Looking (Experiencing) Inside Out Parashat Yitro 5779

(ט) וַיִּ֣חַדְּ יִתְר֔וֹ עַ֚ל כָּל־הַטּוֹבָ֔ה אֲשֶׁר־עָשָׂ֥ה יְהוָ֖ה לְיִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל אֲשֶׁ֥ר הִצִּיל֖וֹ מִיַּ֥ד מִצְרָֽיִם׃

Exodus 18:9

(9) And Jethro rejoiced over all the kindness that the LORD had shown Israel when He delivered them from the Egyptians.

רש"י על שמות י״ח:ט׳:ב׳

(ב) על כל הטובה. טוֹבַת הַמָּן וְהַבְּאֵר וְהַתּוֹרָה, וְעַל כֻּלָּן אשר הצילו מיד מצרים; עַד עַכְשָׁו לֹא הָיָה עֶבֶד יָכוֹל לִבְרֹחַ מִמִּצְרַיִם, שֶׁהָיְתָה הָאָרֶץ מְסֻגֶּרֶת, וְאֵלּוּ יָצְאוּ שִׁשִּׁים רִבּוֹא (מכילתא):

Rashi on Exodus 18:9:2

(2) על כל הטובה FOR ALL THE GOODNESS — the goodness in giving the Manna and the well and the Torah — and he rejoiced above all these (more especially), אשר הצילו מיד מצרים THAT HE HAD DELIVERED THEM OUT OF THE HAND OF EGYPT — Until now no slave had ever been able to escape from Egypt because that land was closely shut in on all sides, but these had gone forth six hundred thousand in number (cf. Mekhilta d'Rabbi Yishmael 18:11:1).

רש"י על שמות י״ח:ט׳:א׳

(א) ויחד יתרו. וַיִּשְׂמַח יִתְרוֹ, זֶהוּ פְּשׁוּטוֹ. וּמִ"אַ נַעֲשָׂה בְשָׂרוֹ חִדּוּדִין חִדּוּדִין, מֵצֵר עַל אִבּוּד מִצְרַיִם, הַינוּ דְּאָמְרֵי אִינָשֵׁי "גִּיּוֹרָא עַד עֲשָׂרָה דָּרֵי לָא תְבַזֵּי אֲרַמָּאָה בְּאַפֵּיהּ":

Rashi on Exodus 18:9:1

(1) ויחד יתרו AND JETHRO REJOICED — This is its literal meaning. A Midrashic comment is: his flesh became full of prickles (חדודין — his flesh crept with horror) — he felt grieved at the destruction of Egypt. That is what people say (what the common proverb says): A proselyte even though his heathen descent dates from as far back as the tenth generation, do not speak slightingly of an Aramean (any non-Jew) in his presence (Sanhedrin 94a).

סנהדרין צ״ד א:י׳

ויחד יתרו רב ושמואל רב אמר שהעביר חרב חדה על בשרו ושמואל אמר שנעשה חדודים חדודים כל בשרו אמר רב היינו דאמרי אינשי גיורא עד עשרה דרי לא תבזה ארמאי קמיה

Sanhedrin 94a:10

It is written in the previous verse: “Vayyiḥad Yitro for all the goodness that the Lord had done to Israel, whom He had delivered out of the hand of Egypt” (Exodus 18:9). Rav and Shmuel disagreed with regard to the meaning of vayyiḥad. Rav says: He passed a sharp [ḥad] sword over his flesh, i.e., he circumcised himself and converted. And Shmuel says: He felt as though cuts [ḥiddudim] were made over his flesh, i.e., he had an unpleasant feeling due to the downfall of Egypt. Rav says with regard to this statement of Shmuel that this is in accordance with the adage that people say: With regard to a convert, for ten generations after his conversion one should not disparage a gentile before him and his descendants, as they continue to identify somewhat with gentiles and remain sensitive to their pain.

ברכות ל״ד ב:כ״ט

ואמר רבי חייא בר אבא אמר רבי יוחנן אל יתפלל אדם אלא בבית שיש שם חלונות שנאמר וכוין פתיחן ליה בעליתה (לקבל) נגד ירושלם

Berakhot 34b:29

And on the topic of prayer, Rabbi Ḥiyya bar Abba said that Rabbi Yoḥanan said: One may only pray in a house with windows, as then he can see the heavens and focus his heart, as it is stated with regard to Daniel’s prayer: “In his attic there were open windows facing Jerusalem” (Daniel 6:11).

אורח חיים צ׳:ד׳

(ד) צריך לפתוח פתחים או חלונו' כנגד ירושלים כדי להתפלל כנגדן וטוב שיהיו בב"ה י"ב חלונות:

Shulchan Arukh, Orach Chayim 90:4

(4) It is necessary to open openings or windows in facing Jerusalem, so as to pray opposite them. And it is recommended for a synagogue to have twelve windows.

`The story goes that when the Beit Midrash for [Rav Yehuda Amital's] yeshiva [Yeshivat Har Etzion] was first built, the architect wanted to make it without windows with a view of the surrounding landscape. The rationale was that this design made the building fit in better with the environment. Rav Amital’s response was typical of his perpetual emphasis on the human element in serving G^d: It is the students, rather than the building, who must fit in with the environment! In other words, the place of Torah study is not meant to be a place where students are completely isolated from the outside world; it is a refuge but one that retains a constant awareness of the life of the nation and the world. (Story as told by Rabbi Dr. Asher Meir)

Shlomo Yitzchaki (Hebrew: רבי שלמה יצחקי‬‎) 22 February 1040 – 13 July 1105, today generally known by the acronym Rashi (Hebrew: רש"י‬, RAbbi SHlomo Itzhaki), was a medieval French rabbi and author of a comprehensive commentary on the Talmud and commentary on the Tanakh. Acclaimed for his ability to present the basic meaning of the text in a concise and lucid fashion, Rashi appeals to both learned scholars and beginner students, and his works remain a centerpiece of contemporary Jewish study.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rashi

Moses and Israel had much to be grateful and excited about. Is it realistic to expect them to be sensitive to Yitro's feelings when sharing their story? Or is this 'tone policing'?

The sages had two different interpretations of the language for Yitro's reaction to the story. Do you believe it moved him to convert or that it caused him pain? Why?

(There is no right or wrong answer to this question)

We are told our prayer spaces should have windows to the outside world. What does this mean to you?

Are there other 'windows' we need for our prayers?