This is inspired by a shiur given by Chava Wulwick at Tikkun Leil 5785 @ Borehamwood and Elstree Synagogue
What is your name? Write both your English and Hebrew names (written in English and Hebrew accordingly!)
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Put a tick next to the names of the people who you think are 'real':
Sara Blizzard (weather reporter)
Margaret Court (tennis player)
Michael Ball (footballer)
Rosalind Brewer (Starbucks executive)
Usain Bolt (athletics star)
Jules Angst (Professor of Psychiatry)
Donald Trump (USA President)
It may, or may not, surprise you to know that they're all real people?!
"The word trump is defined as a playing card of a particular suit that outranks cards of another suit. And in its use as a verb, it means to outdo or surpass. There is no question that every one of this year’s Republican candidates for president has been trumped. When Trump resorts to name-calling, holds raucous rallies that draw audiences in the thousands, and employs media savvy that makes him the subject of every conversation, he is playing the trump card. It’s a feat that none of the other candidates have been able to match, and not for lack of trying." (from an article in Slate magazine, 'Do Our Names Shape Our Destinies? Trump's Might.' (2016))
What does your name mean? Why were you given your name? What do you think were your parents' intentions when they gave you your name?
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'Aptronym' - (noun) a person's name that is regarded as amusingly appropriate to their occupation.
"Aptronyms have long been a feature of mankind’s naming conventions. The ancient Romans used the phrase nomen est omen, which means “name is destiny” or “your name is a sign.” There are rumors that Roman armies would put soldiers whose names meant victory at the head of the formation when marching into battle. Further, we all know people who were named after a family member, religious figure, celebrity, or were given a name because it sounds creative, beautiful, or strong. Our names, either through etymology or association, can commemorate loved ones, evoke certain desirable characteristics, or convey a blessing for future happiness and success." (from an article in Slate magazine, 'Do Our Names Shape Our Destinies? Trump's Might.' (2016))
Carl Jung (1875-1961) was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded Analytical Psychology. He said "sometimes quite grotesque coincidence between a man's name and his peculiarities or profession."
Now we're going to look at Megillat Rut to see how there were quite a few aptronyms present there. Let's take a look at some of our mekorot:
(א) וַיְהִ֗י בִּימֵי֙ שְׁפֹ֣ט הַשֹּׁפְטִ֔ים וַיְהִ֥י רָעָ֖ב בָּאָ֑רֶץ וַיֵּ֨לֶךְ אִ֜ישׁ מִבֵּ֧ית לֶ֣חֶם יְהוּדָ֗ה לָגוּר֙ בִּשְׂדֵ֣י מוֹאָ֔ב ה֥וּא וְאִשְׁתּ֖וֹ וּשְׁנֵ֥י בָנָֽיו׃
(1) In the days when the chieftains ruled, there was a famine in the land; and a man of Bet Lechem Yehuda [there is a place called Bet Lechem in Judah - not the same place as the Bethlehem you might have heard about elsewhere!!], with his wife and two sons, went to reside in the country of Moav.
What is a 'Bet Lechem'? What is the literal translation?
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How does this conflict with the rest of the pasuk?
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Your response is probably in line with Rabbi Dr. Raphael Shuchat (a Jewish Philosopy teacher at Bar Ilan University) who said:
"One cannot but sense the irony in this passage. They leave Bethlehem (literally. "house of bread") during a famine, hinting to the reader that they made a tragic mistake. They actually left the house of bread in the middle of a famine to go to the fields of Moab. A house denotes a warm environment, as opposed to a field, that lies open and unprotected. In biblical writings, the empty field is an image that often precedes tragedy."
What does Rabbi Shuchat think is happening here, right at the start of Megillat Rut?
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Why does Naomi want to change her name?
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What does the name 'Naomi' mean then, do you think?
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Write down what you think the following names mean (look at the Hebrew!):
Elimelech __________________________________________
Machlon ___________________________________________
Chilion ____________________________________________
(ה) וְשֵׁם הָאִישׁ אֱלִימֶלֶךְ (רות א, ב), רַבִּי מֵאִיר הָיָה דּוֹרֵשׁ שֵׁמוֹת. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן קָרְחָה הָיָה דוֹרֵשׁ שֵׁמוֹת. וְשֵׁם הָאִישׁ אֱלִימֶלֶךְ, שֶׁהָיָה אוֹמֵר אֵלַי תָבוֹא מַלְכוּת. וְשֵׁם אִשְׁתּוֹ נָעֳמִי, שֶׁהָיוּ מַעֲשֶׂיהָ נָאִים וּנְעִימִים. וְשֵׁם שְׁנֵי בָנָיו מַחְלוֹן וְכִלְיוֹן, מַחְלוֹן, שֶׁנִּמְחוּ מִן הָעוֹלָם.
(5) “The name of the man was Elimelekh, and the name of his wife Naomi, and the names of his two sons Maḥlon and Kilyon, Ephratites of Bethlehem in Judah. They came to the fields of Moav, and were there” (Ruth 1:2). “The name of the man was Elimelekh” (Ruth 1:2). Rabbi Meir would expound names. Rabbi Yehoshua ben Korḥa would expound names. “The name of the man was Elimelekh,” as he would say: To me [elai], the kingdom [malkhut] will come. “And the name of his wife was Naomi,” as her actions were fine [na’im], and pleasant [ne’imim]. “And the names of his two sons Maḥlon and Kilyon” – Maḥlon, for they were eradicated [nimḥu] from the world; Kilyon, for they were eliminated [kalu] from the world.
וְחַד אָמַר: ״יוֹאָשׁ״ וְ״שָׂרָף״ שְׁמָן, וְלָמָּה נִקְרָא שְׁמָן ״מַחְלוֹן״ וְ״כִלְיוֹן״? ״מַחְלוֹן״ – שֶׁעָשׂוּ גּוּפָן חוּלִּין, וְ״כִלְיוֹן״ – שֶׁנִּתְחַיְּיבוּ כְּלָיָה לַמָּקוֹם.
And one of them says: Their given names were Joash and Saraph, and why were they called by the names Mahlon and Chilion? One was called Mahlon [maḥlon] because they made their bodies profane [ḥullin], and the other was called Chilion [khilyon] because they were liable to receive the punishment of destruction [kelaya] for their sins against God.
Write down the meanings of the following names according to the Midrash and the Gemara:
Elimelech ______________________________________________________________________________________________________
Machlon ______________________________________________________________________________________________________
Chilion ______________________________________________________________________________________________________
We now need to work out the meanings of the other two names that we have been introduced to - the wives of Machlon and Chilion....AKA Rut and Orpah.
(ט) וַיִּשְׂאוּ לָהֶם נָשִׂים מֹאֲבִיּוֹת (רות א, ד), ... שֵׁם הָאַחַת עָרְפָּה, שֶׁהָפְכָה עֹרֶף לַחֲמוֹתָהּ. וְשֵׁם הַשֵּׁנִית רוּת, שֶׁרָאֲתָה בְּדִבְרֵי חֲמוֹתָהּ. ...
(9) “They took for themselves Moavite wives: the name of one was Orpa, and the name of the second was Ruth; and they dwelled there approximately ten years” (Ruth 1:4). “They took for themselves Moavite wives.” ...“The name of one was Orpa,” because she turned her back [oref] to her mother-in-law. “And the name of the second was Ruth [Rut],” because she saw [ra’ata] truth in the words of her mother-in-law....
Another reason why she was called Ruth?
לָמָּה נִקְרָא שְׁמָהּ רוּת? שֶׁיָּצָא מִמֶּנָּה דָּוִד, שֶׁרִיוָּהוּ לְהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בְּשִׁירוֹת וְתוּשְׁבָּחוֹת.
Why was she named Ruth, spelled reish, vav, tav? Because there descended from her David who sated, a word with the root reish, vav, heh, the Holy One, Blessed be He, with songs and praises.
(ה) וַיֹּ֣אמֶר בֹּ֔עַז בְּיוֹם־קְנוֹתְךָ֥ הַשָּׂדֶ֖ה מִיַּ֣ד נׇעֳמִ֑י וּ֠מֵאֵ֠ת ר֣וּת הַמּוֹאֲבִיָּ֤ה אֵֽשֶׁת־הַמֵּת֙ (קניתי) [קָנִ֔יתָ] לְהָקִ֥ים שֵׁם־הַמֵּ֖ת עַל־נַחֲלָתֽוֹ׃
(5) Boaz continued, “When you acquire the property from Naomi and from Ruth the Moabite, you must also acquire the wife of the deceased, so as to perpetuate the name of the deceased upon his estate.”
Why does Boaz say that Ruth must be 'acquired'?
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Who is Boaz even speaking to?!
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(א) וּבֹ֨עַז עָלָ֣ה הַשַּׁ֘עַר֮ וַיֵּ֣שֶׁב שָׁם֒ וְהִנֵּ֨ה הַגֹּאֵ֤ל עֹבֵר֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר דִּבֶּר־בֹּ֔עַז וַיֹּ֛אמֶר ס֥וּרָה שְׁבָה־פֹּ֖ה פְּלֹנִ֣י אַלְמֹנִ֑י וַיָּ֖סַר וַיֵּשֵֽׁב׃
(1) Meanwhile, Boaz had gone to the gate and sat down there. And now the redeemer whom Boaz had mentioned passed by. He called, “Come over and sit down here, So-and-so!” And he came over and sat down.
Any clearer?! Who is הַגֹּאֵ֤ל ? Why is he called פְּלֹנִ֣י אַלְמֹנִ֑י ? What's he done to 'lose' his name?
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So, here's the thing...
(ד) לֹֽא־יָבֹ֧א עַמּוֹנִ֛י וּמוֹאָבִ֖י בִּקְהַ֣ל יהוה גַּ֚ם דּ֣וֹר עֲשִׂירִ֔י לֹא־יָבֹ֥א לָהֶ֛ם בִּקְהַ֥ל יהוה עַד־עוֹלָֽם׃ (ה) עַל־דְּבַ֞ר אֲשֶׁ֨ר לֹא־קִדְּמ֤וּ אֶתְכֶם֙ בַּלֶּ֣חֶם וּבַמַּ֔יִם בַּדֶּ֖רֶךְ בְּצֵאתְכֶ֣ם מִמִּצְרָ֑יִם וַאֲשֶׁר֩ שָׂכַ֨ר עָלֶ֜יךָ אֶת־בִּלְעָ֣ם בֶּן־בְּע֗וֹר מִפְּת֛וֹר אֲרַ֥ם נַהֲרַ֖יִם לְקַֽלְלֶֽךָּ׃
(4) No Ammonite or Moabite shall be admitted into the congregation of יהוה; no descendants of such, even in the tenth generation, shall ever be admitted into the congregation of יהוה, (5) because they did not meet you with food and water on your journey after you left Egypt, and because they hired Balaam son of Beor, from Pethor of Aram-naharaim, to curse you.—
Why are B'nei Yisrael not allowed to marry an Ammonite or Moabite?
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What information is missing from these pasukim?
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אֲמַר לֵיהּ דּוֹאֵג הָאֲדוֹמִי: עַד שֶׁאַתָּה מְשַׁאֵיל עָלָיו אִם הָגוּן הוּא לַמַּלְכוּת אִם לָאו, שְׁאַל עָלָיו אִם רָאוּי לָבֹא בַּקָּהָל אִם לָאו. מַאי טַעְמָא? דְּקָאָתֵי מֵרוּת הַמּוֹאֲבִיָּה. אֲמַר לֵיהּ אַבְנֵר, תְּנֵינָא: ״עַמּוֹנִי״, וְלֹא עַמּוֹנִית. ״מוֹאָבִי״, וְלֹא מוֹאָבִית.
For what reason did Saul say to Abner that he should inquire about David? As it is written: “And Saul clad David with his apparel [maddav]” (I Samuel 17:38), which indicates that the clothes were of David’s size [kemiddato]. And it is written with regard to Saul: “From his shoulders and upward he was higher than any of the people” (I Samuel 9:2). Upon seeing that his clothes fit David, Saul began to fear that it might be David who was destined for the throne, and he therefore inquired into his background. At that point, Doeg the Edomite said to Saul: Before you inquire as to whether or not he is fit for kingship, inquire as to whether or not he is even fit to enter into the congregation. What is the reason for such doubts? It is that he descends from Ruth the Moabite, and Moabites are permanently barred from entering the congregation. Abner said to him: We already learned that there is no room for such concern. As the verse states: “An Ammonite or a Moabite shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord” (Deuteronomy 23:4), teaching that an Ammonite man is barred from entering into the congregation, but not an Ammonite woman; and similarly, a Moabite man is barred from entering into the congregation, but not a Moabite woman.
(א) פְּלֹנִי אַלְמֹנִי. וְלֹא נִכְתַּב שְׁמוֹ לְפִי שֶׁלֹּא אָבָה לִגְאֹל: (ב) פְּלֹנִי אַלְמֹנִי. מְתֻרְגָּם בַּנְּבִיאִים "כַּסִּי וְטָמִיר": (ג) פְּלֹנִי. מְכֻסֶּה וְנֶעְלָם לְשׁוֹן "כִּי יִפָּלֵא", "הֲיִפָּלֵא מֵהַ' דָּבָר": (ד) אַלְמֹנִי. אַלְמוֹן מִבְּלִי שֵׁם. (סְפָרִים אֲחֵרִים, אַלְמֹנִי שֶׁהָיָה אַלְמָן מִדִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, שֶׁהָיָה לוֹ לִדְרשׁ, עַמּוֹנִי וְלֹא עַמּוֹנִית, מוֹאָבִי וְלֹא מוֹאָבִית וְהוּא אָמַר, "פֶּן אַשְׁחִית אֶת נַחֲלָתִי":)
(1) So-and-so. But his name was not written because he did not wish to redeem. (2) So-and-so. פְּלֹנִי אַלְמֹנִי is rendered [into Aramaic] in the Prophets as, “concealed and secret.” (3) So. פְּלֹנִי means] covered and concealed, [as in] the expression of, “If there be concealed יִפָּלֵא” and “Is there anything concealed הֲיִפָּלֵא from Adonoy?” (4) And so. אַלְמֹנִי means widowed, without a name. (Another version: [He is called] אַלְמֹנִי because he was widowed of the words of the Torah, for he should have expounded, “[only] an Ammonite [is forbidden in marriage to a Jewish woman], but not an Ammonitess [i.e., an Ammonite woman is not forbidden in marriage to a Jewish man]; a Mo’avite, but not a Mo’aviteess.” Yet he said, “for I would mar my own inheritance.”)
What mistake did פְּלֹנִ֣י אַלְמֹנִ֑י make, therefore, in not wanting to marry Ruth?
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But Boaz came to the rescue!
Some might say that it was destiny that he would marry Ruth...
This itself is the matter of Boaz, whose name means Bo Oz--strength within him--that is to say, he had deep faith in the words of the Sages who explained “an Amonite--excluding an Amonitess”. He had no doubt in the matter, like Ploni did who said “lest I endanger my inheritance”. On the contrary! He was ecstatic to show that the interpretation of the Rabbis was the Torah given on Sinai.
Why was he called Boaz?
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What happened next, after Boaz married Ruth?
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(יז) וַתִּקְרֶ֩אנָה֩ ל֨וֹ הַשְּׁכֵנ֥וֹת שֵׁם֙ לֵאמֹ֔ר יֻלַּד־בֵּ֖ן לְנׇעֳמִ֑י וַתִּקְרֶ֤אנָֽה שְׁמוֹ֙ עוֹבֵ֔ד ה֥וּא אֲבִֽי־יִשַׁ֖י אֲבִ֥י דָוִֽד׃ {פ}
(17) and the women neighbors gave him a name, saying, “A son is born to Naomi!” They named him Oved; he was the father of Yishai, father of David.
What does this mean [regarding naming children}?
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"Research demonstrates that facial appearance affects social perceptions. The current research investigates the reverse possibility: Can social perceptions influence facial appearance? We examine a social tag that is associated with us early in life-our given name. The hypothesis is that name stereotypes can be manifested in facial appearance, producing a face-name matching effect, whereby both a social perceiver and a computer are able to accurately match a person's name to his or her face." (from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 'We look like our names: The manifestation of name stereotypes in facial appearance' by Yonat Zwebner, Anne-Laure Sellier, Nir Rosenfeld, Jacob Goldenberg and Ruth Mayo)
(כה) אַל־נָ֣א יָשִׂ֣ים אֲדֹנִ֣י ׀ אֶת־לִבּ֡וֹ אֶל־אִישׁ֩ הַבְּלִיַּ֨עַל הַזֶּ֜ה עַל־נָבָ֗ל כִּ֤י כִשְׁמוֹ֙ כֶּן־ה֔וּא נָבָ֣ל שְׁמ֔וֹ וּנְבָלָ֖ה עִמּ֑וֹ
(25) Please, my lord, pay no attention to that wretched fellow Naval. For he is just what his name says: His name means ‘boor’ [a rough and bad-mannered person] and he is a boor.
The Ba'al Shem Tov (also known as Rabbi Nachman of Breslov), who lived from 1772-1810, wrote the following in his book Peninei Chassidut:
"The soul - נְשָׁמָה - the essence of a person - the central letters of the word "נְשָׁמָה" (= soul) is the word 'name', because a person's name represents a window into a person's soul."
Now let's go back to one of the first questions we asked...can you answer it any differently? You might need to do a bit of research or ask a friend for help...
What does your name mean? Why were you given your name? What do you think were your parents' intentions when they gave you your name?
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