Lies, Damned Lies, and Midrash: Did Moses and the Midwives Lie to Get the Israelites Out of Egypt? How does this change our views on the Exodus, and on lying?
(יג) לֹ֥֖א תִּֿרְצָֽ֖ח׃ (ס) לֹ֣֖א תִּֿנְאָֽ֑ף׃ (ס) לֹ֣֖א תִּֿגְנֹֽ֔ב׃ (ס) לֹֽא־תַעֲנֶ֥ה בְרֵעֲךָ֖ עֵ֥ד שָֽׁקֶר׃ (ס)
(13) Thou shalt not murder. Thou shalt not commit adultery. Thou shalt not steal. Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour.
(טז) וַיֹּ֗אמֶר בְּיַלֶּדְכֶן֙ אֶת־הָֽעִבְרִיּ֔וֹת וּרְאִיתֶ֖ן עַל־הָאָבְנָ֑יִם אִם־בֵּ֥ן הוּא֙ וַהֲמִתֶּ֣ן אֹת֔וֹ וְאִם־בַּ֥ת הִ֖יא וָחָֽיָה׃ (יז) וַתִּירֶ֤אןָ הַֽמְיַלְּדֹת֙ אֶת־הָ֣אֱלֹהִ֔ים וְלֹ֣א עָשׂ֔וּ כַּאֲשֶׁ֛ר דִּבֶּ֥ר אֲלֵיהֶ֖ן מֶ֣לֶךְ מִצְרָ֑יִם וַתְּחַיֶּ֖יןָ אֶת־הַיְלָדִֽים׃ (יח) וַיִּקְרָ֤א מֶֽלֶךְ־מִצְרַ֙יִם֙ לַֽמְיַלְּדֹ֔ת וַיֹּ֣אמֶר לָהֶ֔ן מַדּ֥וּעַ עֲשִׂיתֶ֖ן הַדָּבָ֣ר הַזֶּ֑ה וַתְּחַיֶּ֖יןָ אֶת־הַיְלָדִֽים׃ (יט) וַתֹּאמַ֤רְןָ הַֽמְיַלְּדֹת֙ אֶל־פַּרְעֹ֔ה כִּ֣י לֹ֧א כַנָּשִׁ֛ים הַמִּצְרִיֹּ֖ת הָֽעִבְרִיֹּ֑ת כִּֽי־חָי֣וֹת הֵ֔נָּה בְּטֶ֨רֶם תָּב֧וֹא אֲלֵהֶ֛ן הַמְיַלֶּ֖דֶת וְיָלָֽדוּ׃ (כ) וַיֵּ֥יטֶב אֱלֹהִ֖ים לַֽמְיַלְּדֹ֑ת וַיִּ֧רֶב הָעָ֛ם וַיַּֽעַצְמ֖וּ מְאֹֽד׃ (כא) וַיְהִ֕י כִּֽי־יָֽרְא֥וּ הַֽמְיַלְּדֹ֖ת אֶת־הָאֱלֹהִ֑ים וַיַּ֥עַשׂ לָהֶ֖ם בָּתִּֽים׃
(16) and he said: ‘When ye do the office of a midwife to the Hebrew women, ye shall look upon the birthstool: if it be a son, then ye shall kill him; but if it be a daughter, then she shall live.’ (17) But the midwives feared God, and did not as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the men-children alive. (18) And the king of Egypt called for the midwives, and said unto them: ‘Why have ye done this thing, and have saved the men-children alive?’ (19) And the midwives said unto Pharaoh: ‘Because the Hebrew women are not as the Egyptian women; for they are lively, and are delivered ere the midwife come unto them.’ (20) And God dealt well with the midwives; and the people multiplied, and waxed very mighty. (21) And it came to pass, because the midwives feared God, that He made them houses.

What is your interpretation? Do you think the midwives are lying? Is it possible they are telling the truth? Does it matter to you whether they are lying here?

(י) וְעַתָּ֣ה לְכָ֔ה וְאֶֽשְׁלָחֲךָ֖ אֶל־פַּרְעֹ֑ה וְהוֹצֵ֛א אֶת־עַמִּ֥י בְנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל מִמִּצְרָֽיִם׃ (יא) וַיֹּ֤אמֶר מֹשֶׁה֙ אֶל־הָ֣אֱלֹהִ֔ים מִ֣י אָנֹ֔כִי כִּ֥י אֵלֵ֖ךְ אֶל־פַּרְעֹ֑ה וְכִ֥י אוֹצִ֛יא אֶת־בְּנֵ֥י יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל מִמִּצְרָֽיִם׃ (יב) וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ כִּֽי־אֶֽהְיֶ֣ה עִמָּ֔ךְ וְזֶה־לְּךָ֣ הָא֔וֹת כִּ֥י אָנֹכִ֖י שְׁלַחְתִּ֑יךָ בְּהוֹצִֽיאֲךָ֤ אֶת־הָעָם֙ מִמִּצְרַ֔יִם תַּֽעַבְדוּן֙ אֶת־הָ֣אֱלֹהִ֔ים עַ֖ל הָהָ֥ר הַזֶּֽה׃
(10) Come now therefore, and I will send thee unto Pharaoh, that thou mayest bring forth My people the children of Israel out of Egypt.’ (11) And Moses said unto God: ‘Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt?’ (12) And He said: ‘Certainly I will be with thee; and this shall be the token unto thee, that I have sent thee: when thou hast brought forth the people out of Egypt, ye shall serve God upon this mountain.’

Rashbam 3:11
11 But Moses said to God, Who am I?
Anyone who wants to understand the essential meaning of these verses in context will pay close attention to the explanation I am about to give. For my predecessors have not understood one bit of it. Moses' reply was directed to two things that the Holy One said to him: 1) that he should free the Israelites by Pharaoh's command. Moses replies to each in turn. First, Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh?--even to bring him an offering or a gift. Am I worthy of entering the king's court, a foreigner like me? Second, And free the Israelites from Egypt? That is, even if I were worthy of entering Pharaoh's presence for other matters, as far as freeing the Israelite goes, what could I say to Pharaoh that he would accept? Is Pharaoh foolish enough to listen to me and send a huge people, who are his slaves, away free from his land? What could I say to Pharaoh that he would accept, so that by my speaking I will free them from Egypt with Pharaoh's permission? 12 The Holy One answered him in the same order: 1) I will be with you, and will grant you favor in the king's eyes, and you shall go to Pharaoh without fear. As far as your fear when you are actually in Pharaoh's presence, that (pointing to the bush) shall be your sign that it was I who sent you. Don't you see from the burning of the bush that I (the angel) am the emissary of the Holy One? This is he sign for you to be confident that I will be with you... 2) As for your question, Shall I free the Israelites from Egypt, that is, what arguments can I offer to Pharaoh that wil convince him to free them. When you have freed the people from Egypt, I command you now that you shall worship God at this mountain and offer sacrifices. This command will enable you to argue (in 5:1,3) that Pharaoh must let them go in order to sacrifice to God... God's commandment to Moses to bring the people to sacrifice was a stratagem, so he would have some plausible reason to give Pharaoh for letting them go. Those who explain this passage in any other way are completely mistaken.

Does this interpretation seem plausible to you? Do you think it's ethical? Does it change anything about your understanding of the Exodus to imagine that Pharaoh didn't know the Israelites were planned to leave for good?

בהני תלת מילי עבידי רבנן דמשנו במלייהו במסכת ובפוריא ובאושפיזא

Because Rav Yehuda said that Shmuel said In these three things the Rabbis were accustomed to change their words (i.e. lie) In their tractates, and their beds, and their hospitality.

If a person is asked by a respected rabbi whether she is familiar with a certain tractate, she may lie and say no, even if she is knowledgable of that matter, in order to learn from the respected rabbi. She should not lie if someone seeks her help in understanding the tractate.

According to Rashi, the meaning of "bed" is that if a rabbi is asked whether he engaged in sexual relations with his wife, he may, for the sake of modesty, answer that he has not. Tosafot does not accept this explanation since people do not normally ask someone whether or not he slept with his wife. Tosafot offers that one may lie if he was asked whether or not he slept in a particular bed. The bed may be stained from an emission and this could be embarrassing.

"Hospitality" refers to a situation where one is asked whether a host was hospitable or not. If one is too effusive in his praise, he may cause too many people to want to stay with these people. It is therefore better to lie and downplay how good his host was.

A Song: Lying is an occupation

BY LAETITIA PILKINGTON

Lying is an occupation,

Used by all who mean to rise;

Politicians owe their station,

But to well concerted lies.

These to lovers give assistance,

To ensnare the fair-one's heart;

And the virgin's best resistance

Yields to this commanding art.

Study this superior science,

Would you rise in Church or State;

Bid to Truth a bold defiance,

'Tis the practice of the great.