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Parasha Insights III: Vayetze Choice of the Fathers

(י) וַיֵּצֵ֥א יַעֲקֹ֖ב מִבְּאֵ֣ר שָׁ֑בַע וַיֵּ֖לֶךְ חָרָֽנָה׃ (יא) וַיִּפְגַּ֨ע בַּמָּק֜וֹם וַיָּ֤לֶן שָׁם֙ כִּי־בָ֣א הַשֶּׁ֔מֶשׁ וַיִּקַּח֙ מֵאַבְנֵ֣י הַמָּק֔וֹם וַיָּ֖שֶׂם מְרַֽאֲשֹׁתָ֑יו וַיִּשְׁכַּ֖ב בַּמָּק֥וֹם הַהֽוּא׃ (יב) וַֽיַּחֲלֹ֗ם וְהִנֵּ֤ה סֻלָּם֙ מֻצָּ֣ב אַ֔רְצָה וְרֹאשׁ֖וֹ מַגִּ֣יעַ הַשָּׁמָ֑יְמָה וְהִנֵּה֙ מַלְאֲכֵ֣י אֱלֹהִ֔ים עֹלִ֥ים וְיֹרְדִ֖ים בּֽוֹ׃ (יג) וְהִנֵּ֨ה יְהֹוָ֜ה נִצָּ֣ב עָלָיו֮ וַיֹּאמַר֒ אֲנִ֣י יְהֹוָ֗ה אֱלֹהֵי֙ אַבְרָהָ֣ם אָבִ֔יךָ וֵאלֹהֵ֖י יִצְחָ֑ק הָאָ֗רֶץ אֲשֶׁ֤ר אַתָּה֙ שֹׁכֵ֣ב עָלֶ֔יהָ לְךָ֥ אֶתְּנֶ֖נָּה וּלְזַרְעֶֽךָ׃ (יד) וְהָיָ֤ה זַרְעֲךָ֙ כַּעֲפַ֣ר הָאָ֔רֶץ וּפָרַצְתָּ֛ יָ֥מָּה וָקֵ֖דְמָה וְצָפֹ֣נָה וָנֶ֑גְבָּה וְנִבְרְכ֥וּ בְךָ֛ כׇּל־מִשְׁפְּחֹ֥ת הָאֲדָמָ֖ה וּבְזַרְעֶֽךָ׃ (טו) וְהִנֵּ֨ה אָנֹכִ֜י עִמָּ֗ךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּ֙יךָ֙ בְּכֹ֣ל אֲשֶׁר־תֵּלֵ֔ךְ וַהֲשִׁ֣בֹתִ֔יךָ אֶל־הָאֲדָמָ֖ה הַזֹּ֑את כִּ֚י לֹ֣א אֶֽעֱזׇבְךָ֔ עַ֚ד אֲשֶׁ֣ר אִם־עָשִׂ֔יתִי אֵ֥ת אֲשֶׁר־דִּבַּ֖רְתִּי לָֽךְ׃ (טז) וַיִּיקַ֣ץ יַעֲקֹב֮ מִשְּׁנָתוֹ֒ וַיֹּ֕אמֶר אָכֵן֙ יֵ֣שׁ יְהֹוָ֔ה בַּמָּק֖וֹם הַזֶּ֑ה וְאָנֹכִ֖י לֹ֥א יָדָֽעְתִּי׃ (יז) וַיִּירָא֙ וַיֹּאמַ֔ר מַה־נּוֹרָ֖א הַמָּק֣וֹם הַזֶּ֑ה אֵ֣ין זֶ֗ה כִּ֚י אִם־בֵּ֣ית אֱלֹהִ֔ים

וְזֶ֖ה שַׁ֥עַר הַשָּׁמָֽיִם׃

(יח) וַיַּשְׁכֵּ֨ם יַעֲקֹ֜ב בַּבֹּ֗קֶר וַיִּקַּ֤ח אֶת־הָאֶ֙בֶן֙ אֲשֶׁר־שָׂ֣ם מְרַֽאֲשֹׁתָ֔יו וַיָּ֥שֶׂם אֹתָ֖הּ מַצֵּבָ֑ה וַיִּצֹ֥ק שֶׁ֖מֶן עַל־רֹאשָֽׁהּ׃ (יט) וַיִּקְרָ֛א אֶת־שֵֽׁם־הַמָּק֥וֹם הַה֖וּא בֵּֽית־אֵ֑ל וְאוּלָ֛ם ל֥וּז שֵׁם־הָעִ֖יר לָרִאשֹׁנָֽה׃ (כ) וַיִּדַּ֥ר יַעֲקֹ֖ב נֶ֣דֶר לֵאמֹ֑ר אִם־יִהְיֶ֨ה אֱלֹהִ֜ים עִמָּדִ֗י וּשְׁמָרַ֙נִי֙ בַּדֶּ֤רֶךְ הַזֶּה֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר אָנֹכִ֣י הוֹלֵ֔ךְ וְנָֽתַן־לִ֥י לֶ֛חֶם לֶאֱכֹ֖ל וּבֶ֥גֶד לִלְבֹּֽשׁ׃ (כא) וְשַׁבְתִּ֥י בְשָׁל֖וֹם אֶל־בֵּ֣ית אָבִ֑י וְהָיָ֧ה יְהֹוָ֛ה לִ֖י לֵאלֹהִֽים׃ (כב) וְהָאֶ֣בֶן הַזֹּ֗את אֲשֶׁר־שַׂ֙מְתִּי֙ מַצֵּבָ֔ה יִהְיֶ֖ה בֵּ֣ית אֱלֹהִ֑ים וְכֹל֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר תִּתֶּן־לִ֔י עַשֵּׂ֖ר אֲעַשְּׂרֶ֥נּוּ לָֽךְ׃

(10) Jacob left Beer-sheba, and set out for Haran. (11) He came upon a certain place and stopped there for the night, for the sun had set. Taking one of the stones of that place, he put it under his head and lay down in that place. (12) He had a dream; a stairway was set on the ground and its top reached to the sky, and messengers of God were going up and down on it. (13) And standing beside him was יהוה, who said, “I am יהוה, the God of your father Abraham’s [house] and the God of Isaac’s [house]: the ground on which you are lying I will assign to you and to your offspring. (14) Your descendants shall be as the dust of the earth; you shall spread out to the west and to the east, to the north and to the south. All the families of the earth shall bless themselves by you and your descendants. (15) Remember, I am with you: I will protect you wherever you go and will bring you back to this land. I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you.” (16) Jacob awoke from his sleep and said, “Surely יהוה is present in this place, and I did not know it!” (17) Shaken, he said, “How awesome is this place! This is none other than the house of God, and that is the gateway to heaven.”

(18) Early in the morning, Jacob took the stone that he had put under his head and set it up as a pillar and poured oil on the top of it. (19) He named that site Bethel; but previously the name of the city had been Luz. (20) Jacob then made a vow, saying, “If God remains with me, protecting me on this journey that I am making, and giving me bread to eat and clothing to wear, (21) and I return safe to my father’s house— יהוה shall be my God. (22) And this stone, which I have set up as a pillar, shall be God’s house; and of all that You give me, I will set aside a tithe for You.”

Rav Moshe Shapiro:
The concept is that Yaakov is building a house, and a house is built of stones. This is how the House of Israel must be built.
(כד) וַתֵּ֤שֶׁב בְּאֵיתָן֙ קַשְׁתּ֔וֹ וַיָּפֹ֖זּוּ זְרֹעֵ֣י יָדָ֑יו מִידֵי֙ אֲבִ֣יר יַעֲקֹ֔ב מִשָּׁ֥ם רֹעֶ֖ה אֶ֥בֶן יִשְׂרָאֵֽל׃
(24) Yet his bow stayed taut,
And his arms were made firm
By the hands of the Mighty One of Jacob—
There, the Shepherd, the Rock of Israel—
אבן ישראל. לְשׁוֹן נוֹטָרִיקוֹן אָב וּבֵן, אֲבָהָן וּבְנִין – יַעֲקֹב וּבָנָיו. וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ דָרְשׁוּ וַתֵּשֶׁב בְּאֵיתָן קַשְׁתּוֹ עַל כְּבִישַׁת יִצְרוֹ בְּאֵשֶׁת אֲדֹנָיו, וְקוֹרְאוֹ קֶשֶׁת, עַל שֵׁם שֶׁהַזֶּרַע יוֹרֶה כַּחֵץ:

אבן ישראל Onkelos takes אבן as an abbreviation of אב ובן and therefore renders it by אבהן ובנין the fathers and children meaning Jacob and his sons.

A stone is always a basis of continuation, a foundation upon which to build a house.
Joint Testimony
כתיב (בראשית כח, יא) ויקח מאבני המקום וכתיב ויקח את האבן אמר רבי יצחק מלמד שנתקבצו כל אותן אבנים למקום אחד וכל אחת ואחת אומרת עלי יניח צדיק זה ראשו תנא וכולן נבלעו באחד
The Gemara cites another exposition of Rabbi Yitzḥak to explain an apparent contradiction between two verses pertaining to this incident. It is written: “And he took of the stones of the place, and placed them under his head, and lay down in that place to sleep” (Genesis 28:11). And it is written: “And Jacob rose up early in the morning, and he took the stone that he had placed under his head, and set it up for a pillar, and poured oil upon the top of it” (Genesis 28:18). The first verse indicates that Jacob took several stones, whereas the latter verse indicates that he took only one stone. Rabbi Yitzḥak says: This teaches that all those stones gathered to one place and each one said: Let this righteous man place his head upon me. And it was taught: And all of them were absorbed into one large rock.
Both the fusion of the stones and the dream of the ladder set firmly on earth whose top reached the heavens upon which angels of the Lord ascended and descended jointly revealed this place as the House of the Lord and the gateway of heaven...
Yet these two testimonies seem unrelated. They are two separate events and two separate subjects.
There must be some shared aspect between them that unifies them into a single testimony. We have on the one hand the stone that was fused from all the stones, and on the other hand, the dream with the vision of the ladder. Both reveal this place as the House of the Lord. But the connection between them in obscure. What is their commonality?
Superiority of Yaakov

הַבָּחוּר שֶׁבָּאָבוֹת זֶה יַעֲקֹב, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים קלה, ד): כִּי יַעֲקֹב בָּחַר לוֹ יָהּ.

The chosen of the patriarchs is Jacob as it states (Psalms 135,4) "For Jacob, Y-H chose for Him."

אֲמַר רַבִּי אַבָּא בַּר כָּהֲנָא: עַד שְׁלֹשָׁה דּוֹרוֹת לֹא פָּסְקָה זוּהֲמָא מֵאֲבוֹתֵינוּ: אַבְרָהָם הוֹלִיד אֶת יִשְׁמָעֵאל, יִצְחָק הוֹלִיד אֶת עֵשָׂו, יַעֲקֹב הוֹלִיד שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר שְׁבָטִים שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה בָּהֶן שׁוּם דּוֹפִי.

Until three generations, defilement did not cease from our Fathers - Avraham bore Yishmael, Yitzchak bore Esav, but Yaakov bore the Twelve Tribes in whom there was no defect."

Profound contemplation is necessary to ascertain what exemplifies Yaakov in this matter. What point precisely renders him unique? The wording of the Talmud indeed implies his superiority. He is the Choicest of the Fathers, and apparently for this reason. In what lies his superiority over Avraham and Yitzchak who were his parents, the ones who bore him? He comes from them, he exists through their power, yet he is superior.
Difficulties of Decision
(יט) הַעִדֹ֨תִי בָכֶ֣ם הַיּוֹם֮ אֶת־הַשָּׁמַ֣יִם וְאֶת־הָאָ֒רֶץ֒ הַחַיִּ֤ים וְהַמָּ֙וֶת֙ נָתַ֣תִּי לְפָנֶ֔יךָ הַבְּרָכָ֖ה וְהַקְּלָלָ֑ה וּבָֽחַרְתָּ֙ בַּחַיִּ֔ים לְמַ֥עַן תִּֽחְיֶ֖ה אַתָּ֥ה וְזַרְעֶֽךָ׃
(19) I call heaven and earth to witness against you this day: I have put before you life and death, blessing and curse. Choose life—if you and your offspring would live—
The definition of choice is that man chooses the option and not that the option chooses itself. But if the options are truly equal, how can he choose one over the other? From where does the power of decision sprout when the two options are truly equal?
It is insufficient to answer that he should contemplate and understand what the intellect dictates. This too is not choice. What does it mean that the intellect dictates? This precisely is the dispute. The intellect draws him in one direction and the learning of his heart, his great will, draws him in the opposite direction, despite his knowing that the intellect dictates the opposite. He stands in the midst of two equal options - or more accurately, two equal forces. From where can he extract the power of decision? Where can he find it?
House of the Lord
כִּי תָּבֹאוּ אֶל הָאָרֶץ. זֶה שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב: עָשִׂיתִי לִי גַּנּוֹת וּפַרְדֵּסִים וְנָטַעְתִּי בָהֶם עֵץ כָּל פֶּרִי (קהלת ב, ה). וְכִי כָּל בְּנֵי אָדָם הֵיכָן נוֹטְעִין כָּל מַה שֶּׁמְּבַקְּשִׁין. כָּל מַה שֶּׁיִּטַּע אָדָם, בָּאָרֶץ הוּא נוֹטֵעַ, בֵּין פִּלְפְּלִין בֵּין כָּל דָּבָר, אִם יִטַּע אָדָם הֵן עוֹשִׂין, שֶׁאֵין אָדָם יוֹדֵעַ מְקוֹם כָּל נְטִיעָה וּנְטִיעָה הֵיכָן הוּא נוֹטֵעַ. אֲבָל שְׁלֹמֹה שֶׁהָיָה חָכָם, נָטַע כָּל מִינֵי אִילָנוֹת, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: עָשִׂיתִי לִי גַּנּוֹת וּפַרְדֵּסִים וְנָטַעְתִּי בָּהֶם עֵץ כָּל פֶּרִי. מַהוּ עֵץ כָּל פֶּרִי, אֹכֶל. אָמַר רַבִּי יַנַּאי, אֲפִלּוּ פִּלְפְּלִין נָטַע שְׁלֹמֹה בָּאָרֶץ. וְכֵיצַד הָיָה נוֹטְעָן. אֶלָּא שְׁלֹמֹה חָכָם הָיָה וְהָיָה יוֹדֵעַ עִקַּר מַשְׁתִּיתוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם. לָמָּה, מִצִּיּוֹן מִכְלַל יֹפִי אֱלֹהִים הוֹפִיעַ (תהלים נ, ב), מִצִּיּוֹן נִשְׁתַּכְלֵל כָּל הָעוֹלָם כֻּלּוֹ, כִּדְתַנִּינַן, לָמָּה נִקְרֵאת שְׁמָהּ אֶבֶן שְׁתִיָּה, שֶׁמִּמֶּנָּה הֻשְׁתַּת הָעוֹלָם. וְהָיָה שְׁלֹמֹה יוֹדֵעַ אֵיזֶה הוּא הַגִּיד שֶׁהוּא הוֹלֵךְ לְכוּשׁ, וְנָטַע עָלָיו פִּלְפְּלִין וּמִיָּד הָיוּ עוֹשִׂין פֵּרוֹת. שֶׁכֵּן הוּא אוֹמֵר, נָטַעְתִּי בָּהֶם עֵץ כָּל פֶּרִי. דָּבָר אַחֵר, נָטַעְתִּי בָּהֶם עֵץ כָּל פֶּרִי. כְּשֵׁם שֶׁהַטַּבּוּר הַזֶּה נָתוּן בְּאֶמְצַע הָאִישׁ, כָּךְ אֶרֶץ יִשְׂרָאֵל נְתוּנָה בְּאֶמְצַע הָעוֹלָם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: יוֹשְׁבֵי עַל טַבּוּר הָאָרֶץ (יחזקאל לח, יב). וּמִמֶּנָּה מַשְׁתִּיתוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם יוֹצֵא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: מִזְמוֹר לְאָסָף, אֵל אֱלֹהִים ה', דִּבֶּר וַיִּקְרָא אָרֶץ, מִמִּזְרַח שֶׁמֶשׁ עַד מְבֹאוֹ (תהלים נ, א). מִנַּיִן, מִצִּיּוֹן מִכְלַל יֹפִי אֱלֹהִים הוֹפִיעַ (שם פסוק ב). אֶרֶץ יִשְׂרָאֵל יוֹשֶׁבֶת בְּאֶמְצָעִיתוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, וִירוּשָׁלַיִם בְּאֶמְצָעִיתָהּ שֶׁל אֶרֶץ יִשְׂרָאֵל, וּבֵית הַמִּקְדָּשׁ בְּאֶמְצַע יְרוּשָׁלַיִם, וְהַהֵיכָל בְּאֶמְצַע בֵּית הַמִּקְדָּשׁ, וְהָאֲרוֹן בְּאֶמְצַע הַהֵיכָל, וְאֶבֶן שְׁתִיָּה לִפְנֵי הָאֲרוֹן, שֶׁמִּמֶּנָּה נִשְׁתַּת הָעוֹלָם. וּשְׁלֹמֹה שֶׁהָיָה חָכָם, עָמַד עַל הַשָּׁרָשִׁין הַיּוֹצְאִין מִמֶּנָּה לְכָל הָעוֹלָם, וְנָטַע בָּהֶם כָּל מִינֵי אִילָנוֹת וְעָשָׂה פֵּרוֹת. לְפִיכָךְ הוּא אוֹמֵר, עָשִׂיתִי לִי גַּנּוֹת וּפַרְדֵּסִים.

(Lev. 19:23:) “When you come into the land and plant.” This text is related (to Eccl. 2:5), “I made gardens and orchards for myself, and in them I planted every kind of fruit tree.” Do not all people plant whatever they want, whatever someone plants in the earth, be it pepper or anything [else. But] if he plants, do [the plants automatically] produce? As no one knows the place of every plant, [i.e.] where to plant it. However, because Solomon was wise, he planted all the species of trees [in their place], as stated (ibid.), “I made gardens and orchards for myself, in which I planted every kind of fruit tree.” What is the meaning of “every kind of fruit tree?” R. Jannay said, “Solomon even planted peppers in the land.” But how did he plant them? It is simply that Solomon was wise and knew the root of the foundation of the world. How? (Ps. 50:2), “Out of Zion God has shined forth as the perfection of beauty.” [This means that] out of Zion has all of the whole world been perfected, as it is taught: Why is it called foundation stone? Because out of it the world was founded. Now Solomon knew which vein went to Cush and planted peppers on it, and they produced immediately. See what he says (in Eccl. 2:5), “and in them I planted every kind of fruit tree.” Another interpretation (of Eccl. 2:5), “and in them I planted every kind of fruit tree.” Just as a navel is set in the middle of a person, so the Land of Israel is the navel of the world. Thus it is stated (in Ezek. 38:12), “who dwell on the navel of the earth.” And the foundation of the world comes out of it, as stated (Ps. 50:1), “A psalm of Asaph. God, the Lord God spoke and summoned the world from East to West.” How is this known? (Ps. 50:2), “Out of Zion God has shined forth as the perfection of beauty.” The Land of Israel sits at the center of the world; Jerusalem is in the center of the Land of Israel; the sanctuary is in the center of Jerusalem; the Temple building is in the center of the sanctuary; the ark is in the center of the Temple building; and the foundation stone, out of which the world was founded, is before the Temple building. Now Solomon, who was wise, determined the roots that went out from [that stone] into the whole world and planted all species of trees in them. He therefore said (in Eccl. 2:5), “I made gardens and orchards for myself.”

This was the one revelation of his wisdom. The concept of wisdom is the recognition of the root of all things in creation. As the wisest of all people, he knew the true root of what all people knew...for this reason, King Solomon was the one who built the Holy Temple from where all of creation draws its sustenance and power...
Hence, the House of the Lord is where the root of all forces is revealed.

(א) כוונת הברכות ובו סעיף אחד:
יכוין בברכות פירוש המלות כשיזכיר השם יכוין פירוש קריאתו באדנות שהוא אדון הכל ויכוין בכתיבתו ביו"ד ה"א שהיה והוה ויהיה ובהזכירו אלהים יכוין שהוא תקיף בעל היכולת ובעל הכחות כולם:

(1) [Laws Regarding The Proper] Intent [When Reciting] The Blessings.
One should have in mind the meaning of the words when reciting blessings. When articulating the Name (ie. י-ה-ו-ה), one should have in mind the meaning of the Name as it is pronounced - Adon-ai (א-ד-ו-נ-י): that He is Lord over all. And one should have in mind [the meaning of the Name] as it is spelled with a Yud-Hei (ie. י-ה-ו-ה) that He Was, Is, and Will Be. And when articulating the Name Elo-him (א-ל-ה-י-ם), have in mind that He is Strong, Omnipotent, and Master of all powers.

Unified Heart
(א) וַיִּשָּׂ֥א יַעֲקֹ֖ב רַגְלָ֑יו וַיֵּ֖לֶךְ אַ֥רְצָה בְנֵי־קֶֽדֶם׃ (ב) וַיַּ֞רְא וְהִנֵּ֧ה בְאֵ֣ר בַּשָּׂדֶ֗ה וְהִנֵּה־שָׁ֞ם שְׁלֹשָׁ֤ה עֶדְרֵי־צֹאן֙ רֹבְצִ֣ים עָלֶ֔יהָ כִּ֚י מִן־הַבְּאֵ֣ר הַהִ֔וא יַשְׁק֖וּ הָעֲדָרִ֑ים וְהָאֶ֥בֶן גְּדֹלָ֖ה עַל־פִּ֥י הַבְּאֵֽר׃ (ג) וְנֶאֶסְפוּ־שָׁ֣מָּה כׇל־הָעֲדָרִ֗ים וְגָלְל֤וּ אֶת־הָאֶ֙בֶן֙ מֵעַל֙ פִּ֣י הַבְּאֵ֔ר וְהִשְׁק֖וּ אֶת־הַצֹּ֑אן וְהֵשִׁ֧יבוּ אֶת־הָאֶ֛בֶן עַל־פִּ֥י הַבְּאֵ֖ר לִמְקֹמָֽהּ׃ (ד) וַיֹּ֤אמֶר לָהֶם֙ יַעֲקֹ֔ב אַחַ֖י מֵאַ֣יִן אַתֶּ֑ם וַיֹּ֣אמְר֔וּ מֵחָרָ֖ן אֲנָֽחְנוּ׃ (ה) וַיֹּ֣אמֶר לָהֶ֔ם הַיְדַעְתֶּ֖ם אֶת־לָבָ֣ן בֶּן־נָח֑וֹר וַיֹּאמְר֖וּ יָדָֽעְנוּ׃ (ו) וַיֹּ֥אמֶר לָהֶ֖ם הֲשָׁל֣וֹם ל֑וֹ וַיֹּאמְר֣וּ שָׁל֔וֹם וְהִנֵּה֙ רָחֵ֣ל בִּתּ֔וֹ בָּאָ֖ה עִם־הַצֹּֽאן׃ (ז) וַיֹּ֗אמֶר הֵ֥ן עוֹד֙ הַיּ֣וֹם גָּד֔וֹל לֹא־עֵ֖ת הֵאָסֵ֣ף הַמִּקְנֶ֑ה הַשְׁק֥וּ הַצֹּ֖אן וּלְכ֥וּ רְעֽוּ׃ (ח) וַיֹּאמְרוּ֮ לֹ֣א נוּכַל֒ עַ֣ד אֲשֶׁ֤ר יֵאָֽסְפוּ֙ כׇּל־הָ֣עֲדָרִ֔ים וְגָֽלְלוּ֙ אֶת־הָאֶ֔בֶן מֵעַ֖ל פִּ֣י הַבְּאֵ֑ר וְהִשְׁקִ֖ינוּ הַצֹּֽאן׃ (ט) עוֹדֶ֖נּוּ מְדַבֵּ֣ר עִמָּ֑ם וְרָחֵ֣ל ׀ בָּ֗אָה עִם־הַצֹּאן֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר לְאָבִ֔יהָ כִּ֥י רֹעָ֖ה הִֽוא׃ (י) וַיְהִ֡י כַּאֲשֶׁר֩ רָאָ֨ה יַעֲקֹ֜ב אֶת־רָחֵ֗ל בַּת־לָבָן֙ אֲחִ֣י אִמּ֔וֹ וְאֶת־צֹ֥אן לָבָ֖ן אֲחִ֣י אִמּ֑וֹ וַיִּגַּ֣שׁ יַעֲקֹ֗ב וַיָּ֤גֶל אֶת־הָאֶ֙בֶן֙ מֵעַל֙ פִּ֣י הַבְּאֵ֔ר וַיַּ֕שְׁקְ אֶת־צֹ֥אן לָבָ֖ן אֲחִ֥י אִמּֽוֹ׃
(1) Jacob resumed his journey and came to the land of the Easterners. (2) There before his eyes was a well in the open. Three flocks of sheep were lying there beside it, for the flocks were watered from that well. The stone on the mouth of the well was large. (3) When all the flocks were gathered there, the stone would be rolled from the mouth of the well and the sheep watered; then the stone would be put back in its place on the mouth of the well. (4) Jacob said to them, “My friends, where are you from?” And they said, “We are from Haran.” (5) He said to them, “Do you know Laban the son of Nahor?” And they said, “Yes, we do.” (6) He continued, “Is he well?” They answered, “Yes, he is; and there is his daughter Rachel, coming with the flock.” (7) He said, “It is still broad daylight, too early to round up the animals; water the flock and take them to pasture.” (8) But they said, “We cannot, until all the flocks are rounded up; then the stone is rolled off the mouth of the well and we water the sheep.” (9) While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her father’s flock—for she was its shepherd. (10) And when Jacob saw Rachel, the daughter of his uncle Laban, and the flock of his uncle Laban, Jacob went up and rolled the stone off the mouth of the well, and watered the flock of his uncle Laban.
ויגש יעקב ויגל. כְּמִי שֶׁמַּעֲבִיר אֶת הַפְּקָק מֵעַל פִּי צְלוֹחִית; לְהוֹדִיעֲךָ שֶׁכֹּחוֹ גָּדוֹל (בראשית רבה):

He rolled it off as one who removes the cork from the mouth of a flask, to inform you that his power was great.

What is the Torah teaching us? Are we being told that he was physically strong, like a muscle man, Heaven forbid? What lesson does this entail? Is it teaching us that one who does not sleep for fourteen years and the single night of sleep after fourteen years is regretted, receives so much strength as to be able to roll off the great stone as though removing a cork from a bottle? What is the definition of the words, "to inform you that his power was great?"
...Everything that the shepherds were capable of doing when all of them were assembled, Yaakov Avinu was capable of doing alone.

(לב) זְכור טָעַן מַקְלו וְעָבַר יַרְדֵּן מַיִם

(לג) יִחַד לֵב וְגָל אֶבֶן מִפִּי בְאֵר מַיִם

(לד) כְּנֶאֱבַק לו שר בָּלוּל מֵאֵשׁ וּמִמַּיִם

(לה) לָכֵן הִבְטַחְתּו הֱיות עִמּו בָּאֵשׁ וּבַמָּיִם.

(לו) בַּעֲבוּרו אַל תִּמְנַע מָיִם.

(32) Remember the one who, carrying his staff, crossed the Jordan's water.

(33) He [Jacob] was single-hearted, and rolled the stone off the mouth of the well of water.

(34) When he was attacked by an angel comprised of fire and water,

(35) You promised to be with him through fire and through water.

(36) For his sake, do not withhold water.

In other words, the effort required of Yaakov Avinu to roll the stone off the mouth of the well was the unification his heart.
Oneness and Abundance
(כו) כׇּל־הַ֠נֶּ֠פֶשׁ הַבָּאָ֨ה לְיַעֲקֹ֤ב מִצְרַ֙יְמָה֙ יֹצְאֵ֣י יְרֵכ֔וֹ מִלְּבַ֖ד נְשֵׁ֣י בְנֵי־יַעֲקֹ֑ב כׇּל־נֶ֖פֶשׁ שִׁשִּׁ֥ים וָשֵֽׁשׁ׃
(26) All the persons belonging to Jacob who came to Egypt —his own issue, aside from the wives of Jacob’s sons—all these persons numbered 66.

מָצָאתִי בְּוַיִּקְרָא רַבָּה, עֵשָׂו שֵׁשׁ נְפָשׁוֹת הָיוּ לוֹ, וְהַכָּתוּב קוֹרֵא אוֹתָן נַפְשׁוֹת בֵּיתוֹ, לְשׁוֹן רַבִּים, לְפִי שֶׁהָיוּ עוֹבְדִין לֶאֱלֹהוּת הַרְבֵּה; יַעֲקֹב שִׁבְעִים הָיוּ לוֹ, וְהַכָּתוּב קוֹרֵא אוֹתָן נֶפֶשׁ, לְפִי שֶׁהָיָה עוֹבְדִים לְאֵל אֶחָד:

In Vayikra Rabbah 4:6 I found the following: When he left Canaan (cf. Genesis 36:6) Esau’s family consisted of only six (himself and his five sons), and Scripture calls them “the souls of his house” (in the plural) and this is because they worshipped many gods (each serving a different god and having as it were, a different soul or religious feeling). But the family of Jacob when he came to Egypt consisted of seventy and Scripture calls them “soul”, in the singular, because they all served One God.

(ט) וַיֹּ֥אמֶר עֵשָׂ֖ו יֶשׁ־לִ֣י רָ֑ב אָחִ֕י יְהִ֥י לְךָ֖ אֲשֶׁר־לָֽךְ׃ (י) וַיֹּ֣אמֶר יַעֲקֹ֗ב אַל־נָא֙ אִם־נָ֨א מָצָ֤אתִי חֵן֙ בְּעֵינֶ֔יךָ וְלָקַחְתָּ֥ מִנְחָתִ֖י מִיָּדִ֑י כִּ֣י עַל־כֵּ֞ן רָאִ֣יתִי פָנֶ֗יךָ כִּרְאֹ֛ת פְּנֵ֥י אֱלֹהִ֖ים וַתִּרְצֵֽנִי׃ (יא) קַח־נָ֤א אֶת־בִּרְכָתִי֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר הֻבָ֣את לָ֔ךְ כִּֽי־חַנַּ֥נִי אֱלֹהִ֖ים וְכִ֣י יֶשׁ־לִי־כֹ֑ל וַיִּפְצַר־בּ֖וֹ וַיִּקָּֽח׃
(9) Esau said, “I have enough, my brother; let what you have remain yours.” (10) But Jacob said, “No, I pray you; if you would do me this favor, accept from me this gift; for to see your face is like seeing the face of God, and you have received me favorably. (11) Please accept my present which has been brought to you, for God has favored me and I have plenty.” And when he urged him, he accepted.
Esav prides himself in abundance, and Yaakov prides himself in wholeness.
For Esav, the preferred quality and aspired feature is profusion; he seeks more and more. For Yaakov, the focus is the reverse.
We seek wholeness...we want an existence in which all forces are interconnected, integrated into one complete existence that encompasses everything...
Anyone whoo looks at the world today sees the culture of abundance, which proceeds toward more and more abundance. That is its entire concept. It continues to add many, many things that do not interconnect. But for them, it is not a disadvantage. To the contrary - they seek new delights, and nothing is more boring than transforming everything into one. They cannot fathom what it is. Abundance is far more interesting and exciting. They seek dispersion. They are not even ashamed to use the word בידור, entertainment, which is Aramaic for dispersion. This is essentially their entire focus - the more fragmentation and the more dispersion, the better. Such is the culture.

ר' חייא רבה ורב ינאי, חד אמר עולים ויורדים בו בסולם וניחא ליה, וחד אמר עולים ויורדים בו ביעקב...את הוא שאיקונין שלך חקוקה למעלה, עולים למעלה ורואים חיה רביעית שבכסא הכבוד ששמה כמוהו, דהיינו ישראל, ויורדין למטה ומוצאים אותו ישן...