- What parts of life are reflected in these blessings?
- What parts of life are missing?
- Do you see how the construction of these blessings loosely mirrors the creation of the world? What do you think that conveys?
- What blessings would you want to be promised in exchange for fealty?
- How does the quid pro quo framing of the divine relationship feel to you? Does the proposed exchange feel reasonable and realistic, or problematic?
John Tierney and Roy Baumeister [in their book, The Power of Bad] have a point that bad is more powerful than good. We are predisposed to notice negative phenomena. They generate responses of freeze, fight, or flight, and these reactions are powerful and very fast acting. We notice threats more than reassurance. Bad news has greater impact than good news. In fact, often the good news does not count as news at all. It is easier to make someone believe something negative about another person or group than something positive. John Gottman, the doyen of marriage research, argues that for a marriage to succeed it must contain five times as many positive experiences as negative ones, since the negatives are felt so intensely. That is the ra in metzora, the evil of evil speech. Words have power, but bad words have the greatest power. They are a genuinely destructive force.
(14) But if you do not obey Me and do not observe all these commandments, (15) if you reject My laws and spurn My rules, so that you do not observe all My commandments and you break My covenant, (16) I in turn will do this to you: I will wreak misery upon you—consumption and fever, which cause the eyes to pine and the body to languish; you shall sow your seed to no purpose, for your enemies shall eat it. (17) I will set My face against you: you shall be routed by your enemies, and your foes shall dominate you. You shall flee though none pursues. (18) And if, for all that, you do not obey Me, I will go on to discipline you sevenfold for your sins, (19) and I will break your proud glory. I will make your skies like iron and your earth like copper, (20) so that your strength shall be spent to no purpose. Your land shall not yield its produce, nor shall the trees of the land yield their fruit.
- How does the text of this parasha feel different if applied to the community versus the individual?
- How can we help each other find blessings?
