הָיָה לְפָנָיו נֵר בֵּיתוֹ וְנֵר חֲנֻכָּה אוֹ נֵר בֵּיתוֹ וְקִדּוּשׁ הַיּוֹם נֵר בֵּיתוֹ קוֹדֵם מִשּׁוּם שְׁלוֹם בֵּיתוֹ שֶׁהֲרֵי הַשֵּׁם נִמְחָק לַעֲשׂוֹת שָׁלוֹם בֵּין אִישׁ לְאִשְׁתּוֹ. גָּדוֹל הַשָּׁלוֹם שֶׁכָּל הַתּוֹרָה נִתְּנָה לַעֲשׂוֹת שָׁלוֹם בָּעוֹלָם שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (משלי ג יז) "דְּרָכֶיהָ דַרְכֵי נֹעַם וְכָל נְתִיבֹתֶיהָ שָׁלוֹם":
If [a person has the opportunity to fulfill only one of two mitzvot,] lighting a lamp for one's home [i.e., Sabbath candles] or lighting a Chanukah lamp - or, alternatively, lighting a lamp for one's home or reciting kiddush - the lamp for one's home receives priority, since it generates peace within the home.
[Peace is of primary importance, as reflected by the mitzvah requiring] God's name to be blotted out to create peace between a husband and his wife. Peace is great, for the entire Torah was given to bring about peace within the world, as [Proverbs 3:17] states: "Its ways are pleasant ways and all its paths are peace."
Blessed be the Merciful One who grants assistance. This concludes the third book.
[Peace is of primary importance, as reflected by the mitzvah requiring] God's name to be blotted out to create peace between a husband and his wife. Peace is great, for the entire Torah was given to bring about peace within the world, as [Proverbs 3:17] states: "Its ways are pleasant ways and all its paths are peace."
Blessed be the Merciful One who grants assistance. This concludes the third book.
דָּרֵישׁ רַבִּי עֲקִיבָא: אִישׁ וְאִשָּׁה זָכוּ — שְׁכִינָה בֵּינֵיהֶן. לֹא זָכוּ — אֵשׁ אוֹכַלְתָּן.
§ Rabbi Akiva taught: If a man [ish] and woman [isha] merit reward through a faithful marriage, the Divine Presence rests between them. The words ish and isha are almost identical; the difference between them is the middle letter yod in ish, and the final letter heh in isha. These two letters can be joined to form the name of God spelled yod, heh. But if due to licentiousness they do not merit reward, the Divine Presence departs, leaving in each word only the letters alef and shin, which spell esh, fire. Therefore, fire consumes them.
אָמַר רַב יְהוּדָה: לְעוֹלָם יְהֵא אָדָם זָהִיר בִּתְבוּאָה בְּתוֹךְ בֵּיתוֹ, שֶׁאֵין מְרִיבָה מְצוּיָה בְּתוֹךְ בֵּיתוֹ שֶׁל אָדָם אֶלָּא עַל עִסְקֵי תְבוּאָה, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״הַשָּׂם גְּבוּלֵךְ שָׁלוֹם חֵלֶב חִטִּים יַשְׂבִּיעֵךְ״. אָמַר רַב פָּפָּא, הַיְינוּ דְּאָמְרִי אִינָשֵׁי: כְּמִשְׁלַם שְׂעָרֵי מִכַּדָּא, נָקֵישׁ וְאָתֵי תִּגְרָא בְּבֵיתָא.
Apropos the topic of how a man should approach his household, Rav Yehuda says: A person must always be careful about ensuring that there is grain inside his house, as discord is found in a person’s house only over matters of grain, as it is stated: “He makes your borders peace; He gives you plenty with the finest wheat” (Psalms 147:14). If there is the finest wheat in your house, there will be peace there. Rav Pappa said: This is in accordance with the adage that people say: When the barley is emptied from the jug, quarrel knocks and enters the house.
וְאָמַר רַבִּי חֶלְבּוֹ: לְעוֹלָם יְהֵא אָדָם זָהִיר בִּכְבוֹד אִשְׁתּוֹ, שֶׁאֵין בְּרָכָה מְצוּיָה בְּתוֹךְ בֵּיתוֹ שֶׁל אָדָם אֶלָּא בִּשְׁבִיל אִשְׁתּוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״וּלְאַבְרָם הֵטִיב בַּעֲבוּרָהּ״. וְהַיְינוּ דַּאֲמַר לְהוּ רָבָא לִבְנֵי מָחוֹזָא: אוֹקִירוּ לִנְשַׁיְיכוּ, כִּי הֵיכִי דְּתִתְעַתְּרוּ.
And Rabbi Ḥelbo says: A person must always be careful about sustaining the honor of his wife, as blessing is found in a person’s house only because of his wife, as it is stated in allusion to this: “And he dealt well with Abram for her sake, and he had sheep and oxen” (Genesis 12:16). And that is what Rava said to the residents of Meḥoza, where he lived: Honor your wives, so that you will become rich.
וְאָמַר רַב: כׇּל הַהוֹלֵךְ בַּעֲצַת אִשְׁתּוֹ נוֹפֵל בְּגֵיהִנָּם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״רַק לֹא הָיָה כְאַחְאָב וְגוֹ׳״. אֲמַר לֵיהּ רַב פָּפָּא לְאַבָּיֵי: וְהָא אָמְרִי אִינָשֵׁי, אִיתְּתָךְ גּוּצָא – גְּחֵין וְתִלְחוֹשׁ לָהּ! לָא קַשְׁיָא: הָא בְּמִילֵּי דְעָלְמָא, וְהָא בְּמִילֵּי דְבֵיתָא. לִישָּׁנָא אַחֲרִינָא: הָא בְּמִילֵּי דִשְׁמַיָּא, וְהָא בְּמִילֵּי דְעָלְמָא.
And Rav says: Nevertheless, anyone who follows the counsel of his wife descends into Gehenna, as it is stated: “But there was none like Ahab, who did give himself over to do that which was evil in the sight of the Lord, whom Jezebel his wife incited” (I Kings 21:25). Rav Pappa said to Abaye: But don’t people say a popular proverb: If your wife is short, stoop and whisper to her and consult with her? The Gemara answers: This is not difficult, as this statement of Rav instructs that one not follow her counsel in general matters; and that proverb instructs that one follow her counsel in household matters. The Gemara presents another version of this distinction: This statement of Rav maintains that one should not follow her counsel in divine matters; and that proverb maintains that one should follow her counsel in general matters.
אָמַר רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן יוֹחָאי גָּדוֹל הַשָּׁלוֹם, שֶׁכָּל הַבְּרָכוֹת כְּלוּלוֹת בּוֹ, (תהלים כט, יא): ה' עֹז לְעַמּוֹ יִתֵּן ה' יְבָרֵךְ אֶת עַמּוֹ בַשָּׁלוֹם. חִזְקִיָּה אָמַר תַּרְתֵּי, חִזְקִיָּה אָמַר גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁכָּל הַמִּצְווֹת כְּתִיב בְּהוּ (שמות כג, ד ה): כִּי תִרְאֶה, כִּי תִפְגַע, (דברים כב, ו): כִּי יִקָּרֵא, אִם בָּאת מִצְוָה לְיָדְךָ אַתָּה זָקוּק לַעֲשׂוֹתָהּ וְאִם לָאו אִי אַתָּה זָקוּק לַעֲשׂוֹתָהּ, בְּרַם הָכָא (תהלים לד, טו): בַּקֵּשׁ שָׁלוֹם וְרָדְפֵהוּ, בַּקְשֵׁהוּ לִמְקוֹמְךָ וְרָדְפֵהוּ לְמָקוֹם אַחֵר. חִזְקִיָּה אָמַר חוֹרֵי, גָּדוֹל הַשָּׁלוֹם שֶׁבְּכָל הַמַּסָּעוֹת כְּתִיב (במדבר לג, ה): וַיִּסְעוּ וַיַּחֲנוּ, נוֹסְעִים בְּמַחְלֹקֶת וְחוֹנִים בְּמַחְלֹקֶת, כֵּיוָן שֶׁבָּאוּ כֻלָּם לִפְנֵי הַר סִינַי נַעֲשׂוּ כֻּלָּם חֲנָיָה אַחַת, הֲדָא דִּכְתִיב (שמות יט, ב): וַיִּחַן שָׁם יִשְׂרָאֵל, וַיַּחֲנוּ שָׁם בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אֵין כְּתִיב כָּאן אֶלָּא וַיִּחַן שָׁם יִשְׂרָאֵל, אָמַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא הֲרֵי שָׁעָה שֶׁאֲנִי נוֹתֵן תּוֹרָה לְבָנָי. בַּר קַפָּרָא אָמַר תְּלַת, בַּר קַפָּרָא אָמַר גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁדִּבְּרוּ הַכְּתוּבִים דִּבְרֵי בַּדָּאוּת בַּתּוֹרָה בִּשְׁבִיל לְהַטִּיל שָׁלוֹם בֵּין אַבְרָהָם לְשָׂרָה, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (בראשית יח, יב): אַחֲרֵי בְלֹתִי הָיְתָה לִי עֶדְנָה וַאדֹנִי זָקֵן, אֲבָל לְאַבְרָהָם לֹא אָמַר כֵּן אֶלָּא (בראשית יח, יג): וַאֲנִי זָקַנְתִּי. בַּר קַפָּרָא אָמַר חוֹרֵי, גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁדִּבְּרוּ הַכְּתוּבִים לָשׁוֹן בָּדוּי בַּנְּבִיאִים בִּשְׁבִיל לְהַטִּיל שָׁלוֹם בֵּין אִישׁ לְאִשְׁתּוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (שופטים יג, ג): הִנֵּה נָא אַתְּ עֲקָרָה וְלֹא יָלַדְתְּ וְהָרִית וְיָלַדְתְּ בֵּן, אֲבָל לְמָנוֹחַ לֹא אָמַר כֵּן אֶלָּא (שופטים יג, יג): מִכֹּל אֲשֶׁר אָמַרְתִּי אֶל הָאִשָּׁה תִּשָּׁמֵר, מִכָּל מָקוֹם סַמָּנִים הִיא צְרִיכָה. בַּר קַפָּרָא אָמַר חוֹרֵי גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם, מַה אִם הָעֶלְיוֹנִים שֶׁאֵין לָהֶם לֹא קִנְאָה וְלֹא שִׂנְאָה וְלֹא תַּחְרוּת וְלֹא מַצּוֹת וְרִיבוֹת וְלֹא מַחְלֹקֶת וְלֹא עַיִן רָעָה צְרִיכִין שָׁלוֹם, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (איוב כה, ב): עֹשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם בִּמְרוֹמָיו, הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּהֶם כָּל הַמִּדּוֹת הַלָּלוּ עַל אַחַת כַּמָּה וְכַמָּה. אָמַר רַבָּן שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן גַּמְלִיאֵל גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁדִּבְּרוּ הַכְּתוּבִים לְשׁוֹן בַּדָּיוּת בַּתּוֹרָה לְהַטִּיל שָׁלוֹם בֵּין יוֹסֵף לְאֶחָיו, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (בראשית נ, יז): כֹּה תֹאמְרוּן לְיוֹסֵף אָנָא שָׂא נָא, וְלֹא אַשְׁכְּחָן בְּיַעֲקֹב דְּפַקַד כְּלוּם, אָמַר רַבִּי יוֹסֵי הַגְּלִילִי גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁאֲפִלּוּ בִּשְׁעַת מִלְחָמָה אֵין פּוֹתְחִין אֶלָּא בְּשָׁלוֹם, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (דברים כ, י): כִּי תִקְרַב אֶל עִיר וגו', אָמַר רַבִּי יוּדָן בֶּן רַבִּי יוֹסֵי גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁשְּׁמוֹ שֶׁל הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא נִקְרָא שָׁלוֹם, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (שופטים ו, כד): וַיִּקְרָא לוֹ ה' שָׁלוֹם. אָמַר רַבִּי תַּנְחוּם בַּר יוּדָן, מִכָּאן שֶׁאָסוּר לוֹ לְאָדָם לִשְׁאֹל בִּשְׁלוֹם חֲבֵרוֹ בְּמָקוֹם מְטֻנָּף. תָּנֵי רַבִּי יִשְׁמָעֵאל גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁשֵּׁם הַגָּדוֹל שֶׁנִּכְתַּב בִּקְדֻשָּׁה אָמַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא יִמָּחֶה בַּמַּיִם כְּדֵי לְהַטִּיל שָׁלוֹם בֵּין אִישׁ לְאִשְׁתּוֹ. רַבִּי מֵאִיר הֲוָה יָתִיב וְדָרִישׁ בְּלֵילֵי שַׁבַּתָּא הֲוָה תַּמָּן חָדָא אִתְּתָא יַצִּיבָא וְשָׁמְעָה לֵיהּ תָּנְתָא מִדְרָשָׁא, אַמְתִּינַת עַד דִּיחֲסַל מִמִּדְרָשׁ, אָזְלָה לְבֵיתָהּ אַשְׁכְּחָא בּוּצִינָא טָפֵי, אֲמַר לָהּ בַּעְלָהּ אָן הֲוֵית, אָמְרָה לֵיהּ אֲנָא יָתִיבָא וְשָׁמְעָה קָלֵיהּ דָּרוֹשָׁה, אֲמַר לָהּ כֵּן וְכֵן לָא אִעַיַּלְתְּ לְהָכָא עַד דַּאֲזַלְתְּ וְרוֹקַת בְּאַנְפֵּי דָרוֹשָׁה, יְתִיבָא שַׁבַּתָּא קַמַּיְיתָא תִּנְיָנָא וּתְלִיתָא, אֲמָרִין לָהּ מְגֵירָתָא כַּדּוּ אַתּוּן צְהִיבִין, אֲתֵינָן עִמָּךְ לְגַבֵּי דָּרוֹשָׁה, כֵּיוָן דְּחָמֵי יַתְהוֹן רַבִּי מֵאִיר צָפָה בְּרוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ, אֲמַר לְהוֹ אִית מִנְּכוֹן אִתְּתָא דְּחַכִּימָא לְמִלְחַשׁ בְּעֵינָא, אֲמָרִין לָהּ מְגֵירָתָא כַּדּוּ אַתְּ אָזְלַת וְרוֹקַת בְּאַנְפֵּיהּ וְתִשְׁרֵי לְבַעֲלִךְ, כֵּיוָן דְּיָתְבָא קַמֵּי אִידְחִילַת מִינֵיהּ, אֲמָרָה לֵיהּ רַבִּי לֵית אֲנָא חַכִּימָא לְמִילְחַשׁ עֵינָא, אֲמַר לָהּ אֲפִלּוּ הָכֵי רוֹקִי בְּאַנְפִּי שְׁבַע זִמְנִין וַאֲנָא מִינְשִׁים, עָבְדָה הָכִין. אֲמַר לָהּ אִיזִילִי אִמְרִי לְבַעֲלִיךָ אַתְּ אֲמַרְתְּ חָדָא זִימְנָא וַאֲנָא רָקֵית שְׁבַע זִימְנִין. אָמְרוּ לוֹ תַּלְמִידָיו רַבִּי כָּךְ מְבַזִּין אֶת הַתּוֹרָה, לָא הֲוָה לָךְ לְמֵימַר לְחַד מִינָן לְמִלְחַשׁ לָךְ, אֲמַר לְהוֹ לָא דַּיּוֹ לְמֵאִיר לִהְיוֹת שָׁוֶה לְקוֹנוֹ, דְּתָנֵי רַבִּי יִשְׁמָעֵאל גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁשֵּׁם הַגָּדוֹל שֶׁנִּכְתַּב בִּקְדֻשָּׁה אָמַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא יִמָּחֶה עַל הַמַּיִם בִּשְׁבִיל לְהַטִּיל שָׁלוֹם בֵּין אִישׁ לְאִשְׁתּוֹ. אָמַר רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן חֲלַפְתָּא גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁכְּשֶׁבָּרָא הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא אֶת עוֹלָמוֹ עָשָׂה שָׁלוֹם בֵּין הָעֶלְיוֹנִים לַתַּחְתּוֹנִים, בַּיּוֹם הָרִאשׁוֹן בָּרָא מִן הָעֶלְיוֹנִים וּמִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (בראשית א, א): בְּרֵאשִׁית בָּרָא אֱלֹהִים אֵת הַשָּׁמַיִם וְאֵת הָאָרֶץ, בַּשֵּׁנִי בָּרָא מִן הָעֶלְיוֹנִים, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (בראשית א, ו): וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים יְהִי רָקִיעַ, בַּשְּׁלִישִׁי בָּרָא מִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים, (בראשית א, ט): וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים יִקָּווּ הַמַּיִם, בָּרְבִיעִי מִן הָעֶלְיוֹנִים, (בראשית א, יד): יְהִי מְאֹרֹת בִּרְקִיעַ הַשָּׁמַיִם, בַּחֲמִישִׁי בָּרָא מִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים, (בראשית א, כ): וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים יִשְׁרְצוּ הַמַּיִם, בַּשִּׁשִּׁי בָּא לִבְראוֹת אָדָם, אָמַר אִם אֲנִי בּוֹרֵא אוֹתוֹ מִן הָעֶלְיוֹנִים הֲרֵי הָעֶלְיוֹנִים רַבִּים מִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים בְּרִיאָה אַחַת, אִם אֲנִי בּוֹרֵא אוֹתוֹ מִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים הֲרֵי הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים רַבִּים עַל הָעֶלְיוֹנִים בְּרִיאָה אַחַת, מֶה עָשָׂה בְּרָאוֹ מִן הָעֶלְיוֹנִים וּמִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (בראשית ב, ז): וַיִּיצֶר ה' אֱלֹהִים אֶת הָאָדָם עָפָר מִן הָאֲדָמָה מִן הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים, (בראשית ב, ז): וַיִּפַּח בְּאַפָּיו נִשְׁמַת חַיִּים מִן הָעֶלְיוֹנִים, רַבִּי מָנֵי דִּשְׁאַב וְרַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ דְּסִכְנִין בְּשֵׁם רַבִּי לֵוִי, גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁכָּל הַבְּרָכוֹת וְטוֹבוֹת וְנֶחָמוֹת שֶׁהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מְבִיאָן עַל יִשְׂרָאֵל, חוֹתְמִין בְּשָׁלוֹם, בִּקְרִיאַת שְׁמַע פּוֹרֵס סֻכַּת שָׁלוֹם, בַּתְּפִלָּה עוֹשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם, בְּבִרְכַּת כֹּהֲנִים (במדבר ו, כו): וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם. וְאֵין לִי אֶלָּא בַּבְּרָכוֹת בַּקָּרְבָּנוֹת מִנַיִן, (ויקרא ז, לז): זֹאת הַתּוֹרָה לָעֹלָה לַמִּנְחָה וְלַחַטָּאת וְלָאָשָׁם וְלַמִּלּוּאִים וּלְזֶבַח הַשְּׁלָמִים. אֵין לִי אֶלָּא בַּכְּלָל, בַּפְּרָט מִנַּיִן, (ויקרא ו, ב): זֹאת תּוֹרַת הָעֹלָה, (ויקרא ו, ז): זֹאת תּוֹרַת הַמִּנְחָה, (ויקרא ו, יח): זֹאת תּוֹרַת הַחַטָּאת, (ויקרא ז, א): זֹאת תּוֹרַת הָאָשָׁם, (ויקרא ז, יא): זֹאת תּוֹרַת זֶבַח הַשְּׁלָמִים, וְאֵין לִי אֶלָּא בְּקָרְבְּנוֹת יָחִיד, בְּקָרְבְּנוֹת צִבּוּר מִנַּיִן, תַּלְמוּד לוֹמַר (במדבר כט, לט): אֵלֶּה תַּעֲשׂוּ לַה' בְּמוֹעֲדֵיכֶם, וּמְסַיֵּם בִּשְׁלָמִים. וְאֵין לִי אֶלָּא בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה בָּעוֹלָם הַבָּא מִנַּיִן, (ישעיה סו, יב): הִנְנִי נֹטֶה אֵלֶיהָ כְּנָהָר שָׁלוֹם. רַבָּנָן אָמְרוּ גָּדוֹל שָׁלוֹם שֶׁכְּשֶׁמֶּלֶךְ הַמָּשִׁיחַ בָּא אֵינוֹ פּוֹתֵחַ אֶלָּא בְּשָׁלוֹם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ישעיה נב, ז): מַה נָּאווּ עַל הֶהָרִים רַגְלֵי מְבַשֵּׂר מַשְׁמִיעַ שָׁלוֹם.
Rabbi Shimon ben Yoḥai said: Great is peace, as all blessings are included in it. “The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace” (Psalms 29:11).
Ḥizkiya said two [statements]. Ḥizkiya said: Peace is great, as in the regard of all the mitzvot, it is written: “If you see…if you encounter” (Exodus 23:4–5); “if…will happen” (Deuteronomy 22:6). If a mitzva happens to present itself to you, you are obligated to perform it, and if not, you are not obligated to perform it. However, here, “seek peace and pursue it” (Psalms 34:15), seek it in your place and pursue it elsewhere.
Ḥizkiya said another: Peace is great, as regarding all the journeys it is written: “They traveled…they encamped” (Numbers 33:5); they traveled in dispute and they encamped in dispute. When they all came before Mount Sinai, they all became a single encampment. That is what is written: “Israel encamped [vayiḥan] there” (Exodus 19:2). It is not written here “Israel encamped [vayaḥanu] there,” but rather “Israel encamped [vayiḥan] there.” The Holy One blessed be He said: ‘This is the moment that I am giving the Torah to My children.’
Bar Kappara said three. Bar Kappara said: Great is peace, as the verses presented matters of falsehood in the Torah in order to institute peace between Abraham and Sarah. That is what is written: “After my withering, will I have youth, and my lord is old?” (Genesis 18:12). But to Abraham He did not say so, but rather: “And I have grown old” (Genesis 18:13).
Bar Kappara said another: Great is peace, as the verse employed expressions of falsehood in the prophets in order to institute peace between a man and his wife, as it is stated: “Behold now, you are barren and have not given birth; but you will conceive, and you will give birth to a son” (Judges 13:3). But to Mano’aḥ, he did not say so, but rather, “The angel of the Lord said to Mano'ah: From everything that I said to the woman let her beware” (Judges 13:13). In any case, she requires medicine.
Bar Kappara said another: Great is peace. If the supernal beings who do not have jealousy, hatred, rivalry, strife, quarrels, dispute, or the evil eye require peace – that is what is written: “He makes peace in His heights” (Job 25:2); the earthly beings, who have all these traits, all the more so.
Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel said: Great is peace, as the verses employed expressions of falsehood in the Torah in order to institute peace between Joseph and his brothers. That is what is written: “So say to Joseph: Please, forgive [the transgression of your brothers and their sin as they did evil to you]” (Genesis 50:17), and we do not find that Jacob commanded anything.
Rabbi Yosei HaGelili said: Great is peace as, even in times of war, one opens only with peace. That is what is written: “When you approach a city to wage war against it, [you shall call to it for peace]” (Deuteronomy 20:10).
Rabbi Yudan ben Rabbi Yosei said: Great is peace, as the name of the Holy One blessed be He is called peace. That is what is written: “He called it: The Lord is peace” (Judges 6:24). Rabbi Tanḥum bar Yudan said: From here [it may be derived] that it is prohibited for a person to ask after the welfare of another in a filthy place.
Rabbi Yishmael taught: Great is peace, as the Holy One blessed be He said that the great name that is written in sanctity should be erased in water in order to institute peace between a man and his wife.
Rabbi Meir would sit and lecture on Shabbat at night. There was a certain woman who would stand there and listen to him teaching the lecture, and she would wait until he concluded the lecture. [Once,] she went home and found the lamps extinguished. Her husband said to her: ‘Where were you?’ She said to him: ‘I was sitting and listening to the voice of the lecturer.’ He said to her: ‘Such and such shall befall me; you will not enter here until you go and spit in the face of that lecturer.’ She remained outside the first, second, and third weeks. Her neighbors said to her: ‘Are you still angry with one another? We will come with you to the lecturer.’ When Rabbi Meir saw them, he saw through the Divine Spirit. He said to them: ‘Is there a woman among you who is proficient in chanting to heal the eye?’ Her neighbors said to her: ‘Go now and spit in his face and release your husband of his vow.’ When she sat before him, she feared him. She said to him: ‘Rabbi, I am not proficient in chanting to heal the eye.’ He said to her: ‘Even so, spit in my face seven times, and I will be relieved.’ She did so. He said to her: ‘Go say to your husband: You said one time, but I spat seven times.’ His students said to him: ‘Rabbi, should the Torah be demeaned in this way? Should you not have said to one of us to chant for you?’ He said to them: ‘Is it not sufficient for Meir to be like his Maker, as Rabbi Yishmael taught: Great is peace, as the the Holy One blessed be He said that the great name that is written in sanctity should be erased in water in order to institute peace between a man and his wife.’
Rabbi Shimon ben Ḥalafta said: Great is peace, as when the Holy One blessed be He created His world He made peace between the supernal and the earthly. On the first day, He created part of the supernal and part of the earthly [realms]. That is what is written: “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1). On the second, He created from the supernal [realm]. That is what is written: “Let there be a firmament” (Genesis 1:6). On the third, He created from the earthly [realm]. That is what is written: “Let the water be gathered” (Genesis 1:9). On the fourth, from the supernal [realm]: “Let there be lights in the firmament of the heavens” (Genesis 1:14). On the fifth, He created from the earthly [realm]: “God said: Let the water swarm” (Genesis 1:20). On the sixth, He came to create man. He said: If I create him from the supernal, the supernal will be more numerous than the earthly by one creation. If I create him from the earthly, the earthly will be more numerous than the supernal by one creation. What did He do? He created him from the supernal and from the earthly. That is what is written: “The Lord God formed man of dust from the ground” (Genesis 2:7); from the earthly, “and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life” (Genesis 2:7); from the supernal.
Rabbi Mani of She’av and Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin in the name of Rabbi Levi: Great is peace, as all the blessings, goodness, and consolations that the Holy One blessed be He brings upon Israel conclude with peace. In the recitation of Shema: Who spreads a canopy of peace; in prayer: He who makes peace; in the Priestly Benediction: “And grant you peace” (Numbers 6:26). I have [provided sources] only in blessings; from where is it derived regarding offerings? “This is the Torah for the burnt offering, for the meal offering, and for the sin offering, and for the guilt offering, and for the investiture offering, and for the peace offering” (Leviticus 7:37). I have only regarding the general; where is it derived in specific? “This is the law of the burnt offering” (Leviticus 6:2); “This is the law of the meal offering” (Leviticus 6:7); “This is the law of the sin offering” (Leviticus 6:18); “This is the law of the guilt offering” (Leviticus 7:1); “This is the law of the peace offering” (Leviticus 7:11). I have [provided a source] only regarding individual offerings; from where is it derived regarding communal offerings? The verse states: “These you shall offer to the Lord in your appointed times” (Numbers 29:39), and it concludes with peace offerings. And I have [provided a source] only in this world; from where is it derived regarding the World to Come? “I will extend peace to it like a river” (Isaiah 66:12). The Rabbis say: Great is peace, as when the messianic king comes, he will open only with peace, as it is stated: “How pleasant are the feet of the herald on the mountains, announcing peace” (Isaiah 52:7).
Ḥizkiya said two [statements]. Ḥizkiya said: Peace is great, as in the regard of all the mitzvot, it is written: “If you see…if you encounter” (Exodus 23:4–5); “if…will happen” (Deuteronomy 22:6). If a mitzva happens to present itself to you, you are obligated to perform it, and if not, you are not obligated to perform it. However, here, “seek peace and pursue it” (Psalms 34:15), seek it in your place and pursue it elsewhere.
Ḥizkiya said another: Peace is great, as regarding all the journeys it is written: “They traveled…they encamped” (Numbers 33:5); they traveled in dispute and they encamped in dispute. When they all came before Mount Sinai, they all became a single encampment. That is what is written: “Israel encamped [vayiḥan] there” (Exodus 19:2). It is not written here “Israel encamped [vayaḥanu] there,” but rather “Israel encamped [vayiḥan] there.” The Holy One blessed be He said: ‘This is the moment that I am giving the Torah to My children.’
Bar Kappara said three. Bar Kappara said: Great is peace, as the verses presented matters of falsehood in the Torah in order to institute peace between Abraham and Sarah. That is what is written: “After my withering, will I have youth, and my lord is old?” (Genesis 18:12). But to Abraham He did not say so, but rather: “And I have grown old” (Genesis 18:13).
Bar Kappara said another: Great is peace, as the verse employed expressions of falsehood in the prophets in order to institute peace between a man and his wife, as it is stated: “Behold now, you are barren and have not given birth; but you will conceive, and you will give birth to a son” (Judges 13:3). But to Mano’aḥ, he did not say so, but rather, “The angel of the Lord said to Mano'ah: From everything that I said to the woman let her beware” (Judges 13:13). In any case, she requires medicine.
Bar Kappara said another: Great is peace. If the supernal beings who do not have jealousy, hatred, rivalry, strife, quarrels, dispute, or the evil eye require peace – that is what is written: “He makes peace in His heights” (Job 25:2); the earthly beings, who have all these traits, all the more so.
Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel said: Great is peace, as the verses employed expressions of falsehood in the Torah in order to institute peace between Joseph and his brothers. That is what is written: “So say to Joseph: Please, forgive [the transgression of your brothers and their sin as they did evil to you]” (Genesis 50:17), and we do not find that Jacob commanded anything.
Rabbi Yosei HaGelili said: Great is peace as, even in times of war, one opens only with peace. That is what is written: “When you approach a city to wage war against it, [you shall call to it for peace]” (Deuteronomy 20:10).
Rabbi Yudan ben Rabbi Yosei said: Great is peace, as the name of the Holy One blessed be He is called peace. That is what is written: “He called it: The Lord is peace” (Judges 6:24). Rabbi Tanḥum bar Yudan said: From here [it may be derived] that it is prohibited for a person to ask after the welfare of another in a filthy place.
Rabbi Yishmael taught: Great is peace, as the Holy One blessed be He said that the great name that is written in sanctity should be erased in water in order to institute peace between a man and his wife.
Rabbi Meir would sit and lecture on Shabbat at night. There was a certain woman who would stand there and listen to him teaching the lecture, and she would wait until he concluded the lecture. [Once,] she went home and found the lamps extinguished. Her husband said to her: ‘Where were you?’ She said to him: ‘I was sitting and listening to the voice of the lecturer.’ He said to her: ‘Such and such shall befall me; you will not enter here until you go and spit in the face of that lecturer.’ She remained outside the first, second, and third weeks. Her neighbors said to her: ‘Are you still angry with one another? We will come with you to the lecturer.’ When Rabbi Meir saw them, he saw through the Divine Spirit. He said to them: ‘Is there a woman among you who is proficient in chanting to heal the eye?’ Her neighbors said to her: ‘Go now and spit in his face and release your husband of his vow.’ When she sat before him, she feared him. She said to him: ‘Rabbi, I am not proficient in chanting to heal the eye.’ He said to her: ‘Even so, spit in my face seven times, and I will be relieved.’ She did so. He said to her: ‘Go say to your husband: You said one time, but I spat seven times.’ His students said to him: ‘Rabbi, should the Torah be demeaned in this way? Should you not have said to one of us to chant for you?’ He said to them: ‘Is it not sufficient for Meir to be like his Maker, as Rabbi Yishmael taught: Great is peace, as the the Holy One blessed be He said that the great name that is written in sanctity should be erased in water in order to institute peace between a man and his wife.’
Rabbi Shimon ben Ḥalafta said: Great is peace, as when the Holy One blessed be He created His world He made peace between the supernal and the earthly. On the first day, He created part of the supernal and part of the earthly [realms]. That is what is written: “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1). On the second, He created from the supernal [realm]. That is what is written: “Let there be a firmament” (Genesis 1:6). On the third, He created from the earthly [realm]. That is what is written: “Let the water be gathered” (Genesis 1:9). On the fourth, from the supernal [realm]: “Let there be lights in the firmament of the heavens” (Genesis 1:14). On the fifth, He created from the earthly [realm]: “God said: Let the water swarm” (Genesis 1:20). On the sixth, He came to create man. He said: If I create him from the supernal, the supernal will be more numerous than the earthly by one creation. If I create him from the earthly, the earthly will be more numerous than the supernal by one creation. What did He do? He created him from the supernal and from the earthly. That is what is written: “The Lord God formed man of dust from the ground” (Genesis 2:7); from the earthly, “and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life” (Genesis 2:7); from the supernal.
Rabbi Mani of She’av and Rabbi Yehoshua of Sikhnin in the name of Rabbi Levi: Great is peace, as all the blessings, goodness, and consolations that the Holy One blessed be He brings upon Israel conclude with peace. In the recitation of Shema: Who spreads a canopy of peace; in prayer: He who makes peace; in the Priestly Benediction: “And grant you peace” (Numbers 6:26). I have [provided sources] only in blessings; from where is it derived regarding offerings? “This is the Torah for the burnt offering, for the meal offering, and for the sin offering, and for the guilt offering, and for the investiture offering, and for the peace offering” (Leviticus 7:37). I have only regarding the general; where is it derived in specific? “This is the law of the burnt offering” (Leviticus 6:2); “This is the law of the meal offering” (Leviticus 6:7); “This is the law of the sin offering” (Leviticus 6:18); “This is the law of the guilt offering” (Leviticus 7:1); “This is the law of the peace offering” (Leviticus 7:11). I have [provided a source] only regarding individual offerings; from where is it derived regarding communal offerings? The verse states: “These you shall offer to the Lord in your appointed times” (Numbers 29:39), and it concludes with peace offerings. And I have [provided a source] only in this world; from where is it derived regarding the World to Come? “I will extend peace to it like a river” (Isaiah 66:12). The Rabbis say: Great is peace, as when the messianic king comes, he will open only with peace, as it is stated: “How pleasant are the feet of the herald on the mountains, announcing peace” (Isaiah 52:7).
וְאָמַר רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר, מַאי דִּכְתִיב ״אֶעֱשֶׂה לּוֹ עֵזֶר כְּנֶגְדּוֹ״: זָכָה — עוֹזַרְתּוֹ, לֹא זָכָה — כְּנֶגְדּוֹ. וְאִיכָּא דְּאָמְרִי: רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר רָמֵי, כְּתִיב ״כְּנַגְּדוֹ״, וְקָרֵינַן ״כְּנֶגְדּוֹ״. זָכָה — כְּנֶגְדּוֹ, לֹא זָכָה — מְנַגַּדְתּוֹ.
And Rabbi Elazar said: What is the meaning of that which is written: “I will make him a helpmate for him [kenegdo]” (Genesis 2:18)? If one is worthy his wife helps him; if he is not worthy she is against him. And some say a slightly different version: Rabbi Elazar raised a contradiction: It is written in the Torah with a spelling that allows it to be read: Striking him [kenagdo], and we read it as though it said: For him [kenegdo]. If he is worthy she is for him as his helpmate; if he is not worthy she strikes him.
וּכְדֵי לְבַטֵּל הַמַּחֲלֹקֶת מֵאֵיזֶה בְּחִינָה שֶׁתִּהְיֶה וְלַעֲשׂוֹת שָׁלוֹם, עַל־זֶה צָרִיךְ תַּעֲנִית. וְזֶה מַה שֶּׁאָמְרוּ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (אבות פ"ב): מַרְבֶּה צְדָקָה – מַרְבֶּה שָׁלוֹם. צְדָקָה הוּא בְּחִינַת תַּעֲנִית, כִּי עִקַּר הַתַּעֲנִית הוּא צְדָקָה, כְּמַאֲמַר חֲכָמֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (ברכות ו): אַגְרָא דְּתַעֲנִיתָא צִדְקְתָא,
Now, in order to eliminate the strife, no matter what aspect it may be, and make peace—fasting is necessary. This is as our Sages teach: The more charity, the more peace (Avot 2:7). Charity is an aspect of fasting. For the essence of fasting is charity, as our Sages teach: The merit of fasting is charity (Berakhot 6b).
וַיִּקַּ֣ח קֹ֔רַח בֶּן־יִצְהָ֥ר בֶּן־קְהָ֖ת בֶּן־לֵוִ֑י וְדָתָ֨ן וַאֲבִירָ֜ם בְּנֵ֧י אֱלִיאָ֛ב וְא֥וֹן בֶּן־פֶּ֖לֶת בְּנֵ֥י רְאוּבֵֽן׃
Now Korah, son of Izhar son of Kohath son of Levi, betook himself, along with Dathan and Abiram sons of Eliab, and On son of Peleth—descendants of Reuben —