“They were parts of myself that were dead, that they brought back to life. Before this, I was just a hollow shell walking around, and they made me alive.”
- Only Murders in the Building
- Only Murders in the Building
אָמַר רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן לֵוִי: הָרוֹאֶה אֶת חֲבֵירוֹ לְאַחַר שְׁלֹשִׁים יוֹם, אוֹמֵר: ״בָּרוּךְ … שֶׁהֶחֱיָינוּ וְקִיְּימָנוּ וְהִגִּיעָנוּ לַזְּמַן הַזֶּה״. לְאַחַר שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר חֹדֶשׁ, אוֹמֵר: ״בָּרוּךְ … מְחַיֵּה הַמֵּתִים״. אָמַר רַב: אֵין הַמֵּת מִשְׁתַּכֵּחַ מִן הַלֵּב אֶלָּא לְאַחַר שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר חֹדֶשׁ. שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״נִשְׁכַּחְתִּי כְּמֵת מִלֵּב הָיִיתִי כִּכְלִי אוֹבֵד״. רַב פָּפָּא וְרַב הוּנָא בְּרֵיהּ דְּרַב יְהוֹשֻׁעַ הֲווֹ קָאָזְלִי בְּאוֹרְחָא. פְּגַעוּ בֵּיהּ בְּרַב חֲנִינָא בְּרֵיהּ דְּרַב אִיקָא. אֲמַרוּ לֵיהּ: בַּהֲדֵי דַּחֲזֵינָךְ בָּרֵיכִינַן עֲלָךְ תַּרְתֵּי: ״בָּרוּךְ … אֲשֶׁר חָלַק מֵחׇכְמָתוֹ לִירֵאָיו״ וְ״שֶׁהֶחֱיָינוּ״. אֲמַר לְהוּ: אֲנָא נָמֵי, כֵּיוָן דַּחֲזִתִינְכוּ חַשֵּׁבְתִּינְכוּ עִלָּוַאי כְּשִׁיתִּין רִבְּווֹן בֵּית יִשְׂרָאֵל, וּבָרֵיכְנָא עֲלַיְיכוּ תְּלָתָא: הָנָךְ תַּרְתֵּי, וּ״בָרוּךְ … חֲכַם הָרָזִים״. אֲמַרוּ לֵיהּ: חֲכִימַתְּ כּוּלֵּי הַאי! יָהֲבִי בֵּיהּ עֵינַיְיהוּ, וּשְׁכֵיב.
Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said: One who sees his friend after thirty days have passed since last seeing him recites: Blessed…Who has given us life, sustained us and brought us to this time. One who sees his friend after twelve months recites: Blessed…Who revives the dead. As Rav said: A dead person is only forgotten from the heart after twelve months have elapsed, as it is stated: “I am forgotten as a dead man out of mind; I am like a lost vessel” (Psalms 31:13), and with regard to the laws of lost objects, it is human nature to despair of recovering a lost object after twelve months (see Bava Metzia 28a). The Gemara relates: Rav Pappa and Rav Huna, son of Rav Yehoshua, were once walking along the road when they met Rav Ḥanina the son of Rav Ika. They said to him: When we saw you we recited two blessings over meeting you: Blessed…Who has shared of His wisdom to those who revere Him, and: Who has given us life…as they had not seen him in over a month. He said to them: I too, once I saw you, considered you in my eyes as equivalent to six hundred thousand of the house of Israel, and I recited three blessings over you. I recited those two that you recited, as well as: Blessed…Who knows all secrets, which is the blessing recited upon seeing six hundred thousand Israelites. They said to him: Are you all that clever? They fixed their gaze upon him and he died.
1. What considerations do you think went into choosing these particular blessings?
2. What other blessings might we say?
2. What other blessings might we say?
(א) שִׁ֥יר הַֽמַּעֲל֗וֹת לְדָ֫וִ֥ד הִנֵּ֣ה מַה־טּ֭וֹב וּמַה־נָּעִ֑ים שֶׁ֖בֶת אַחִ֣ים גַּם־יָֽחַד׃
(1) A song of ascents. Of David.
How good and how pleasant it is
that brothers dwell together.
How good and how pleasant it is
that brothers dwell together.