(ויקרא כג, טו) שבע שבתות תמימות תהיינה אימתי אתה מוצא שבע שבתות תמימות בזמן שאתה מתחיל לימנות מבערב יכול יקצור ויביא ויספור בלילה תלמוד לומר מיום הביאכם הא כיצד קצירה וספירה בלילה והבאה ביום
"Talmud Lomar: 'Seven complete weeks shall be'. When does one find
seven complete weeks? When the counting begins at night."
And if one forgets an entire day (or two days) and doesn't bless, a blessing may
not be recited subsequently. (Rav Shimon Kayyara, Sefer Halakhot Gedolot, Hilkhot Atzeret).
(ח) אם שכח לברך באחד מהימים בין יום ראשון בין משאר ימים סופר בשאר ימים בלא ברכה אבל אם הוא מסופק אם דילג יום אחד ולא ספר יספור בשאר ימים בברכה:
(8) If he forgot to bless on one of the days, between the first day [of the omer] and the rest of the days, he should count the rest of the days without a blessing. But, if he uncertain if he skipped a single day and didn’t count, he should count the days with a blessing.
days] should exclude one another; for every day is a mitzvah in and of itself...From the fact that we make a (separate) blessing every night, learn from this that each and every day is a mitzvah in and of itself and one does not prevent another. (Rabbi Isaiah ben Mali Di Trani (1180-1250, Italy) Sefer ha-Makriah, Sof Halakha 29)
then a blessing should not be said subsequently. Rav Sa'adia wrote that if one
forgets an entire day, a blessing may be recited subsequently, with the exception of the first night. If one forgets (the first night) and doesn't say a blessing, a blessing may not be said any longer. And Rav Hai wrote that whether it is the first night or any other, if one forgot to make a blessing on it, a blessing may (still) be made on the remaining nights. And Rabbeinu Yonah also wrote this. ((Rabbi Ya'acov ben Asher, Arba'ah Turim, O. H. 489:8)
subsequently, with the exception of the first night. If one forgets (the first night) and doesn't say a blessing, a blessing may not be said any longer. (Tur, ibid)
A second consideration emerges from the nature of how our people grow in observance. Judaism, while affirming the obligatory nature of halakhah as a whole, has encouraged a pedagogy of gradual growth and a resistance to the kind of all-or-nothing mentality that would preclude most of our people from exploring the possibility of a deeper engagement with halakhah and mitzvot. Tafasta merubeh lo tafasta, excessive stringency may discourage growth in
mitzvah observance. We must help cultivate an atmosphere of increasing observance by celebrating each positive step forward, rather than necessarily imposing a stultifying all-or-nothing approach to observance. To encourage our people to grow gradually in mitzvot in a host of areas is a prudent pedagogical response both to the living nature of Torah and to creating access for our people to meaningful growth in shmirat mitzvot.
In light of the encouragement Judaism offers to exploring greater observance and our recognition that many Jews can only reclaim their heritage if encouraged to move from where they are gradually, it is counter-intuitive and counter-productive to always assert a rigid line separating those who observe the mitzvah each and every day from those who might occasionally forget. As we seek to help Jews maximize their observance, maintaining a rule which discourages engagement in the mitzvah seems misguided and out of character.
At the same time, this return to permit an earlier position is rooted in education and a pedagogy of encouragement and gradualism, rather than in an ethical imperative. As such, there is no need to prohibit the form in which most Jews have observed sefirat ha-omer since the time of the Shulhan Arukh. Jews who observe this mitzvah ought to be able to rely on the historical consensus of generations of faithful Jews, and we are not interested in calling that commitment into question. (Brad Artsen & Aaron Alexander, A Missed Day in the Life of the Omer)
