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Kohelet? Happy?? With Notes
Based on R Sacks on Koheles. Why read Kohelet on Sukkot
First of all why do we sit have sukkot at all? R Eliezer v R Akiva

הָנִיחָא לְמַאן דְּאָמַר עַנְנֵי כָבוֹד הָיוּ. אֶלָּא לְמַאן דְּאָמַר סוּכּוֹת מַמָּשׁ עָשׂוּ לָהֶם, מַאי אִיכָּא לְמֵימַר? דְּתַנְיָא: ״כִּי בַסּוּכּוֹת הוֹשַׁבְתִּי אֶת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל״, עַנְנֵי כָבוֹד הָיוּ, דִּבְרֵי רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר. רַבִּי עֲקִיבָא אוֹמֵר: סוּכּוֹת מַמָּשׁ עָשׂוּ לָהֶם. הָנִיחָא לְרַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר, אֶלָּא לְרַבִּי עֲקִיבָא מַאי אִיכָּא לְמֵימַר?

The Gemara asks: This works out well according to the one who said that the sukkot mentioned in the verse: “I made the children of Israel to reside in sukkot” (Leviticus 23:43), were clouds of glory, as it is reasonable that the roofing of the sukka is modeled after clouds. However, according to the one who said that the children of Israel established for themselves actual sukkot in the desert, and the sukkot of today commemorate those, what can be said? According to that opinion, there is no connection between a sukka and a cloud. As it is taught in a baraita that the verse states: “I made the children of Israel to reside in sukkot”; these booths were clouds of glory, this is the statement of Rabbi Eliezer. Rabbi Akiva says: They established for themselves actual sukkot. This works out well according to Rabbi Eliezer; however, according to Rabbi Akiva what can be said?

  • The first question R Sacks asks is why is it happy to sit in a hut? what's so great and miraculous about sitting in a hut??
  • Second is... but we didn't??
  • The third question is obviously what is this book doing on Sukkot, chag simchatenu. Where would a sad book better belong?
  • You guessed it, but funnily enough...

תַּלְמִידֵי חֲכָמִים אֵין נוֹתְנִין זֶה לָזֶה שָׁלוֹם בְּתִשְׁעָה בְּאָב. אֶלָּא יוֹשְׁבִים דָּוִים וְנֶאֱנָחִים כַּאֲבֵלִים. וְאִם נָתַן לָהֶם עַם הָאָרֶץ שָׁלוֹם מַחֲזִירִים לוֹ בְּשָׂפָה רָפָה וְכֹבֶד רֹאשׁ. וְאָסוּר לִקְרוֹת בְּתִשְׁעָה בְּאָב בַּתּוֹרָה אוֹ בַּנְּבִיאִים אוֹ בַּכְּתוּבִים וּבְמִשְׁנָה וּבַהֲלָכוֹת וּבִגְמָרָא וּבְהַגָּדוֹת. וְאֵינוֹ קוֹרֵא אֶלָּא בְּאִיּוֹב וּבְקִינוֹת וּבַדְּבָרִים הָרָעִים שֶׁבְּיִרְמְיָהוּ. וְתִינוֹקוֹת שֶׁל בֵּית רַבָּן בְּטֵלִין בּוֹ. וּמִקְצָת הַחֲכָמִים נוֹהֲגִין שֶׁלֹּא לְהַנִּיחַ בּוֹ תְּפִלִּין שֶׁל רֹאשׁ:

Torah scholars should not exchange greetings on Tish'ah B'Av. Instead, they should sit in agony and frustration like mourners. If a common person greets them, they should reply to him weakly, in a somber tone.
On Tish'ah B'Av, it is forbidden to read from the Torah, the Prophets, or the Sacred Writings [or to study] the Mishnah, Torah law, the Talmud, or the Aggadic works. One may study only Job, Eichah, and the prophecies of retribution in Jeremiah. Children should not study in school on this day.
There are some sages who do not wear the head tefillin.

This is the halacha until today, so clearly Koheles is at least not sad.
  • Now R Sacks starts to answer. He asks what's the key word of Koheles? That's right hevel
  • He explains that the literal meaning is breath. Everything is going to end at some point and hence the futility of everything
  • He explains that Koheles in the beginning tries to beat mortality by acquiring wealth power and wisdom. But he finds that that still doesn't really conquer the mortality of everything
  • Who is the first person to die in the Torah? that's right Hevel. And who killed him? That's right kayin. Now watch this

קָנִ֙יתִי֙ עֲבָדִ֣ים וּשְׁפָח֔וֹת וּבְנֵי־בַ֖יִת הָ֣יָה לִ֑י גַּ֣ם מִקְנֶה֩ בָקָ֨ר וָצֹ֤אן הַרְבֵּה֙ הָ֣יָה לִ֔י מִכֹּ֛ל שֶֽׁהָי֥וּ לְפָנַ֖י בִּירוּשָׁלָֽ͏ִם׃

I bought male and female slaves, and I acquired stewards. I also acquired more cattle, both herds and flocks, than all who were before me in Jerusalem.

Koheles goes on to say many things he tried but none of them have any lasting value
What is the solution though?
  • I'll save time and cut to the chase and summarise that R Sacks says the answer that Koheles gives is to be happy in faith in Hashem in an uncertain world, and being able to be happy by having faith despite the difficulties of life. And R Sacks uses textual proofs to connect the book to sukkot.
  • I hope you like this but for me as a chossid who believes that Hashem designed perfection into everything, it doesn't quite do it
  • I am a masters student and I am very adept at adding just a little bit onto what someone else has done and publishing that. That is what we'll do now.
Let's review. We've seen that Koheles has to be connnected to the simcha of sukkot. Koheles's conclusion is to enjoy life while you can and to serve Gd

רְאֵ֨ה חַיִּ֜ים עִם־אִשָּׁ֣ה אֲשֶׁר־אָהַ֗בְתָּ כׇּל־יְמֵי֙ חַיֵּ֣י הֶבְלֶ֔ךָ אֲשֶׁ֤ר נָֽתַן־לְךָ֙ תַּ֣חַת הַשֶּׁ֔מֶשׁ כֹּ֖ל יְמֵ֣י הֶבְלֶ֑ךָ כִּ֣י ה֤וּא חֶלְקְךָ֙ בַּֽחַיִּ֔ים וּבַעֲמָ֣לְךָ֔ אֲשֶׁר־אַתָּ֥ה עָמֵ֖ל תַּ֥חַת הַשָּֽׁמֶשׁ׃

Enjoy happiness with a woman you love all the fleeting days of life that have been granted to you under the sun—all your fleeting days. For that alone is what you can get out of life and out of the means you acquire under the sun.

ס֥וֹף דָּבָ֖ר הַכֹּ֣ל נִשְׁמָ֑ע אֶת־הָאֱלֹקִ֤ים יְרָא֙ וְאֶת־מִצְוֺתָ֣יו שְׁמ֔וֹר כִּי־זֶ֖ה כׇּל־הָאָדָֽם׃

The sum of the matter, when all is said and done: Revere God and observe His commandments! For this is everything a person is

I want to claim that Koheles shows us clearly that the highest happinnes in life comes from
1. Connection, to people and to Hashem and
2. Service of the Highest Will
שפת אמת ראש השנה תרל"ב - ד"ה "ראש השנה"
ראש השנה פירוש קודם התחלקות השפע להיות נשתנה. כי כשבא חיות ה׳ יתברך לעולם הזה תחת הזמן והטבע משתנה מרוחניות לגשמיות. וראש השנה הוא המקור וההתחלה קודם ההשתנות כי במקורו הוא בלי ציור גשמיי.
Can't find it now sorry but Alter Rebbe talks about fasting on YK and how we connect to the Source of Bracha, skipping the means of bracha i.e. food.
• Sonja Lyubomirsky podcast with Mark Manson “seconds drugs and rock and roll” that drug’s influence on happiness comes from connection as does all happiness
• That’s one. Two is the idea that we’re only here to do good and not to desperately pile up pleasurable stimuli in our lives until death calls time. We’re servants of Good Almighty.
o RDA “not in service”
o נשאת ונתת באמונה why emuna not Yosher? Because emuna says that even if I lose out physically, I am doing my highest ratzon by doing the right thing. kal vachomer other things where goal is not money
o Tzila dehemnusa

אָמַר רָבָא: בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁמַּכְנִיסִין אָדָם לְדִין, אוֹמְרִים לוֹ: נָשָׂאתָ וְנָתַתָּ בָּאֱמוּנָה? קָבַעְתָּ עִתִּים לַתּוֹרָה? עָסַקְתָּ בִּפְרִיָּה וּרְבִיָּה? צִפִּיתָ לִישׁוּעָה? פִּלְפַּלְתָּ בְּחׇכְמָה? הֵבַנְתָּ דָּבָר מִתּוֹךְ דָּבָר? וַאֲפִילּוּ הָכִי, אִי יִרְאַת ה׳ הִיא אוֹצָרוֹ — אִין, אִי לָא — לָא. מָשָׁל לְאָדָם שֶׁאָמַר לִשְׁלוּחוֹ: הַעֲלֵה לִי כּוֹר חִיטִּין לָעֲלִיָּיה. הָלַךְ וְהֶעֱלָה לוֹ. אָמַר לוֹ: עֵירַבְתָּ לִי בָּהֶן קַב חוֹמְטוֹן? אָמַר לוֹ: לָאו. אָמַר לוֹ: מוּטָב אִם לֹא הֶעֱלֵיתָה.

With regard to the same verse, Rava said: After departing from this world, when a person is brought to judgment for the life he lived in this world, they say to him in the order of that verse: Did you conduct business faithfully? Did you designate times for Torah study? Did you engage in procreation? Did you await salvation? Did you engage in the dialectics of wisdom or understand one matter from another? And, nevertheless, beyond all these, if the fear of the Lord is his treasure, yes, he is worthy, and if not, no, none of these accomplishments have any value. There is a parable that illustrates this. A person who said to his emissary: Bring a kor of wheat up to the attic for me to store there. The messenger went and brought it up for him. He said to the emissary: Did you mix a kav of ḥomton, a preservative to keep away worms, into it for me? He said to him: No. He said to him: If so, it would have been preferable had you not brought it up. Of what use is worm-infested wheat? Likewise, Torah and mitzvot without the fear of God are of no value.

(עב) יסוד האושר - יסוד האושר הוא אהבת האמת בשכל, אהבת היושר בחיים, אהבת היופי ברגש, אהבת הטוב במעשה. ובכל הערכים כולם, כל אדם בונה לו אמת, יושר, יופי וטוב, בפני עצמו כפי מדתו. וכולם, כל המדות הללו של כל יחיד ויחיד מבני אדם, מתכנסים לאוצר מאוחד אחד, שכל האמת, היושר, היופי והטוב מתארגנים בו. ובזה באים אל המסלה של דעת ד', הנאורה, המלאה קדושה, ויראת אלקים ברורה.

And to hammer it home let's look at some hilchos YT

כֵּיצַד. הַקְּטַנִּים נוֹתֵן לָהֶם קְלָיוֹת וֶאֱגוֹזִים וּמִגְדָּנוֹת. וְהַנָּשִׁים קוֹנֶה לָהֶן בְּגָדִים וְתַכְשִׁיטִין נָאִים כְּפִי מָמוֹנוֹ. וְהָאֲנָשִׁים אוֹכְלִין בָּשָׂר וְשׁוֹתִין יַיִן שֶׁאֵין שִׂמְחָה אֶלָּא בְּבָשָׂר וְאֵין שִׂמְחָה אֶלָּא בְּיַיִן. וּכְשֶׁהוּא אוֹכֵל וְשׁוֹתֶה חַיָּב לְהַאֲכִיל לַגֵּר לַיָּתוֹם וְלָאַלְמָנָה עִם שְׁאָר הָעֲנִיִּים הָאֻמְלָלִים. אֲבָל מִי שֶׁנּוֹעֵל דַּלְתוֹת חֲצֵרוֹ וְאוֹכֵל וְשׁוֹתֶה הוּא וּבָנָיו וְאִשְׁתּוֹ וְאֵינוֹ מַאֲכִיל וּמַשְׁקֶה לַעֲנִיִּים וּלְמָרֵי נֶפֶשׁ אֵין זוֹ שִׂמְחַת מִצְוָה אֶלָּא שִׂמְחַת כְּרֵסוֹ. וְעַל אֵלּוּ נֶאֱמַר (הושע ט ד) "זִבְחֵיהֶם כְּלֶחֶם אוֹנִים לָהֶם כָּל אֹכְלָיו יִטַּמָּאוּ כִּי לַחְמָם לְנַפְשָׁם". וְשִׂמְחָה כָּזוֹ קָלוֹן הִיא לָהֶם שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (מלאכי ב ג) "וְזֵרִיתִי פֶרֶשׁ עַל פְּנֵיכֶם פֶּרֶשׁ חַגֵּיכֶם":

What is implied? Children should be given roasted seeds, nuts, and sweets. For women, one should buy attractive clothes and jewelry according to one's financial capacity. Men should eat meat and drink wine, for there is no happiness without partaking of meat,nor is there happiness without partaking of wine.
When a person eats and drinks [in celebration of a holiday], he is obligated to feed converts, orphans, widows, and others who are destitute and poor. In contrast, a person who locks the gates of his courtyard and eats and drinks with his children and his wife, without feeding the poor and the embittered, is [not indulging in] rejoicing associated with a mitzvah, but rather the rejoicing of his gut.
And with regard to such a person [the verse, Hoshea 9:4] is applied: "Their sacrifices will be like the bread of mourners, all that partake thereof shall become impure, for they [kept] their bread for themselves alone." This happiness is a disgrace for them, as [implied by Malachi 2:3]: "I will spread dung on your faces, the dung of your festival celebrations."

So to wrap up, I want to claim that Koheles takes our simcha on sukkos to an extremely high level by cutting away the futile distractions of life and what reminds us of what really matters.
  • He makes us enjoy our physicality in life as part of an understanding that it is a gift of Hashem and not stam.
  • And also reminds us to serve and do Hashem's will in our lives
  • So our enjoying in life has to be done with connection to Hashem and thus making the world a better place, and our making the world a better place has to be done in a way of connection to Hashem and thus enjoying in life
  • Final thought let's see a quote from YN Davening

אֱמֶת כִּי אַתָּה הוּא יוֹצְרָם. וְאַתָּה יוֹדֵֽעַ יִצְרָם. כִּי הֵם בָּשָׂר וָדָם: אָדָם יְסוֹדוֹ מֵעָפָר וְסוֹפוֹ לֶעָפָר. בְּנַפְשׁוֹ יָבִיא לַחְמוֹ. מָשׁוּל כְּחֶֽרֶס הַנִּשְׁבָּר. כְּחָצִיר יָבֵשׁ. וּכְצִיץ נוֹבֵל. כְּצֵל עוֹבֵר. וּכְעָנָן כָּלָה. וּכְרֽוּחַ נוֹשָֽׁבֶת. וּכְאָבָק פּוֹרֵֽחַ. וְכַחֲלוֹם יָעוּף: וְאַתָּה הוּא מֶֽלֶךְ אֵל חַי וְקַיָּם:

True, You are their Creator, and You know their impulse that they are [but] flesh and blood. Man, his beginning is from dust and ends in dust; risking his life, he gets his bread, he is like a potsherd that is breakable, like grass that withers, like the flower that fades, like the shadow that passes, like the cloud that vanishes, like the wind that blows, like the dust that flies, and like a fleeting dream. But You are the King, the Almighty, the living and everlasting God.

Appendix
Snake's curse is abundance without connection