Guiding Question: Are we a combination of all of our different selves or are we constantly evolving to the most true version of ourselves?
(א) לַכֹּ֖ל זְמָ֑ן וְעֵ֥ת לְכׇל־חֵ֖פֶץ תַּ֥חַת הַשָּׁמָֽיִם׃
וְעֵ֣ת לָמ֑וּת עֵ֣ת לָטַ֔עַת וְעֵ֖ת לַעֲק֥וֹר נָטֽוּעַ׃
(ג) עֵ֤ת לַהֲרוֹג֙ וְעֵ֣ת לִרְפּ֔וֹא עֵ֥ת לִפְר֖וֹץ וְעֵ֥ת לִבְנֽוֹת׃ (ד) עֵ֤ת לִבְכּוֹת֙ וְעֵ֣ת לִשְׂח֔וֹק עֵ֥ת סְפ֖וֹד וְעֵ֥ת רְקֽוֹד׃ (ה) עֵ֚ת לְהַשְׁלִ֣יךְ אֲבָנִ֔ים וְעֵ֖ת כְּנ֣וֹס
אֲבָנִ֑ים עֵ֣ת לַחֲב֔וֹק וְעֵ֖ת לִרְחֹ֥ק מֵחַבֵּֽק׃ (ו) עֵ֤ת לְבַקֵּשׁ֙ וְעֵ֣ת
לְאַבֵּ֔ד עֵ֥ת לִשְׁמ֖וֹר וְעֵ֥ת לְהַשְׁלִֽיךְ׃ (ז) עֵ֤ת לִקְר֙וֹעַ֙ וְעֵ֣ת לִתְפּ֔וֹר עֵ֥ת לַחֲשׁ֖וֹת וְעֵ֥ת לְדַבֵּֽר׃ (ח)
עֵ֤ת לֶֽאֱהֹב֙ וְעֵ֣ת לִשְׂנֹ֔א עֵ֥ת מִלְחָמָ֖ה וְעֵ֥ת שָׁלֽוֹם׃ (ט) מַה־יִּתְרוֹן֙ הָֽעוֹשֶׂ֔ה בַּאֲשֶׁ֖ר ה֥וּא עָמֵֽל׃
Ecclesiastes 3 - multiple selves
(1) A season is set for everything, a time for every experience under heaven (2) A time for being born and a time for dying, A time for planting and a time for uprooting the planted; (3) A time for slaying and a time for healing, A time for tearing down and a time for building up;
(4) A time for weeping and a time for laughing, A time for wailing and a time for dancing; (5) A time for throwing stones and a time for gathering stones,
A time for embracing and a time for shunning embraces; (6) A time for seeking and a time for losing, A time for keeping and a time for discarding;
(7) A time for ripping and a time for sewing, A time for silence and a time for speaking; (8) A time for loving and a time for hating;
A time for war and a time for peace. (9)
What do you take this text to mean? Do you agree with it?
How can we learn to show up in life from this text?
Match up songs from Red with these verses
- State of Grace
- Red
- Treacherous
- I Knew You Were Trouble
- All Too Well
- 22
- I Almost Do
- We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together
- Stay Stay Stay
- The Last Time
- Holy Ground
- Sad Beautiful Tragic
- The Lucky One
- Everything Has Changed
- Starlight
- Begin Again
- The Moment I Knew
- Come Back... Be Here
- Girl at Home
- State of Grace
- Ronan
- Better Man
- Nothing New
- Babe
- Message in a Bottle
- I Bet You Think About Me
- Forever Winter
- Run
- The Very First Night
- All Too Well
"You Belong With Me" Taylor: You guys!
"Out Of The Woods" Zombie: Stop making that surprised face, you're so annoying.
"Shake It Off" Taylor: Yeah, you can't possibly be that surprised all the time.
"LWYMMD" Taylor: What's with that bitch?
"Out Of The Woods" Zombie: Don't call me that!
Fearless Era Taylor: Y'all!
"We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" Taylor: Oh, stop acting like you're so nice! You are so fake!
Biker Taylor: There she goes, playing the victim again.
Met Gala 2014 Taylor: What are you doing?
Cheetah Taylor: Getting receipts, Gonna edit this later!
2009 VMA Taylor: I would very much like to be excluded from this narrative...
All: Shut up!
Evolution -- The Story of Rev Zusha
In the late 1700s, every day rabbinic students crowded to the beit midrash—the house of Jewish religious study—in Anipoli, Ukraine, to learn from the mystical Hasidic rabbi Zusha.
One day, Zusha did not appear at the usual hour. The students waited and, finally, rushed to Zusha’s house to check on him.
They found the rabbi in his bed, too ill to get up. He was dying and he was terribly upset. His students felt confused.
Student: “Haven’t you taught us that all living things must die, that it is natural? Why are you upset?”
Rev Zusha: “Yes, it is natural to die. All living things must die,” he said.
Student: “Then you have no need to be upset. You have lived a life with as much faith as Abraham. You have followed the commandments as carefully as Moses.”
The rabbi summoned his strength to answer his students.
Rev Zusha: “Thank you,” he said. “But that is not why I am upset. If God asks me why I didn’t act more like Abraham, I’ll say because I am not Abraham. If he asks me why I didn’t act more like Moses, I’ll say I am not Moses.”
Then he paused and looked at his students. His eyes filled with tears.
Rev Zusha: “I am upset because I have been wondering, if God asks me why I didn’t act more like Zusha, what then will I say?”
What does Zusha mean by this?
How do you think his students responded?
How can you tell when you're being yourself?
Taylor Swift Lyrics
You’re on Your Own Kid
'Cause there were pages turned with the bridges burned
Everything you lose is a step you take
So make the friendship bracelets
Take the moment and taste it
You've got no reason to be afraid
You're on your own, kid
Mirror Ball
I want you to know
I'm a mirrorball
I'll show you every version of yourself tonight
I'll get you out on the floor
Shimmering beautiful
And when I break it's in a million pieces
----
And they called off the circus
Burned the disco down
When they sent home the horses
And the rodeo clowns
I'm still on that tightrope
I'm still trying everything to get you laughing at me
I'm still a believer but I don't know why
I've never been a natural
All I do is try, try, try
I'm still on that trapeze
I'm still trying everything
To keep you looking at me
Because I'm a mirrorball
I'm a mirrorball
I'll show you every version of yourself
Tonight
Question...?
'Cause I don't remember who I was before you
Painted all my nights
A color I've searched for since
But one thing after another
….
Can I ask you a question?
Did you ever have someone kiss you in a crowded room
And every single one of your friends was
Making fun of you
But 15 seconds later they were clapping too?
Anti Hero
It's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me
At tea time, everybody agrees
I'll stare directly at the sun but never in the mirror
It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero
Look What You Made Me Do
But I got smarter, I got harder in the nick of time
Honey, I rose up from the dead, I do it all the time
I got a list of names, and yours is in red, underlined
I check it once, then I check it twice, oh!
...
I'm sorry
But the old Taylor can't come to the phone right now
Why? Oh, 'cause she's dead (oh)
Fifteen
When all you wanted
Was to be wanted
Wish you could go back
And tell yourself what you know now
...
'Cause when you're fifteen,
Somebody tells you they love you
You're gonna believe them
And when you're fifteen
Don't forget to look before you fall
I've found time can heal most anything
And you just might find who you're supposed to be
I didn't know who I was supposed to be
At fifteen
Daylight
And I can still see it all (In my mind)
All of you, all of me (Intertwined)
I once believed love would be (Black and white)
But it's golden (Golden)
And I can still see it all (In my head)
Back and forth from New York (Sneaking in your bed)
I once believed love would be (Burning red)
But it's golden
Like daylight, like daylight
Like daylight, daylight
Me!
I know that I'm a handful, baby, uh
I know I never think before I jump
And you're the kind of guy the ladies want
(And there's a lot of cool chicks out there)
I know that I went psycho on the phone
I never leave well enough alone
And trouble's gonna follow where I go
(And there's a lot of cool chicks out there)
...
I'm the only one of me
Baby, that's the fun of me