speech – speaking fairly of others, honestly about ourselves, and carefully to everyone is so important. If we keep the power of words in the foreground of our consciousness, we will handle them as carefully as we would a loaded gun.”
-Joseph Telushkin, Words that Hurt – Words that Heal (quoted in R. Margolis, J.L. Grishaver, & J. Golub Parashah: Experiencing the Weekly Torah Portion.)
Scenario A: Lo Levayesh - Do Not Embarrass. Your friend is leading services when, suddenly, his voice cracks and sounds squeaky. You are tempted to laugh. How does the Torah's mitzvah, love your neighbor as yourself, stop you from embarrassing him?
Scenario B: Lo Levayesh - Do Not Embarrass. Your class is posing for school photographs. Your teacher isn't looking and you are able to give your friend 'bunny ears' in the photo without getting caught. How does the Torah's teaching that we are created In the Image of Hashem stop your from embarrassing your friend?