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Weekly Torah Study: Ki Tetze 5783/2023

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Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu laasok b’divrei Torah.

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Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of all, who hallows us with mitzvot, commanding us to engage with words of Torah.

  • Dedications?
(ו) כִּ֣י יִקָּרֵ֣א *(בספרי תימן קַן בקו״ף גדולה)קַן־צִפּ֣וֹר ׀ לְפָנֶ֡יךָ בַּדֶּ֜רֶךְ בְּכׇל־עֵ֣ץ ׀ א֣וֹ עַל־הָאָ֗רֶץ אֶפְרֹחִים֙ א֣וֹ בֵיצִ֔ים וְהָאֵ֤ם רֹבֶ֙צֶת֙ עַל־הָֽאֶפְרֹחִ֔ים א֖וֹ עַל־הַבֵּיצִ֑ים לֹא־תִקַּ֥ח הָאֵ֖ם עַל־הַבָּנִֽים׃ (ז) שַׁלֵּ֤חַ תְּשַׁלַּח֙ אֶת־הָאֵ֔ם וְאֶת־הַבָּנִ֖ים תִּֽקַּֽח־לָ֑ךְ לְמַ֙עַן֙ יִ֣יטַב לָ֔ךְ וְהַאֲרַכְתָּ֖ יָמִֽים׃ {ס}
(6) If, along the road, you chance upon a bird’s nest, in any tree or on the ground, with fledglings or eggs and the mother sitting over the fledglings or on the eggs, do not take the mother together with her young. (7) Let the mother go, and take only the young, in order that you may fare well and have a long life.
  • How does removing the mother benefit us?
  • How do we 'fare well'? How much 'long life' credit do we earn?
(כח) וְשׁ֖וֹר אוֹ־שֶׂ֑ה אֹת֣וֹ וְאֶת־בְּנ֔וֹ לֹ֥א תִשְׁחֲט֖וּ בְּי֥וֹם אֶחָֽד׃
(28) However, no animal from the herd or from the flock shall be slaughtered on the same day with its young.
(א) כי יקרא קן צפור לפניך גם זו מצוה מבוארת מן אותו ואת בנו לא תשחטו ביום אחד (ויקרא כב כח) כי הטעם בשניהם לבלתי היות לנו לב אכזרי ולא נרחם או שלא יתיר הכתוב לעשות השחתה לעקור המין אע"פ שהתיר השחיטה במין ההוא והנה ההורג האם והבנים ביום אחד או לוקח אותם בהיות להם דרור לעוף כאלו יכרית המין ההוא וכתב הרב במורה הנבוכים (ג מח) כי טעם שלוח הקן וטעם אותו ואת בנו לא תשחטו ביום אחד כדי להזהיר שלא ישחוט הבן בעיני האם כי יש לבהמות דאגה גדולה בזה ואין הפרש בין דאגת האדם לדאגת הבהמות על בניהם כי אהבת האם וחנותה לבני בטנה איננו נמשך אחרי השכל והדבור אבל הוא מפעולת כח המחשבה המצויה בבהמות כאשר היא מצויה באדם ואם כן אין עיקר האיסור באותו ואת בנו רק בבנו ואותו אבל הכל הרחקה ויותר נכון בעבור שלא נתאכזר ואמר הרב ואל תשיב עלי ממאמר החכמים (ברכות לג) האומר על קן צפור יגיעו רחמיך כי זו אחת משתי סברות סברת מי שיראה כי אין טעם למצות אלא חפץ הבורא ואנחנו מחזיקים בסברא השניה שיהיה בכל המצות טעם והוקשה עליו עוד מה שמצא בב"ר (מד א) וכי מה איכפת לו להקב"ה בין שוחט מן הצואר לשוחט מן העורף הא לא נתנו המצות אלא לצרף בהם את הבריות שנאמר (משלי ל ה) כל אמרת אלוק צרופה וזה הענין שגזר הרב במצות שיש להם טעם מבואר הוא מאד כי בכל אחד טעם ותועלת ותקון לאדם מלבד שכרן מאת המצוה בהן יתברך וכבר ארז"ל (סנהדרין כא) מפני מה לא נתגלו טעמי תורה וכו' ודרשו (פסחים קיט) ולמכסה עתיק זה המגלה דברים שכסה עתיק יומין ומאי ניהו טעמי תורה וכבר דרשו בפרה אדומה (במדב"ר יט ג ד) שאמר שלמה על הכל עמדתי ופרשה של פרה אדומה חקרתי ושאלתי ופשפשתי אמרתי אחכמה והיא רחוקה ממני (קהלת ז כג) ואמר ר' יוסי בר' חנינא אמר לו הקב"ה למשה לך אני מגלה טעם פרה אדומה אבל לאחרים חקה דכתיב (זכריה יד ו) והיה ביום ההוא לא יהיה אור יקרות וקפאון יקפאון כתיב דברים המכוסים מכם בעולם הזה עתידין להיות צפויים לעולם הבא כהדין סמיא דצפי דכתיב (ישעיהו מב טז) והולכתי עורים בדרך לא ידעו וכתיב (שם) אלה הדברים עשיתים ולא עזבתים שכבר עשיתים לר' עקיבא הנה בארו שאין מניעות טעמי תורה ממנו אלא עורון בשכלנו ושכבר נתגלה טעם החמורה שבהם לחכמי ישראל וכאלה רבות בדבריהם ובתורה ובמקרא דברים רבים מודיעין כן והרב הזכיר מהן אבל אלו ההגדות אשר נתקשו על הרב כפי דעתי ענין אחר להם שרצו לומר שאין התועלת במצות להקב"ה בעצמו יתעלה אבל התועלת באדם עצמו למנוע ממנו נזק או אמונה רעה או מדה מגונה או לזכור הנסים ונפלאות הבורא יתברך ולדעת את השם וזהו לצרף בהן שיהיו ככסף צרוף כי הצורף הכסף אין מעשהו בלא טעם אבל להוציא ממנו כל סיג וכן המצות להוציא מלבנו כל אמונה רעה ולהודיענו האמת ולזוכרו תמיד ולשון זו האגדה עצמה הוזכרה בילמדנו (תנחומא שמיני ח) בפרשת זאת החיה וכי מה איכפת לו להקב"ה בין שוחט בהמה ואוכל או נוחר ואוכל כלום אתה מועילו או כלום אתה מזיקו או מה איכפת לו בין אוכל טהורות או אוכל טמאות אם חכמת חכמת לך (משלי ט יב) הא לא נתנו המצות אלא לצרף את הבריות שנאמר (תהלים יב ז) אמרות ה' אמרות טהורות ונאמר כל אמרת אלוק צרופה למה שיהא מגין עליך הנה מפורש בכאן שלא באו לומר אלא שאין התועלת אליו יתעלה שיצטרך לאורה כמחושב מן המנורה ושיצטרך למאכל הקרבנות וריח הקטרת כנראה מפשוטיהם ואפילו הזכר לנפלאותיו שעשה שצוה לעשות לזכר ליציאת מצרים ומעשה בראשית אין התועלת לו רק שנדע אנחנו האמת ונזכה בו עד שנהיה ראויים להיות מגן עלינו כי דבורנו וזכרנו בנפלאותיו מאפס ותוהו נחשבו לו והביא ראיה מן השוחט מן הצואר והעורף לומר שכולם לנו ולא להקב"ה לפי שלא יתכן לומר בשחיטה שיהא בה תועלת וכבוד לבורא יתברך בצואר יותר מהעורף או הניחור אלא לנו הם להדריכנו בנתיבות הרחמים גם בעת השחיטה והביאו ראיה אחרת או מה איכפת לו בין אוכל טהורות והם המאכלים המותרים לאוכל טמאות והם המאכלים האסורים שאמרה בהם התורה (ויקרא יא כח) טמאים המה לכם ורמז שהוא להיותנו נקיי הנפש חכמים משכילי האמת ואמרם אם חכמת חכמת לך הזכירו כי המצות המעשיות כגון שחיטת הצואר ללמדנו המדות הטובות והמצות הגזירות הגדורות במינין לזקק את נפשותינו כמו שאמרה תורה (שם כ כה) ולא תשקצו את נפשותיכם בבהמה ובעוף ובכל אשר תרמוש האדמה אשר הבדלתי לכם לטמא א"כ כלם לתועלתנו בלבד וזה כמו שאמר אליהוא (איוב לה ו) אם חטאת מה תפעל בו ורבו פשעיך מה תעשה לו ואמר (שם פסוק ז) או מה מידך יקח וזה דבר מוסכם בכל דברי רבותינו ושאלו בירושלמי בנדרים (פ"ט ה"א) אם פותחין לאדם בכבוד המקום בדברים שבינו לבין המקום והשיבו על השאלה הזאת אי זהו כבוד המקום כגון סוכה שאיני עושה לולב שאיני נוטל תפילין שאיני מניח והיינו כבוד המקום משמע דלנפשיה הוא דמהני כהדא אם צדקת מה תתן לו או מה מידך יקח אם חטאת מה תפעל בו ורבו פשעיך מה תעשה לו הנה בארו שאפילו הלולב והסוכה והתפילין שצוה בהן שיהו לאות על ידך ולזכרון בין עיניך כי ביד חזקה הוציאך ה' ממצרים אינן לכבוד ה' יתברך אבל לרחם על נפשותינו וכבר סדרו לנו בתפלת יום הכפורים אתה הבדלת אנוש מראש ותכירהו לעמוד לפניך כי מי יאמר לך מה תעשה ואם יצדק מה יתן לך וכן אמר בתורה (דברים י׳:י״ג) לטוב לך כאשר פירשתי (שם פסוק יב) וכן ויצונו ה' לעשות את כל החקים האלה ליראה את ה' אלקינו לטוב לנו כל הימים (דברים ו׳:כ״ד) והכוונה בכלם לטוב לנו ולא לו יתברך ויתעלה אבל כל מה שנצטוינו שיהיו בריותיו צרופות ומזוקקות בלא סיגי מחשבות רעות ומדות מגונות וכן מה שאמרו (ברכות לג) לפי שעושה מדותיו של הקב"ה רחמים ואינן אלא גזרות לומר שלא חס האל על קן צפור ולא הגיעו רחמיו על אותו ואת בנו שאין רחמיו מגיעין בבעלי הנפש הבהמית למנוע אותנו מלעשות בהם צרכנו שאם כן היה אוסר השחיטה אבל טעם המניעה ללמד אותנו מדת הרחמנות ושלא נתאכזר כי האכזריות תתפשט בנפש האדם כידוע בטבחים שוחטי השורים הגדולים והחמורים שהם אנשי דמים זובחי אדם אכזרים מאד ומפני זה אמרו (קידושין פב) טוב שבטבחים שותפו של עמלק והנה המצות האלה בבהמה ובעוף אינן רחמנות עליהם אלא גזירות בנו להדריכנו וללמד אותנו המדות הטובות וכן יקראו הם כל המצות שבתורה עשה ולא תעשה גזירות כמו שאמרו (מכילתא בחדש ו) במשל המלך שנכנס למדינה אמרו לו עבדיו גזור עליהם גזירות אמר להם כשיקבלו מלכותי אגזור עליהם גזירות כך אמר הקב"ה קבלתם מלכותי אנכי ה' אלקיך (שמות כ ב) קבלו גזירותי לא יהיה לך וכו' (שם פסוק ג) אבל במדרשו של רבי נחוניא בן הקנה בשלוח הקן מדרש שיש במצוה סוד אמר רבי רחמאי מאי דכתיב שלח תשלח את האם ולא אמר את האב אלא שלח תשלח את האם בכבוד אותה בינה שנקראת אם העולם דכתיב (משלי ב ג) כי אם לבינה תקרא מאי ואת הבנים תקח לך אמר רבי רחמאי אותם בנים שגדלה ומאי ניהו שבעת ימי הסוכה ודיני שבעת ימי השבוע וכו' והנה המצוה הזאת רומזת לענין גדול ולכך שכרה מרובה למען ייטב לך והארכת ימים:

(1) IF A BIRD’S NEST CHANCE TO BE BEFORE THEE. This also is an explanatory commandment, of the prohibition ye shall not kill it [the dam] and its young both in one day,134Leviticus 22:28. because the reason for both [commandments] is that we should not have a cruel heart and be discompassionate, or it may be that Scripture does not permit us to destroy a species altogether, although it permits slaughter [for food] within that group. Now, he who kills the dam and the young in one day or takes them when they are free to fly [it is regarded] as though he cut off that species.


Now, he [Rabbi Moshe ben Maimon] wrote in the Moreh Nebuchim135Guide of the Perplexed III, 48. that the reason for the commandment to release the mother bird when taking its nest and the prohibition against killing the dam with its young on one day is in order to admonish us against killing the young within the mother’s sight, for animals feel great distress under such circumstances. There is no difference between the distress of man and the distress of animals for their young, since the love of the mother and her tenderness to the children of her womb are not the result of reasoning or [the faculty of intelligent] speech, but are produced by the faculty of mental images which exists among animals even as it is present in man. But if so137This is Ramban’s reason for disagreeing with Rambam’s explanation. the main prohibition in killing the dam and its young applies only when killing [first] the young and [then] the dam [but not vice versa, whereas the Torah forbids it to be done either way]! But it is all an extraordinary precaution,138For — in defense of Rambam’s explanation — we would be forced to add that the primary prohibition is against killing first the young and then the dam; the prohibition against first killing the dam and then the young is but a precautionary measure lest one may accidentally reverse the order. While we might contend this in defense of Rambam’s theory, Ramban concludes, “and it is more correct etc.” This explanation would seem to be more logical because it does not differentiate between the order of taking or slaughtering the dam and its young. Hence Ramban’s language. The full significance of this theory of Ramban will be made clearer further on in the text. and it is more correct [to explain them as prohibitions] to prevent us from acting cruelly.
And the Rabbi [Moshe ben Maimon] said further:135Guide of the Perplexed III, 48. “Do not contradict me by quoting the saying of the Sages,139Berachoth 33b. See Note 168 further on. ‘He who says in his prayer: Even to a bird’s nest do Thy mercies extend [etc., they silence him,’ which would seem to imply that there is no reason other than the Will of G-d for the commandment to release a dam when taking its nest], for that is one of two opinions, namely, the opinion of the Sage who holds that the commandments [of the Torah] have no other reason but the Will of the Creator. We follow the second opinion that there is a reason for all commandments.” And the Rabbi [Moshe ben Maimon] raised a difficulty from a text in Bereshith Rabbah [which contradicts his theory that there is a reason for every commandment]. The text reads:140Bereshith Rabbah 44:1. Rambam’s discussion of the text is found in “Guide of the Perplexed,” III, 26. “And what difference does it make to the Holy One, blessed be He, whether an animal is slaughtered from the front of the neck or the back? Surely you must say the commandments have been given only for the purpose of refining [disciplining] men through them, as it is said, Every word of G-d is refined.”141Proverbs 30:5. This text of Bereshith Rabbah implies that some commandments have no other reason than the fact that they were so willed by G-d, which contradicts Rambam’s main thesis that there are reasons for all commandments. Rambam proceeds (“Guide of the Perplexed,” III, 26) to explain this text, in harmony with his theory. In the lengthy discussion to follow, Ramban will strongly agree with Rambam’s main theory that there is a reason for every commandment. As for the difficulty posed by the text of Bereshith Rabbah, he will offer his own solution.
Now, this theory, categorically stated by the Rabbi [Moshe ben Maimon] concerning the commandments that there is a reason for them, is indeed very clear. There is a reason, benefit, and improvement for man in each of them, aside from the reward by Him Who commanded it, blessed be God! Our Sages have already stated:142Sanhedrin 21b. “Why were the reasons for the commandments not revealed? etc.”143See “The Commandments,” Vol. II, pp. 330-331. And they further interpreted:144Pesachim 119a.And for stately clothing145Isaiah 23:18. The Hebrew reads: v’limchaseh athik, which the Rabbis interpret to mean: “and to the things concealed by the Ancient of days (G-d)” — there will be a special reward for him that reveals these secrets that lie hidden in the commandments of the Torah. — this refers to one who uncovers matters that were concealed by the Ancient of days.146Daniel 7:13. And what are these matters? They are the reasons for [the commandments of] the Torah.” The Rabbis have further expressed themselves on the subject of the Red Heifer147Bamidbar Rabbah 19:3-4. concerning which Solomon said, “I achieved [a knowledge of the reasons for] everything, but the section of the Red Heifer I examined, inquired into, and searched; All this have I tried by wisdom; I said, ‘I will get wisdom,’ but it was far from me.148Ecclesiastes 7:23. And Rabbi Yosei the son of Rabbi Chanina said: The Holy One, blessed be God, said to Moses, ‘To you I reveal the reason of the Red Heifer, but for others it is a statute [a commandment for which we know no reason].’ For it is written, And it shall come to pass in that day, that there shall not be light, but heavy clouds ‘v’kipaon’ (and thick).149Zechariah 14:6. The word is spelled yekipaon,150In other words, by tradition we are to read the word v’kipaon, although in the Masoretic text it is written yekipaon, in the future tense, as explained in the text. intimating that matters concealed from you in this world are destined ‘to be revealed’ in the World to Come, like a blind man who suddenly sees, as it is written, And I will bring the blind by a way that they knew not,151Isaiah 42:16. and it is further written, These things have I done and I did not leave them undone,151Isaiah 42:16. for I have done them already to Rabbi Akiba” [meaning that the explanations were revealed to Rabbi Akiba].
Thus the Rabbis explained that our lack of knowledge of the reasons of [the commandments of] the Torah is but a barrier in our minds, and that the reason for the most difficult of the commandments [i.e., the Red Heifer] has already been revealed to the Sages of Israel [such as Rabbi Akiba, as mentioned in the above Midrash]. There are many such texts among the words of the Rabbis, and Torah and Scripture, which teach to that effect; and the Rabbi [Moshe ben Maimon] mentioned some of them. But those Agadic [homiletic] statements, presenting difficulty to the Rabbi, are in my opinion, intended to express another thought as follows:
The benefit from the commandments is not derived by the Holy One Himself, exalted be God. Rather, the advantage is to humanity itself, to withhold from them physical harm or some evil belief, or unseemly trait of character, or to recall the miracles and wonders of the Creator, blessed be God, in order to know the Eternal. It is this [which the Rabbis intended in saying]140Bereshith Rabbah 44:1. Rambam’s discussion of the text is found in “Guide of the Perplexed,” III, 26. that the commandments were given “for the purpose of refining humanity,” that they may become like “refined silver,” for the one who refines silver does not act without purpose, but to remove therefrom any impurity. So, also, the commandments eliminate from our hearts all evil belief, and [are given] in order to inform us of the truth and to recall it always. Now this very same Agadah [homily] is mentioned in the Yelamdeinu152See Vol. II, p. 131, Note 196, for explanation of the term. in the section of These are the living things:153Leviticus 11:2. — The text quoted is found in Tanchuma (Buber), Shemini 12. And what difference does it make to the Holy One, blessed be God, whether one eats of an animal which is ritually slaughtered or if he just stabs it? Do you benefit Him or harm Him at all? Or what does it matter to God if one eats clean animals or unclean? If thou art wise, thou art wise for thyself.154Proverbs 9:12. Surely the commandments have been given only to refine us, as it is said, The words of the Eternal are pure words,155Psalms 12:7. As silver refined in a crucible on the earth, purified seven times. and it is further said, Every word of G-d is refined.141Proverbs 30:5. This text of Bereshith Rabbah implies that some commandments have no other reason than the fact that they were so willed by G-d, which contradicts Rambam’s main thesis that there are reasons for all commandments. Rambam proceeds (“Guide of the Perplexed,” III, 26) to explain this text, in harmony with his theory. In the lengthy discussion to follow, Ramban will strongly agree with Rambam’s main theory that there is a reason for every commandment. As for the difficulty posed by the text of Bereshith Rabbah, he will offer his own solution. Why? So that [the word of G-d] should protect you.” Thus it is clearly stated here that the Rabbis [in this Midrash], meant to say merely that the benefit [accruing from observance of the commandments] is not for God's sake exalted be God, [nor] that God is in need of the light of the candelabrum as one might think, or that God needs the food of the offerings and the odor of the incense as might appear from their simple meanings. Even regarding the memorial He hath made for His wonderful works,156Psalms 111:4. that He commanded us to perform in memory of the Exodus and Creation, the benefit is not for Him, but so, that we should know the truth and be meritorious enough to be worthy that God protects us, for our utterances and remembrances of His wonders are accounted by Him as things of nought, and vanity.157Isaiah 40:17. And the Midrash brought proof from [the law specifying] slaughter by cutting the neck in front or in the back, meaning to state that all the benefits are to us and not to the Holy One, blessed be He, because it is impossible to say concerning slaughter that there is more benefit and glory to the Creator, blessed be He, by cutting the neck in front than by cutting it in the back or by stabbing the animal. Rather, all these advantages are to us — to lead us in paths of compassion even during [the process of] slaughtering. And then the Rabbis brought another proof: “Or what does it matter to Him if one eats clean things,” — that is, foods permissible to the eater — “or eats unclean things,” that is, forbidden food concerning which the Torah declared they are unclean unto you.158Leviticus 11:28. However, He implied that [these laws were given to us] so that we might develop a fine soul and be wise men perceptive to the truth. By quoting the verse, If thou art wise, thou art wise for thyself154Proverbs 9:12. the Rabbis [in the above Midrash] mentioned the principle that the commandments pertaining to rites such as slaughter by [cutting of] the neck are to teach us traits of good character. The Divinely ordained commandments which define the species [of animals and birds which are permissible to us] are to refine our souls, just as the Torah has said, and ye shall not make your souls detestable by beast, or by fowl, or by any thing wherewith the ground teemeth, which I have set apart for you to hold unclean.159Ibid., 20:25. If so, all the commandments are solely to our advantage. This is as Elihu said, If thou hast sinned, what doest thou against Him? And if thy transgression be multiplied, what doest thou unto Him?160Job 35:6. And again he states, If thou be righteous, what givest thou Him? Or what receiveth He of thy hands?161Ibid., Verse 7. This is a consensus in all the words of our Rabbis. Thus they asked in Yerushalmi Nedarim162Yerushalmi Nedarim IX, 1. whether they may open the way [to release one from a vow or oath] by reason of the honor due to G-d163Before releasing a person from a vow or oath, the Sage must ascertain that, had the supplicant known of a particular fact, he would not have made the vow or oath. The question arose whether the Sage may say to him, “If you had known that he who vows is evil in the eyes of G-d, would you still have vowed?” See also, Ramban in Numbers 30:2 (Vol. IV, pp. 345-346). in matters between man and G-d. On this question the Rabbis answered [there]: “What is an example of [a vow being released because of] the honor due to G-d? [If you say that it is a case where he swore] ‘I shall not make a Booth, I shall not take the palm-branch, I shall not put on phylacteries’ — but do you call this ‘by reason of the honor due to G-d?’ It is for oneself that [the observance of the commandments] helps, just as it is said, If thou be righteous, what givest thou Him? Or what receiveth He of thy hands?161Ibid., Verse 7. If thou hast sinned, what doest thou against Him? And if thy transgression be multiplied, what doest thou unto Him?”160Job 35:6. Thus the Rabbis have explained that even the palm-branch, the Booth, and the phylacteries concerning which He commanded that they shall be for a sign upon thy hand, and for frontlets between thine eyes; for by strength of hand the Eternal brought us forth out of Egypt164Exodus 13:16. — are not ordained to honor G-d, blessed be He, but to have compassion on our souls. And the Sages have already arranged it for us in the [Closing] Prayer on the Day of Atonement, stating: “Thou hast distinguished man from the beginning, and hast recognized him [to be privileged] to stand before Thee, for who shall say unto Thee, ‘What doest Thou?’ and if he be righteous what can he give Thee?” Similarly, it states in the Torah, which I command thee this day for thy good,165Above, 10:13. as I have explained.166Ibid., Verse 12. So also, And the Eternal commanded us to do all these statutes, to fear the Eternal our G-d, for our good always.167Ibid., 6:24. And the intent in all these expressions is “for our good,” and not for His, blessed and exalted be He! Rather, everything we have been commanded is so that God's creatures be refined and purified, free from the dross of evil thoughts and blameworthy traits of character.
So, too, what the Rabbis have stated,168The Rabbis of the Gemara made the following remark with reference to the Mishnah quoted above (see text at Note 139): “He who says in his prayer: ‘Even to a bird’s nest do Thy mercies extend’ etc., they silence him.” The reason for this law as stated in the Mishnah is now explained by the Rabbis of the Gemara: “Because he [the supplicant] treats etc.” (see text). — Berachoth 33b. “Because he treats the ordinances of G-d like expressions of mercy, whereas they are decrees”169“To inform them that they are His servants, and that they keep His commandments, decrees and statutes, even such matters concerning which Satan and the nations of the world taunt Israel saying, ‘What need is there for this commandment?’” (Rashi ibid). Now, this text of the Mishnah and Gemara was explained above by Rambam as exemplifying the opinion that there is no reason for fulfillment of the commandments of the Torah other than the Will of the Creator, while we follow the second opinion that there is a reason for every commandment. Ramban will now proceed to explain this text, in accordance with the accepted opinion that there is a reason for every commandment, thus making this text to be the consensus of all Sages. means to say — that it was not a matter of G-d’s mercy extending to the bird’s nest or the dam and its young, since His mercies did not extend so far into animal life as to prevent us from accomplishing our needs with them, for, if so, He would have forbidden slaughter altogether. But the reason for the prohibition [against taking the dam with its nest, or against killing the dam with its young in one day] is to teach us the trait of compassion and that we should not be cruel, for cruelty proliferates in man’s soul as it is known that butchers, those who slaughter large oxen and asses are men of blood;170Psalms 55:24. they that slaughter men,171Hosea 13:2. are extremely cruel. It is on account of this [cruelty] that the Rabbis have said:172Kiddushin 82a. Amalek is the symbol of cruelty, as he attacked the enfeebled, faint and weary, (further 25:18). “The most seemly among butchers is a partner of Amalek.” Thus these commandments with respect to cattle and fowl are not [a result of] compassion upon them, but they are decrees upon us to guide us and to teach us traits of good character. So, too, the Rabbis refer to all commandments of the Torah — positive and negative — as “decrees,” as they said173Mechilta, Bachodesh 6. See Vol. II, p. 286, where Ramban quotes the same text with some minor changes. in the parable of “the king who entered a country, and his attendants said to him, ‘Promulgate decrees upon them.’ He, however, refused, saying, ‘When they will have accepted my sovereignty, I will promulgate decrees upon them.’ Similarly did the Holy One, blessed be He, [say to Israel], ‘You have accepted My sovereignty: I am the Eternal thy G-d,174Exodus 20:2. accept My decrees: Thou shalt have no other gods etc.’”175Ibid., Verse 3.
However, in the Midrash of Rabbi Nechunya ben Hakanah176Sefer Habahir, 104-105. See Vol. I, p. 24, Note 42. there is an interpretation with respect to releasing a mother bird when taking its nest, which states that there is a secret in this commandment. “Rabbi Rechimaie said, What is the meaning of that which is written, Thou shalt in any wise let the dam go,177Verse 7. and it did not say ‘the father?’ [This implies that the verse commands] only Thou shalt in any wise let the dam go with the honor of that ‘understanding’178Here used in a Cabalistic sense. See my Hebrew commentary p. 451. which is termed ‘the mother of the world,’ as it is written, Yea ‘im’ (if) thou call for understanding.179Proverbs 2:3. The Sefer Habahir obviously intimates that the word be read eim (mother), thus suggesting: “the mother [of the world] is called ‘understanding.’” And what is the meaning of the phrase, and the young, take thou to thee?177Verse 7. Said Rabbi Rechimaie, It means those young that she raised. And what are they? They are the seven days of [the Festival of] Tabernacles, and the laws of the seven days of the week etc.” Thus this commandment alludes to a great matter, and therefore the reward for the observance thereof is abundant, [as it is said], that it may be well with thee, and that thou mayest prolong thy days.177Verse 7.

  • It appears the commandment about the mother bird and her young, according to Ramban - following Rambam - is about 'refining' our character, our compassion
  • But we're also human beings, and we make calculations about cost and benefit on what happens, what we see, even when there's a moral lesson
מַתְנִי׳ כׇּל הָעוֹשֶׂה מִצְוָה אַחַת – מְטִיבִין לוֹ, וּמַאֲרִיכִין לוֹ יָמָיו, וְנוֹחֵל אֶת הָאָרֶץ. וְכֹל שֶׁאֵינוֹ עוֹשֶׂה מִצְוָה אַחַת – אֵין מְטִיבִין לוֹ, וְאֵין מַאֲרִיכִין לוֹ יָמָיו, וְאֵינוֹ נוֹחֵל אֶת הָאָרֶץ.

MISHNA: Anyone who performs one mitzva has goodness bestowed upon them, their life is lengthened, and they inherit the land, i.e., life in the World-to-Come. And anyone who does not perform one mitzva does not have goodness bestowed upon them, their life is not lengthened, and they does not inherit the land of the World-to-Come.

אָמַר אַבָּיֵי: מַתְנִיתִין דְּעָבְדִין לֵיהּ יוֹם טָב וָיוֹם בִּישׁ. רָבָא אָמַר: הָא מַנִּי – רַבִּי יַעֲקֹב הִיא, דְּאָמַר: שְׂכַר מִצְוָה בְּהַאי עָלְמָא לֵיכָּא.
Abaye said: When the mishna said that he is rewarded, it means that he has one good day and one bad day. He is rewarded for the mitzvot he performs; nevertheless, occasionally he also has bad days which cleanse him of his sins, and the baraita is referring to those days. Rava said that the mishna and this baraita represent two different opinions. In accordance with whose opinion is this baraita? It is in accordance with the opinion of Rabbi Ya’akov, who says: There is no reward for performance of a mitzva in this world, as one is rewarded for mitzvot only World-to-Come.
דְּתַנְיָא, רַבִּי יַעֲקֹב אוֹמֵר: אֵין לָךְ כׇּל מִצְוָה וּמִצְוָה שֶׁכְּתוּבָה בַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁמַּתַּן שְׂכָרָהּ בְּצִדָּהּ שֶׁאֵין תְּחִיַּית הַמֵּתִים תְּלוּיָה בָּהּ. בְּכִיבּוּד אָב וָאֵם כְּתִיב: ״לְמַעַן יַאֲרִיכֻן יָמֶיךָ וּלְמַעַן יִיטַב לָךְ״, בְּשִׁילּוּחַ הַקֵּן כְּתִיב: ״לְמַעַן יִיטַב לָךְ וְהַאֲרַכְתָּ יָמִים״. הֲרֵי שֶׁאָמַר לוֹ אָבִיו: עֲלֵה לַבִּירָה וְהָבֵא לִי גּוֹזָלוֹת, וְעָלָה לַבִּירָה וְשִׁלַּח אֶת הָאֵם וְנָטַל אֶת הַבָּנִים וּבַחֲזִירָתוֹ נָפַל וָמֵת – הֵיכָן טוֹבַת יָמָיו שֶׁל זֶה, וְהֵיכָן אֲרִיכוּת יָמָיו שֶׁל זֶה? אֶלָּא: ״לְמַעַן יִיטַב לָךְ״ – לְעוֹלָם שֶׁכּוּלּוֹ טוֹב, ״וּלְמַעַן יַאֲרִיכֻן יָמֶיךָ״ – לְעוֹלָם שֶׁכּוּלּוֹ אָרוֹךְ.
As it is taught in a baraita that Rabbi Ya’akov says: There is not a single mitzva written in the Torah whose reward is stated alongside it, which is not dependent on the resurrection of the dead, i.e., the reward is actually bestowed in the World-to-Come, after the resurrection of the dead. How so? With regard to honoring one’s father and mother it is written: “That your days may be long, and that it may go well with you” (Deuteronomy 5:16). With regard to the dispatch of the mother bird from the nest it is written: “That it may be well with you, and that you may prolong your days” (Deuteronomy 22:7). Despite this, it occurred that there was one whose father said to him: Climb to the top of the building and fetch me chicks. And he climbed to the top of the building and dispatched the mother bird and took the young, thereby simultaneously fulfilling the mitzva to dispatch the mother bird from the nest and the mitzva to honor one’s parents, but upon his return he fell and died. Where is the goodness of the days of this one, and where is the length of days of this one? Rather, the verse “that it may be well with you” means in the world where all is well, and “that your days may be long” is referring to the world that is entirely long.
הרי שאמר לו אביו עלה לבירה והבא לי גוזלות ועלה ושלח את האם ולקח את הבנים ובחזרתו נפל ומת היכן אריכות ימיו של זה והיכן טובתו של זה אלא למען יאריכון ימיך בעולם שכולו ארוך ולמען ייטב לך לעולם שכולו טוב
Despite this, it occurred that there was one whose father said to him: Climb to the top of the building and bring me fledglings; and he climbed to the top of the building and sent away the mother bird and took the offspring, thereby simultaneously fulfilling the mitzva to send away the mother bird from the nest and the mitzva to honor one’s parents, but as he returned he fell and died. Where is the length of days of this one? And where is the goodness of the days of this one? Rather, the verse “that your days may be long” is referring to the world that is entirely long, and “that it may be well with you” means in the world where all is well.
אָמַר רַב יוֹסֵף: אִילְמָלֵי דַּרְשֵׁיהּ אַחֵר לְהַאי קְרָא כְּרַבִּי יַעֲקֹב בַּר בְּרַתֵּיה – לָא חֲטָא. וְאַחֵר מַאי הוּא? אִיכָּא דְּאָמְרִי: כִּי הַאי גַוְונָא חֲזָא.
Rav Yosef said: Had Aḥer, literally Other, the appellation of the former Sage Elisha ben Avuya, interpreted this aforementioned verse: “That it may go well with you” (Deuteronomy 5:16), homiletically, as referring to the World-to-Come, as did Rabbi Ya’akov, son of his daughter, he would not have sinned. The Gemara asks: And what caused Aḥer to sin? There are those who say he saw a case like this, where a son went up to the roof on his father’s command, dispatched the mother bird, and then died. It was witnessing this episode that led Elisha ben Avuya astray.
  • Witnessing this incident caused Elisha ben Abuyah to become a heretic...
  • How do we make sense of tragedy, wickedness, misfortune in this world and live with these things while also pursuing transcendent spiritual goals, doing mitzvot, teshuvah/character building?

Guide for the Perplexed, Part 3 48:11

The same reason applies to the law which enjoins that we should let the mother fly away when we take the young. The eggs over which the bird sits, and the young that are in need of their mother, are generally unfit for food, and when the mother is sent away she does not see the taking of her young ones, and does not feel any pain. In most cases, however, this commandment will cause us to leave the whole nest untouched, because [the young or the eggs], which he is allowed to take, are, as a rule, unfit for food.

Nineteen Letters 11:4, SR Hirsch

Chukkim. — Arbitrary or apparently inexplicable Statutes. — The same thoughtful regard which you show to man, show as well to every lower being; to the earth which bears and sustains all; to the world of animals and plants, to your own body, to your own mental faculties, to your "ego," that which is most of all your own. It is the same justice which you owe to other human beings. What in the case of the Mishpatim results from the concept of identical personality, flows here from the fundamental notion of equal subordination to God, who defends all which is lower in order and subject to you against your caprice and the ebullitions of unregulated will. Your duties towards humanity are more intelligible to you simply because you have only to think of yourself, your own views and feelings, in order to recognize and sympathize with the demands and needs of your fellow-man. Could you put yourself as thoroughly in the place of other beings, could you even understand the conditions of the union and the combined activity of your own body and soul, you would find it as easy to comprehend Chukkim as Mishpatim. They ask of you to regard all beings as God's possessions; destroy none; abuse none; waste nothing; employ all things wisely; the kinds and species of plants and animals are God's order; mingle them not. All creatures are servants in the household of creation. Respect even the feelings and desires of beasts. Respect the body of man even when the personality has departed. Respect your own body as receptacle, messenger and instrument of the spirit. Limit and subdue your impulses and animal actions under the law of God that they be used in a manner truly human and holy for the upbuilding of the holy purpose of the human race, that man sink not into a mere beast. Respect your soul in nourishing your body; give the latter only so much and such food as will permit it to be a pure, obedient messenger of the world to the soul, of the soul to the world, but not such as to produce sluggishness or sensuality. Therefore conceal and elevate, do not esteem too highly thy animal part, in order that in the end all contradictory dispositions be eliminated from you, and even the beast-like become truly human. Finally, respect yourself in your purest emanation, your word.