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Miriam's Cup

(טז) וּמִשָּׁ֖ם בְּאֵ֑רָה הִ֣וא הַבְּאֵ֗ר אֲשֶׁ֨ר אָמַ֤ר יְהֹוָה֙ לְמֹשֶׁ֔ה אֱסֹף֙ אֶת־הָעָ֔ם וְאֶתְּנָ֥ה לָהֶ֖ם מָֽיִם׃ {ס}

(16) And from there to Beer, which is the well where יהוה said to Moses, “Assemble the people that I may give them water.”

(יז) אָ֚ז יָשִׁ֣יר יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל אֶת־הַשִּׁירָ֖ה הַזֹּ֑את עֲלִ֥י בְאֵ֖ר עֱנוּ־לָֽהּ׃

(17) Then Israel sang this song:
Spring up, O well—sing to it—

(א) אָ֣ז יָשִֽׁיר־מֹשֶׁה֩ וּבְנֵ֨י יִשְׂרָאֵ֜ל אֶת־הַשִּׁירָ֤ה הַזֹּאת֙ לַֽיהֹוָ֔ה וַיֹּאמְר֖וּ לֵאמֹ֑ר

(1) Then Moses and the Israelites sang this song to יהוה....

נַעְבְּרָה־נָּ֣א בְאַרְצֶ֗ךָ לֹ֤א נַעֲבֹר֙ בְּשָׂדֶ֣ה וּבְכֶ֔רֶם וְלֹ֥א נִשְׁתֶּ֖ה מֵ֣י בְאֵ֑ר ... וְאִם־מֵימֶ֤יךָ נִשְׁתֶּה֙ אֲנִ֣י וּמִקְנַ֔י וְנָתַתִּ֖י מִכְרָ֑ם רַ֥ק אֵין־דָּבָ֖ר בְּרַגְלַ֥י אֶֽעֱבֹֽרָה׃

(17) Allow us, then, to cross your country. We will not pass through fields or vineyards, and we will not drink water from a well....and if we or our cattle drink from your waters, we will pay for it. We ask only for passage on foot—it is but a small matter.”

מֵי בְאֵר, מֵי בּוֹרוֹת הָיָה צָרִיךְ לוֹמַר, לִמְדָךְ תּוֹרָה דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ, שֶׁהַהוֹלֵךְ לְאֶרֶץ שֶׁאֵינוֹ שֶׁלּוֹ וְיֵשׁ בְּיָדוֹ צָרְכּוֹ, לֹא יֹאכַל מִמַּה שֶּׁבְּיָדוֹ אֶלָּא שֶׁלּוֹ יְהֵא מֻנָּח וְיִקְנֶה מִן הַחֶנְוָנִי בִּשְׁבִיל לְהַנּוֹתוֹ, כָּךְ אָמַר לוֹ משֶׁה הַבְּאֵר עִמָּנוּ וּמָן אָנוּ אוֹכְלִין, לֹא תֹאמַר שֶׁאָנוּ מַטְרִיחִין עָלֶיךָ, שָׂכָר אַתָּה עוֹשֶׂה לְעַצְמְךָ.

Should it not have said, "water from cisterns?" [By this use of the singular, “a well”], the Torah has taught you proper conduct, [i.e.,] that though one has at hand his necessities, when he who goes to a land which is not his own, he should not eat from what he has on hand. Rather he should put aside what he has, and buy from the shopkeeper in order to benefit him. So also Moses said to [Edom], “[We have] a well with us, and we eat our own manna; [but] do not say that we are a bother to you. You will make a profit for yourselves.”

(ג) דָּבָר אַחֵר שְׁלָחַיִךְ פַּרְדֵּס רִמּוֹנִים, שְׁלָחַיִךְ עָתִיד הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לַעֲשׂוֹתֵךְ כְּפַרְדֵּס רִמּוֹנִים לֶעָתִיד לָבוֹא, וְאֵיזֶה זֶה, זֶה הַבְּאֵר, מֵאָן הָיוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל מְנַסְכִים כָּל אַרְבָּעִים שָׁנָה שֶׁעָשׂוּ בַּמִּדְבָּר, רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן אָמַר מִן הַבְּאֵר, וּמִמֶּנּוּ הָיוּ רֹב הֲנָיָתָן, דְּאָמַר רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן הַבְּאֵר הָיְתָה מַעֲלָה לָהֶם מִינֵי דְשָׁאִים, מִינֵי זֵרְעוֹנִים, מִינֵי אִילָנוֹת, תֵּדַע לְךָ שֶׁהוּא כֵן, שֶׁכֵּיוָן שֶׁמֵּתָה מִרְיָם וּפָסְקָה הַבְּאֵר מֵהֶן הָיוּ אוֹמְרִים (במדבר כ, ה): לֹא מְקוֹם זֶרַע וּתְאֵנָה וְגֶפֶן.

(3) Another matter: “Your branches [shelaḥayikh] are an orchard of pomegranates” – the Holy One blessed be He is destined to transform your desolation [shelaḥayikh] into a pomegranate orchard in the future. What is that? It is the well. From where did Israel pour libations all the forty years that they spent in the wilderness? Rabbi Yoḥanan said: From the well, and most of their pleasure was from there, as Rabbi Yoḥanan said: The well would produce for them types of vegetation, types of grains, types of trees. Know that it is so, as when Miriam died and the well ceased for them, they would say: “Not a place of seed, figs, or wine” (Numbers 20:5).

(יח) בְּאֵ֞ר חֲפָר֣וּהָ שָׂרִ֗ים כָּר֙וּהָ֙ נְדִיבֵ֣י הָעָ֔ם בִּמְחֹקֵ֖ק בְּמִשְׁעֲנֹתָ֑ם וּמִמִּדְבָּ֖ר מַתָּנָֽה׃

(18) The well which the chieftains dug, Which the nobles of the people started. With maces, with their own staffs. And from Midbar to Mattanah,

Compiled List of the items created at the Twilight of Shabbat during the 7 Days of Creation:
Ten things were created on the eve of Shabbat at twilight. They are: the rainbow, the manna, the mouth of the earth, the mouth of the ass, the tablets, the letters, the writing, Moses’ grave, the well, and the shamir. There are those who say, also demons, the ram, the cave where Moses and Elijah stood, the staff, Aaron’s rod, the first man’s clothing, the garments, and the clouds of glory. R. Nehemiah says: also the fire and the mule. R. Yehudah says: also the tongs. He would say: Tongs are made from tongs. How were the first tongs made? They were a created thing.

...Adam began to weep again and implore the angels to grant him at least permission to take sweet-scented spices with him out of Paradise, that outside, too, he might be able to bring offerings unto God, and his prayers be accepted before the Lord. Thereupon the angels came before God, and spake: "King unto everlasting, command Thou us to give Adam sweetscented spices of Paradise," and God heard their prayer. Thus Adam gathered saffron, nard, calamus, and cinnamon, and all sorts of seeds besides for his sustenance. Laden with these, Adam and Eve left Paradise, and came upon earth. They had enjoyed the splendors of Paradise but a brief span of time--but a few hours. It was in the first hour of the sixth day of creation that God conceived the idea of creating man; in the second hour, He took counsel with the angels; in the third, He gathered the dust for the body of man; in the fourth, He formed Adam; in the fifth, He clothed him with skin; in the sixth, the soulless shape was complete, so that it could stand upright; in the seventh, a soul was breathed into it; in the eighth, man was led into Paradise; in the ninth, the Divine command prohibiting the fruit of the tree in the midst of the garden was issued to him; in the tenth, he transgressed the command; in the eleventh, he was judged; and in the twelfth hour of the day, he was cast out of Paradise, in atonement for his sin....In the twilight, between the sixth day and the Sabbath, ten creations were, brought forth...

Children who’ve grown up in a shul with a woman rabbi on the bimah are so accustomed to the sight that some are prone to ask, “Can men be rabbis?” So, too, children who’ve grown up with two special goblets on the seder table – Elijah’s Cup filled with wine and Miriam’s Cup with water – consider that sight so “normal” that the absence of her cup would seem as serious an omission as the absence of maror on the seder plate.
In relation to Jewish time, the wide acceptance of Miriam’s Cup as a legitimate ritual object has come to pass in the blink of an eye; it originated in a Boston Rosh Chodesh group in the 1980s, the invention of a woman named Stephanie Loo, who filled it with Mayim Chayim – Living Waters – and used it in a feminist ceremony of guided meditation.
Since then, potters, ceramicists, glassblowers, and silversmiths have created beautiful cups imprinted with Miriam’s name, many of which are sold at Judaica stores, synagogue and JCC gift shops and Jewish Art Fairs. And today, Miriam’s Cups (or a large Kiddush cup designated as hers) grace the seder tables of thousands of Jewish families and institutions.
I see Miriam’s Cup as a profoundly important corrective of a previously misperceived, unbalanced story, and a long overdue recognition of a woman who, like many Jewish daughters, has always taken second place to her stellar brothers.
As we know from Torah and midrash, and as the liquid in her cup attests, the Prophet Miriam, sister of Moshe Rabeinu, our teacher, and Aharon, the first high priest, has always been associated with water. It was Miriam who defied the Pharaoh’s death sentence for male Hebrew infants, who placed baby Moses in the basket in the River Nile, a kind of birth canal that delivered him to the Pharaoh’s daughter who found and adopted him, assuring his survival.
It was Miriam who, at the shore of the Red Sea, “took a timbrel in her hand and all the women followed her, with timbrels and with dancing.” And who “sang to them,” leading them through the parted waters, not with hesitation and fear but with music and dancing. Perhaps taking a cue from Miriam, a few millennia later the Jewish anarchist Emma Goldman famously said, “If there’s no dancing, it’s not my revolution.” But it was our foremother Miriam who introduced the notion of radical change as worthy of celebration.
It was because of the merit of Miriam that a miraculous well traveled with the Israelites, slaking their thirst during forty years in the desert. After Miriam died, there was no water. God instructed Moses to speak to a rock, asking it for water, as perhaps Miriam had sung and spoken to the land they were traversing, asking it for water. Instead of speaking to the rock, Moses struck it — producing water but also God’s wrath sufficient to deny him entry into the Promised Land. A warning to us: like Miriam, address the Earth as our comrade, rather than making it our slave – or we will lose the Earth itself, our Promised Land.
Miriam is powerfully linked to all three water sources – river, sea, and well — for good reason. Just as without water there would be no life on earth, without Miriam, there would be no Jewish life. Before he could lead us out of Mitzrayim, Moses had to be kept alive. We have Miriam’s Nile rescue plan to thank for his survival. Without Miriam’s song and dance, there would have been no life-enhancing celebration of our redemption. Without Miriam’s Well, we would not have lived through our wanderings.
The wine with which we fill Elijah’s Cup anticipates the bliss of a future messianic age. The water we place in Miriam’s Cup celebrates life itself, the miracle of joy in the present, and the basic fact of Jewish survival. A people needs both, but water comes before wine. Without water, there can be no wine. Without Miriam, we would have had no messianic dream because we would have had no future. —Letty Cottin Pogrebin
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