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Matot: What about the Midianite genocide?
Parshat Matot describes a war against the Midianites that was initiated by God’s command in the previous parsha (Numbers 25:16-18), and which is repeated again in this parsha as well.
(טז) וַיְדַבֵּ֥ר ה' אֶל־מֹשֶׁ֥ה לֵּאמֹֽר׃ (יז) צָר֖וֹר אֶת־הַמִּדְיָנִ֑ים וְהִכִּיתֶ֖ם אוֹתָֽם׃ (יח) כִּ֣י צֹרְרִ֥ים הֵם֙ לָכֶ֔ם בְּנִכְלֵיהֶ֛ם אֲשֶׁר־נִכְּל֥וּ לָכֶ֖ם עַל־דְּבַר־פְּע֑וֹר וְעַל־דְּבַ֞ר כׇּזְבִּ֨י בַת־נְשִׂ֤יא מִדְיָן֙ אֲחֹתָ֔ם הַמֻּכָּ֥ה בְיוֹם־הַמַּגֵּפָ֖ה עַל־דְּבַר־פְּעֽוֹר׃
(16) ה' spoke to Moses, saying, (17) “Assail the Midianites and defeat them— (18) for they assailed you by the trickery they practiced against you—because of the affair of Peor and because of the affair of their kinswoman Cozbi, daughter of the Midianite chieftain, who was killed at the time of the plague on account of Peor.”
(א) וַיְדַבֵּ֥ר ה' אֶל־מֹשֶׁ֥ה לֵּאמֹֽר׃ (ב) נְקֹ֗ם נִקְמַת֙ בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל מֵאֵ֖ת הַמִּדְיָנִ֑ים אַחַ֖ר תֵּאָסֵ֥ף אֶל־עַמֶּֽיךָ׃
(1) ה' spoke to Moses, saying, (2) “Avenge the Israelite people on the Midianites; then you shall be gathered to your kin.”
The prosecution of the war against the Midianites is related as follows:
(ז) וַֽיִּצְבְּאוּ֙ עַל־מִדְיָ֔ן כַּאֲשֶׁ֛ר צִוָּ֥ה ה' אֶת־מֹשֶׁ֑ה וַיַּֽהַרְג֖וּ כׇּל־זָכָֽר׃ (ח) וְאֶת־מַלְכֵ֨י מִדְיָ֜ן הָרְג֣וּ עַל־חַלְלֵיהֶ֗ם אֶת־אֱוִ֤י וְאֶת־רֶ֙קֶם֙ וְאֶת־צ֤וּר וְאֶת־חוּר֙ וְאֶת־רֶ֔בַע חֲמֵ֖שֶׁת מַלְכֵ֣י מִדְיָ֑ן וְאֵת֙ בִּלְעָ֣ם בֶּן־בְּע֔וֹר הָרְג֖וּ בֶּחָֽרֶב׃ (ט) וַיִּשְׁבּ֧וּ בְנֵי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֛ל אֶת־נְשֵׁ֥י מִדְיָ֖ן וְאֶת־טַפָּ֑ם וְאֵ֨ת כׇּל־בְּהֶמְתָּ֧ם וְאֶת־כׇּל־מִקְנֵהֶ֛ם וְאֶת־כׇּל־חֵילָ֖ם בָּזָֽזוּ׃ (י) וְאֵ֤ת כׇּל־עָרֵיהֶם֙ בְּמ֣וֹשְׁבֹתָ֔ם וְאֵ֖ת כׇּל־טִֽירֹתָ֑ם שָׂרְפ֖וּ בָּאֵֽשׁ׃ (יא) וַיִּקְחוּ֙ אֶת־כׇּל־הַשָּׁלָ֔ל וְאֵ֖ת כׇּל־הַמַּלְק֑וֹחַ בָּאָדָ֖ם וּבַבְּהֵמָֽה׃ (יב) וַיָּבִ֡אוּ אֶל־מֹשֶׁה֩ וְאֶל־אֶלְעָזָ֨ר הַכֹּהֵ֜ן וְאֶל־עֲדַ֣ת בְּנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֗ל אֶת־הַשְּׁבִ֧י וְאֶת־הַמַּלְק֛וֹחַ וְאֶת־הַשָּׁלָ֖ל אֶל־הַֽמַּחֲנֶ֑ה אֶל־עַֽרְבֹ֣ת מוֹאָ֔ב אֲשֶׁ֖ר עַל־יַרְדֵּ֥ן יְרֵחֽוֹ׃ {ס}

(7) They took the field against Midian, as ה' had commanded Moses, and slew every male. (8) Along with their other victims, they slew the kings of Midian: Evi, Rekem, Zur, Hur, and Reba, the five kings of Midian. They also put Balaam son of Beor to the sword. (9) The Israelites took the women and children of the Midianites captive, and seized as booty all their beasts, all their herds, and all their wealth. (10) And they destroyed by fire all the towns in which they were settled, and their encampments. (11) They gathered all the spoil and all the booty, human and beast, (12) and they brought the captives, the booty, and the spoil to Moses, Eleazar the priest, and the Israelite community leadership, at the camp in the steppes of Moab, at the Jordan near Jericho.

However, when Moses goes out to greet the victorious Israelite forces, he is deeply angered to see that among the civilian captives are adult women.

(יד) וַיִּקְצֹ֣ף מֹשֶׁ֔ה עַ֖ל פְּקוּדֵ֣י הֶחָ֑יִל שָׂרֵ֤י הָאֲלָפִים֙ וְשָׂרֵ֣י הַמֵּא֔וֹת הַבָּאִ֖ים מִצְּבָ֥א הַמִּלְחָמָֽה׃ (טו) וַיֹּ֥אמֶר אֲלֵיהֶ֖ם מֹשֶׁ֑ה הַֽחִיִּיתֶ֖ם כׇּל־נְקֵבָֽה׃ (טז) הֵ֣ן הֵ֜נָּה הָי֨וּ לִבְנֵ֤י יִשְׂרָאֵל֙ בִּדְבַ֣ר בִּלְעָ֔ם לִמְסׇר־מַ֥עַל בַּה' עַל־דְּבַר־פְּע֑וֹר וַתְּהִ֥י הַמַּגֵּפָ֖ה בַּעֲדַ֥ת ה'׃ (יז) וְעַתָּ֕ה הִרְג֥וּ כׇל־זָכָ֖ר בַּטָּ֑ף וְכׇל־אִשָּׁ֗ה יֹדַ֥עַת אִ֛ישׁ לְמִשְׁכַּ֥ב זָכָ֖ר הֲרֹֽגוּ׃

(14) Moses became angry with the commanders of the army, the officers of thousands and the officers of hundreds, who had come back from the military campaign. (15) Moses said to them, “You have spared every female! (16) Yet they are the very ones who, at the bidding of Balaam, induced the Israelites to trespass against ה' in the matter of Peor, so that יהוה’s community was struck by the plague. (17) Now, therefore, slay every male child, and slay also every woman who has known a man carnally;

This episode is stunning in that, at least at first sight, it seems to document the Israelites committing what we would today call genocide. After the Israelite army has killed all the Midianite men, destroyed all the Midianite villages, captured the civilian population, and looted all their possessions, in verse 31:17 Moses explicitly demands that the Israelite commanders murder all non-virgin Midianite women and all male children.
How are we to regard this turn of events? Should we be horrified at what Moses has just asked his military commanders to do? Does our moral intuition give us a sense of revulsion when we read this passage or, at a minimum, grave disappointment that God’s greatest prophet has just ordered his followers to commit the severest moral crime, the murder of children?
In considering this, it’s important to note that what we’re seeing here is not just the sort of indifference, and sometimes depraved indifference, to civilian casualties that still occurs in war today. This is not a case of civilians being caught in the crossfire, “wrong place, wrong time,” or even of civilians being targeted for the purpose of terrorizing a population into submission. The Midianite war has already ended. The fighting is done. The civilian population has been taken captive. What we are talking about here, what Moses has ordered, is the wholesale slaughter of captive non-combatants including children.
For those of us who would like to see the Torah as a source of moral guidance, this is a problem. If the Torah is a good teaching, then it should be “good” in a moral sense. Killing children is the opposite of moral good, so it should certainly bother us to see such a vile practice endorsed by the Torah. And we should be troubled as well by how we conceptualize God in the face of something like this. Can we admire, let alone worship, a deity that orders the killing of innocent women and children? Doesn’t it make us wonder for a minute whether God is the good guy or the bad guy? The questions raised by this narrative are something we should wrestle with if we wish to view the Torah as an instrument of moral instruction.
This is, of course, not the only instance where the Torah calls for the murder of innocent civilians. The laws of war in Deuteronomy 20, for example, appear to prescribe complete extermination of the indigenous peoples of Canaan, and one might infer the same for the nation of Amalek (Deuteronomy 25:19). But these special cases are more “theoretical,” let’s say. As to Moses’ review of his scorched-earth military victories against the two Transjordanian Amorite kings in Deuteronomy (2:32-3:7), where he states that “we annihilated every town — men, women, and children — leaving no survivor” (2:34), this perhaps should not be taken at face value, since no massacre of women and children was reported at the time these events occurred (Numbers 21), and we find subsequently that Amorites still remained to be conquered in the Transjordan (Numbers 32:39) and the Reubenites and Gadites are still afraid of the “inhabitants of the land” (32:17).
(לט) וַיֵּ֨לְכ֜וּ בְּנֵ֨י מָכִ֧יר בֶּן־מְנַשֶּׁ֛ה גִּלְעָ֖דָה וַֽיִּלְכְּדֻ֑הָ וַיּ֖וֹרֶשׁ אֶת־הָאֱמֹרִ֥י אֲשֶׁר־בָּֽהּ׃
(39) The descendants of Machir son of Manasseh went to Gilead and captured it, dispossessing the Amorites who were there;
(יז) וַאֲנַ֜חְנוּ נֵחָלֵ֣ץ חֻשִׁ֗ים לִפְנֵי֙ בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל עַ֛ד אֲשֶׁ֥ר אִם־הֲבִֽיאֹנֻ֖ם אֶל־מְקוֹמָ֑ם וְיָשַׁ֤ב טַפֵּ֙נוּ֙ בְּעָרֵ֣י הַמִּבְצָ֔ר מִפְּנֵ֖י יֹשְׁבֵ֥י הָאָֽרֶץ׃
(17) And we will hasten as shock-troops in the van of the Israelites until we have established them in their home, while our children stay in the fortified towns because of the inhabitants of the land.
Although it does state in Numbers 21 regarding the battle against King Og that the Israelites fought him until “no survivor was left to him”, this could easily be an idiomatic reference to a decisive military victory on the field of battle.
(לה) וַיַּכּ֨וּ אֹת֤וֹ וְאֶת־בָּנָיו֙ וְאֶת־כׇּל־עַמּ֔וֹ עַד־בִּלְתִּ֥י הִשְׁאִֽיר־ל֖וֹ שָׂרִ֑יד וַיִּֽירְשׁ֖וּ אֶת־אַרְצֽוֹ׃
(35) They defeated him and his sons and all his troops, until no remnant was left him; and they took possession of his country.
This is not to say that these passages are not morally troubling and worthy of discussion in their own right, but they do not have the viscerality, immediacy, and pungency of our passage here in which Moses demands, “Now kill all the male children and non-virgin women.”
So how do we address the apparent immorality in the Midianite War narrative? A first approach is, I think, to question whether we should take the narrative literally. For example, while we do see Moses unequivocally command the massacre of civilians (31:17), we do not read that God Himself ordered this massacre, nor do we see any confirmation that the massacre was ultimately carried out by the military leaders. The persistence of Midian as a kingdom powerful enough to subjugate Israel generations later in the time of Gideon (Judges 6) lends credence to the suspicion that Midian was not in fact eradicated as the events in our parsha suggest.
(א) וַיַּעֲשׂ֧וּ בְנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֛ל הָרַ֖ע בְּעֵינֵ֣י ה' וַיִּתְּנֵ֧ם ה' בְּיַד־מִדְיָ֖ן שֶׁ֥בַע שָׁנִֽים׃ (ב) וַתָּ֥עׇז יַד־מִדְיָ֖ן עַל־יִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל מִפְּנֵ֨י מִדְיָ֜ן עָשׂ֥וּ לָהֶ֣ם ׀ בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֗ל אֶת־הַמִּנְהָרוֹת֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר בֶּהָרִ֔ים וְאֶת־הַמְּעָר֖וֹת וְאֶת־הַמְּצָדֽוֹת׃ (ג) וְהָיָ֖ה אִם־זָרַ֣ע יִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל וְעָלָ֨ה מִדְיָ֧ן וַעֲמָלֵ֛ק וּבְנֵי־קֶ֖דֶם וְעָל֥וּ עָלָֽיו׃
(1) Then the Israelites did what was offensive to the LORD, and the LORD delivered them into the hands of the Midianites for seven years. (2) The hand of the Midianites prevailed over Israel; and because of Midian, the Israelites provided themselves with refuges in the caves and strongholds of the mountains.-a (3) After the Israelites had done their sowing, Midian, Amalek, and the Kedemites would come up and raid them;
We can also point to certain anomalies in the text that might be taken to indicate that not everything here is what it seems, such as the disappearance of the recently-appointed Joshua from a narrative in which he should have been central, or the fact that the Midianites are curiously being held accountable for the sins of the Israelites and Moabites with Baal Peor (Numbers 25), or that Balaam is indicted for events at Peor in which he never made an appearance, or again that Balaam happens to be hanging out with the Midianites to begin with, or that neither the Midianite war nor the massacre is mentioned in Deuteronomy’s synopsis of the period (Deuteronomy 2-3), or that the five Midianite kings are represented as Amorite princes in Joshua 13:21, or that God’s initial command to attack the Midianites is followed not by the prosecution of this war, but instead first by a census, then the ascent of Moses to Mount Avarim, then the investiture of Joshua, and then a quite lengthy lecture on calendrical sacrifices and vows.
We might even wonder whether Moses could have so casually issued a command that would entail wiping out the family of his wife and father-in-law, who were Midianites themselves, as well as a people who had given him shelter and safe haven years before. And in the ensuing passages detailing how the spoils of war were divided (31:25-47), the somewhat awkward note in 31:35 that the human prisoners were just the virgin girls does not disguise the fact that the rest of this discussion generically refers to “human captives,” suggesting a wider prisoner pool more in line with the huge numbers provided there.
(לה) וְנֶ֣פֶשׁ אָדָ֔ם מִ֨ן־הַנָּשִׁ֔ים אֲשֶׁ֥ר לֹֽא־יָדְע֖וּ מִשְׁכַּ֣ב זָכָ֑ר כׇּל־נֶ֕פֶשׁ שְׁנַ֥יִם וּשְׁלֹשִׁ֖ים אָֽלֶף׃
(35) and a total of 32,000 human beings, namely, the females who had not had carnal relations.
In any case, if we could convince ourselves based on any of these observations that the events of the Midianite War are more legendary than historical, and that the genocide did not happen as described, would this attenuate some of the moral dilemma?
Perhaps it would, but in a way this is also besides the point. Whether or not events transpired historically the way they are presented here, the text itself does not raise any moral objections over the proposed massacre, and it seems that the text we have wants us to believe that the massacre was in fact carried out as Moses commanded. The Torah is teaching us that the genocide occurred, and that Moses ordered it. What do we do with that?
It seems we have a few options. One is the idea that the Midianites were simply so very, very evil that they deserved this punishment. However, it was not the Midianites but the Moabite women (25:1) who precipitated the apostasy at Baal Peor:
(א) וַיֵּ֥שֶׁב יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל בַּשִּׁטִּ֑ים וַיָּ֣חֶל הָעָ֔ם לִזְנ֖וֹת אֶל־בְּנ֥וֹת מוֹאָֽב׃
(1) While Israel was staying at Shittim, the menfolk profaned themselves by whoring with the Moabite women,
Even putting this aside, the appeal to the great evilness of the Midianites is still very unsatisfying. The Midianite infants and children could not have been responsible for causing the Israelites to sin, and in any case the blame surely lies primarily with those Israelites (25:3) who decided to worship Baal Peor, and for which they were already severely punished by sword and plague.
(ג) וַיִּצָּ֥מֶד יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל לְבַ֣עַל פְּע֑וֹר וַיִּֽחַר־אַ֥ף ה' בְּיִשְׂרָאֵֽל׃ (ד) וַיֹּ֨אמֶר ה' אֶל־מֹשֶׁ֗ה קַ֚ח אֶת־כׇּל־רָאשֵׁ֣י הָעָ֔ם וְהוֹקַ֥ע אוֹתָ֛ם לַה' נֶ֣גֶד הַשָּׁ֑מֶשׁ וְיָשֹׁ֛ב חֲר֥וֹן אַף־ה' מִיִּשְׂרָאֵֽל׃ (ה) וַיֹּ֣אמֶר מֹשֶׁ֔ה אֶל־שֹׁפְטֵ֖י יִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל הִרְגוּ֙ אִ֣ישׁ אֲנָשָׁ֔יו הַנִּצְמָדִ֖ים לְבַ֥עַל פְּעֽוֹר׃
(3) Thus Israel attached itself to Baal-peor, and ה' was incensed with Israel. (4) ה' said to Moses, “Take all the ringleaders and have them publicly impaled before ה', so that יהוה’s wrath may turn away from Israel.” (5) So Moses said to Israel’s officials, “Each of you slay those of his men who attached themselves to Baal-peor.”
(ט) וַיִּהְי֕וּ הַמֵּתִ֖ים בַּמַּגֵּפָ֑ה אַרְבָּעָ֥ה וְעֶשְׂרִ֖ים אָֽלֶף׃ {פ}
(9) Those who died of the plague numbered twenty-four thousand.
Why would Moses apply collective punishment upon Midianite children for the sins of others?
Another approach might be to say simply that this is how warfare was conducted in the ancient Near East. If it was indeed a barbaric era, perhaps “kill everyone, take everything” was the only rule of war, and what Moses commanded was simply consistent with the time and place. This wouldn’t necessarily make it moral, but at least we might then say that he couldn’t have known better. However, the idea that slaughter of innocents was normal practice runs against the whole thrust of this narrative, which is that the Midianites were receiving “special treatment” for the evil they (or the Moabites) had done. The slaughter that Moses is demanding his generals commit is not normal warfare. “Normal” would have been what the generals did originally by capturing the civilians, which is also consistent with the laws of war that Deuteronomy 20 lays out for non-Canaanite nations.
(יד) רַ֣ק הַ֠נָּשִׁ֠ים וְהַטַּ֨ף וְהַבְּהֵמָ֜ה וְכֹל֩ אֲשֶׁ֨ר יִהְיֶ֥ה בָעִ֛יר כׇּל־שְׁלָלָ֖הּ תָּבֹ֣ז לָ֑ךְ וְאָֽכַלְתָּ֙ אֶת־שְׁלַ֣ל אֹיְבֶ֔יךָ אֲשֶׁ֥ר נָתַ֛ן ה' אֱלֹקֶ֖יךָ לָֽךְ׃
(14) You may, however, take as your booty the women, the children, the livestock, and everything in the town—all its spoil—and enjoy the use of the spoil of your enemy, which your God ה' gives you.
But this is precisely why Moses was so furious at them: They did “normal” when they were supposed to do “extreme.” Moses has to reiterate for them why this case demanded special brutality (31:16).
(טז) הֵ֣ן הֵ֜נָּה הָי֨וּ לִבְנֵ֤י יִשְׂרָאֵל֙ בִּדְבַ֣ר בִּלְעָ֔ם לִמְסׇר־מַ֥עַל בַּה' עַל־דְּבַר־פְּע֑וֹר וַתְּהִ֥י הַמַּגֵּפָ֖ה בַּעֲדַ֥ת ה'׃
(16) Yet they are the very ones who, at the bidding of Balaam, induced the Israelites to trespass against ה' in the matter of Peor, so that יהוה’s community was struck by the plague.
So the evidence is that the slaughter demanded by Moses was exceptional, not normal.
But if this was indeed such an exceptional situation, then perhaps this provides our answer. Normally, killing innocent children would be deeply immoral, but in this case, because (we assume) God specifically commanded the killing of children, this makes it moral — but only in this special instance. However, this is still problematic, because the minimum thing we require of a moral system is consistency. If it is flatly immoral to kill innocent children on Tuesday, it cannot be morally acceptable to kill innocent children on Wednesday. If one insists that any command is moral merely in virtue of being a command from God, then one gives up systematic morality entirely in favor of “divine command theory”. Far from the moral absolutism that many wish to find in the Bible, this yields the most radical moral relativism: If God says “Love your neighbor,” then that is moral. If God says, “Eat your neighbor,” then that too is moral. If God says, “Don’t steal,” then that is moral. If God says, “Steal whatever you can whenever you can,” then that too is moral. Any action, as well as its opposite, is moral if God says so.
Needless to say, this is not the way most of us conceive of morality. To solve our dilemma by accepting that the murder of innocent children is moral because “God said so” is to erase one problem by creating a far greater one.
But where does that leave us with respect to the Midianite massacre? Do we just wave it away as another one of those unsavory Biblical curiosities? Do we regard it as legendary and polemical rather than historical? Do we bite the bullet and concede that God isn’t a moral being and doesn’t behave according to moral principles, and accept along with that all that is entailed by worshiping and obeying an amoral God?
I don’t have an answer to these questions, but to my mind, the best resolution here — at least the best theologically, to salvage the concept of a good God — may be to place the blame squarely on Moses. Moses in this parsha is at the end of his tenure as God’s chief representative, and he has long ago worn out his welcome with the people. If he ever felt any real kinship with the Israelite masses, which is somewhat dubious, he has by now come to view them as an annoyance at best, and an adversary at worst. In the entire Book of Numbers, Moses has not had a positive thing to say to the Israelites. The only good word the Israelites have heard in recent memory has come out of the mouth of Balaam. Moses’ mounting annoyance with his Israelite flock has already caused him to make one misinterpretation of God’s Will, serious enough cost him the privilege of entering the Land of Canaan, and Moses is now being rocked by a sequence of challenges to his authority, such as the slander of Aaron and Miriam (12:2), the unauthorized attack on Canaan (14:40), the Korah rebellion (16:1), the vigilante action of Pinchas (25:7-8), and soon the defection of the Reubenites and Gadites (32:1), not to mention the near continuous agitation against him over the lack of food and water.
It gets worse. God has condemned a generation of Israelites to die in the wilderness, undercutting the promise of Exodus 6 and all of Moses’ labors to bring them to Canaan, and in so doing also fully validating the accusations against Moses brought by his worst detractors, that “you brought us from a land flowing with milk and honey to have us die the wilderness” (Numbers 16:13).
(יג) הַמְעַ֗ט כִּ֤י הֶֽעֱלִיתָ֙נוּ֙ מֵאֶ֨רֶץ זָבַ֤ת חָלָב֙ וּדְבַ֔שׁ לַהֲמִיתֵ֖נוּ בַּמִּדְבָּ֑ר כִּֽי־תִשְׂתָּרֵ֥ר עָלֵ֖ינוּ גַּם־הִשְׂתָּרֵֽר׃
(13) Is it not enough that you brought us from a land flowing with milk and honey to have us die in the wilderness, that you would also lord it over us?
Turns out that was true. They all died. Moses’ sister has died. His brother has died. Now, God warns Moses that he too will die in the wilderness upon the conclusion of the Midianite War. Things are not going well for Moses, to say the least. Perhaps, as in the case where he mistakenly hits the rock to bring forth water (20:11), Moses has again allowed his vexation to influence his judgment, and misunderstands God’s call for vengeance on Midian as requiring something far more severe than it actually does.
The fact is that the Israelite army had already waged the war on the Midianites in accordance with God’s wishes, “as the Lord had commanded Moses” (31:7).
(ז) וַֽיִּצְבְּאוּ֙ עַל־מִדְיָ֔ן כַּאֲשֶׁ֛ר צִוָּ֥ה ה' אֶת־מֹשֶׁ֑ה וַיַּֽהַרְג֖וּ כׇּל־זָכָֽר׃
(7) They took the field against Midian, as ה' had commanded Moses, and slew every male.
They had satisfied God’s call for vengeance. But perhaps Moses’ boiling frustration over the Israelites’ persistent recalcitrance — frustration which had now cost him his own chance to enter Canaan — caused him to see failure in the Israelites’ actions where he should have seen success. To Moses’ agitated mind, whatever the Israelite commanders had done, it must have been inadequate. If they had captured, then they should have slain. If they had slain, they should have slain more. Moses ordered the massacre not because it was God’s wish, but because he could not conceive that what the Israelites had done on their own might have already been sufficient. It had to be wrong, as it always was. And if it was wrong, then it had to be quickly corrected. But in this case the generals were not wrong; it was Moses who erred.
Is blaming Moses’ deteriorating mental state a satisfactory approach to ameliorating the moral dilemma of the Midianite massacre? I am not sure myself. There is no direct support from the text, no suggestion that Moses did anything wrong. But there is also no direct evidence that God commanded the massacre or that the generals in fact carried it out, which leaves Moses holding the bag, as it were. In this vein, it is interesting that when Moses rebukes his military leaders for failing to kill the Midianite women, he does not say, “You violated God’s command.” There was no such command. Rather, Moses gives his own rationale for why the massacre should be carried out (31:16). This suggests that it is all on Moses.
Chazal noticed something else unusual about this narrative. In the resumption of legal communication (31:21), it is Eleazar the priest and not Moses who speaks the law.
(כא) וַיֹּ֨אמֶר אֶלְעָזָ֤ר הַכֹּהֵן֙ אֶל־אַנְשֵׁ֣י הַצָּבָ֔א הַבָּאִ֖ים לַמִּלְחָמָ֑ה זֹ֚את חֻקַּ֣ת הַתּוֹרָ֔ה אֲשֶׁר־צִוָּ֥ה ה' אֶת־מֹשֶֽׁה׃
(21) Eleazar the priest said to the troops who had taken part in the fighting, “This is the ritual law that ה' has enjoined upon Moses:
Reish Lakish (Pesachim 66b) and Rabbi Pinchas (Pirkei d’Rabbi Eliezer 47:11) conclude from this that Moses lost his prophetic ability and/or his wisdom at the moment that he gave himself over to anger. Similarly, Rabbi Eleazar (Sifrei Bamidbar 157:9) identifies Moses’ fury at his military commanders in 31:14 as one of three instances where Moses’ anger brought him into error.
רֵישׁ לָקִישׁ אָמַר: כׇּל אָדָם שֶׁכּוֹעֵס, אִם חָכָם הוּא — חׇכְמָתוֹ מִסְתַּלֶּקֶת מִמֶּנּוּ, אִם נָבִיא הוּא — נְבוּאָתוֹ מִסְתַּלֶּקֶת מִמֶּנּוּ. אִם חָכָם הוּא חׇכְמָתוֹ מִסְתַּלֶּקֶת מִמֶּנּוּ — מִמֹּשֶׁה, דִּכְתִיב: ״וַיִּקְצוֹף מֹשֶׁה עַל פְּקוּדֵי הֶחָיִל וְגוֹ׳״, וּכְתִיב: ״וַיֹּאמֶר אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן אֶל אַנְשֵׁי הַצָּבָא הַבָּאִים לַמִּלְחָמָה זֹאת חֻקַּת הַתּוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר צִוָּה ה׳ אֶת מֹשֶׁה וְגוֹ׳״, מִכְּלָל דְּמֹשֶׁה אִיעֲלַם מִינֵּיהּ.
Similarly, Reish Lakish said: Any person who becomes angry, if he is a Torah scholar, his wisdom departs from him, and if he is a prophet, his prophecy departs from him. The Gemara explains: That if he is a Torah scholar his wisdom departs from him is learned from Moses, as it is written: “And Moses became angry with the officers of the host, the captains over thousands and the captains over hundreds, who came from the battle” (Numbers 31:14). And what was his punishment? As it is written afterward: “And Elazar the priest said to the men of war who went to the battle: This is the statute of the law, which the Lord commanded Moses” (Numbers 31:21), which proves by inference that this law had become hidden from Moses due to his anger.

ואמ' לא על אלו נפלו מישראל ארבעה ועשרים אלף שנ' הן הנה היו לבני ישראל בדבר בלעם התחיל כועס עליהם שנ' ויקצוף משה על פקודי החיל ובכעסו נסתלקה רוח הקדש מעליו. מכאן אתה למד שהקפדן מאבד את כל חכמתו, וראה אלעזר וקבל מאחריו, שנאמר (במדבר לא, כא) וַיֹּאמֶר אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן אֶל אַנְשֵׁי הַצָּבָא וגו' זֹאת חֻקַּת הַתּוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר צִוָּה ה' אֶת מֹשֶׁה, אמר להם, למשה צוה ואותי לא צוה:

(Moses) said to (Phineas): Because of these did not twenty-four thousand men of Israel fall? as it is said, "Behold, these caused the children of Israel, through the counsel of Balaam, to commit trespass against the Lord in the matter of Peor" (Num. 31:16); and he began to be angry with them, as it is said, "And Moses was wroth with the officers of the host" (Num. 31:14). During his anger the Holy Spirit departed from him. Hence thou mayest learn that the impetuous man destroys his wisdom. Eleazar saw and he heard (the voice) behind (Moses), as it is said, "And Eleazar the priest said unto the men of war… This is the statute of the Law which the Lord hath commanded Moses" (Num. 31:21). He said to them: He commanded Moses and He did not command me.

(ט) ויאמר אלעזר הכהן אל אנשי הצבא הבאים למלחמה זאת חקת התורה אשר צוה ה' את משה – משה רבינו לפי שהיה בכלל כעס – בא לכלל טעות. ר' אלעזר אומר: בג' מקומות בא לכלל כעס ובא לכלל טעות. כיוצא בו אתה אומר (ויקרא י) ויקצוף על אלעזר ועל איתמר בני אהרן הנותרים לאמר קודש הוא לכם מהו אומר מדוע לא אכלתם את החטאת וגו'. כיוצא בו אתה אומר (במדבר כ) ויאמר אליהם שמעו נא המורים המן הסלע הזה נוציא לכם מים? – מהו אומר? וירם משה את ידו ויך את הסלע במטהו פעמים. אף כאן אתה אומר ויקצוף משה על פקודי החיל שרי האלפים ושרי המאות הבאים מצבא המלחמה, מה אומר? ויאמר אלעזר אל אנשי הצבא הבאים למלחמה. משה רבינו, לפי שבא לכלל כעס – בא לכלל טעות.

(9) (Bamidbar 31:21) "And Elazar the Cohein said to the men of the host who came to the war: This is the statute of the Torah which the L-rd commanded Moses": It had been forgotten by Moses, our teacher. Because he had succumbed to anger, he succumbed to error. R. Elazar says: In three places he succumbed to anger and he succumbed to error: (Vayikra 10:16-17) "and he was wroth with Elazar and Ithamar, the remaining sons of Aaron, saying: Why did you not eat the sin-offering in the holy place?" (Bamidbar 20:10) "And he said to them: Listen, now, you fractious ones! Shall we bring forth water for you from this rock!" — followed by (11) "And Moses lifted his hand and smote the rock with his staff twice." Here, too, (Ibid. 31:14) "And Moses was wroth with the commanders of the host, the officers of the thousands and the officers of the hundreds, who came from the host of battle" — followed by "And Elazar the Cohein said to the men of the host who came to the war, etc." Moses, our teacher, because he had succumbed to anger, succumbed to error.

This supports the idea that Moses was not in a healthy frame of mind and was not in fact speaking prophetically when he called for the massacre of women and children. It seems this order came from a distressed and angry human being, not from God.
Decide for yourself whether you find this convincing or not. But perhaps the real question is this: Which is the better of the two evils, that an elderly and bitter Moses erroneously assumed that God desired the murder of women and children, or that a good God did indeed desire the murder of innocent women and children? If we have a choice to make here, I think we are better off saying that Moses made the call.