This Shabbat we will read the encounter of Yaakov and Esav, when Yaakov was petrified in case Esav come “and kill us all – mothers and children alike” (Bereishit 32:12). Later on in the reading something unbelievable happened, Esav the perceived "killer of mothers and children" runs towards his brother to greet him, “throwing himself on his shoulders, kissed him, they wept” (ibid. 33:4).
Prior to that the gift which Yaakov sent to Esav consisted of, “200 female goats, 20 male goats, 200 ewes, 20 rams, 30 nursing camels with their young, 40 cows, 10 bulls, 20 female donkeys, and 10 male donkeys” (ibid. 32:15-16), without a doubt this is a substantial gift.
After this emotional reunion Esav asks his brother, “What do you have to do with that whole camp that came to greet me?” Yaakov then responds, “It was to find favor in your eyes”. Esav replies, “I have plenty, my brother, let what is yours remain yours”. Yaakov however is not satisfied with this and persistently says to Esav, “Please! No!...Please accept my welcome gift as it has been brought to you. Hashem has been kind to me and I have all [I need].” Esav agrees and takes the gifts as it states, “He urged him and he took it” (ibid. 33:8-11).
If we reflect we will see that there is a distinction between Esav’s and Yaakov’s words.
Esav says, “I have plenty”, the meaning could be conveyed to say "I have a lot however, I’m still not content because this isn’t yet “everything” that I desire."
In contrast, Yaakov says, “I have everything [I need]”, meaning that even though it is possible to achieve more, I am happy with my lot and don’t yearn for more only that which Hashem grants me. Another way could be "Rather with what I have I feel that I have everything."
In conclusion: Mishna Avot (4:1) relates... "Who is wealthy? One who is happy with his lot!
In my personal opinion the person who cultivates themself to be happy with what Hashem has gifted them and has no jealousy or begrudging eyes towards others, then they are a truly rich person who also merits to a healthier and more relaxed life.
Shavua tov lecha/lach