
Whoa, dreaming of Aher is connected to punishment? That does not sound good! I wonder what happened to him such that when you dream of him you should be worried about punishment. What if you didn't do anything wrong and you still dream about him? Does this mean that there is something wrong with him? Why does he seem to be considered a "bad" person?
ת"ר ארבעה נכנסו בפרדס ואלו הן בן עזאי ובן זומא אחר ורבי עקיבא אמר להם ר"ע כשאתם מגיעין אצל אבני שיש טהור אל תאמרו מים מים משום שנאמר (תהלים קא, ז) דובר שקרים לא יכון לנגד עיני בן עזאי הציץ ומת עליו הכתוב אומר (תהלים קטז, טו) יקר בעיני ה' המותה לחסידיו בן זומא הציץ ונפגע ועליו הכתוב אומר (משלי כה, טז) דבש מצאת אכול דייך פן תשבענו והקאתו אחר קיצץ בנטיעות רבי עקיבא יצא בשלום
The Sages taught: Four entered the orchard [pardes], i.e., dealt with the loftiest secrets of Torah, and they are as follows: Ben Azzai; and ben Zoma; Aḥer, the other, a name for Elisha ben Avuya; and Rabbi Akiva. Rabbi Akiva, the senior among them, said to them: When, upon your arrival in the upper worlds, you reach pure marble stones, do not say: Water, water, although they appear to be water, because it is stated: “He who speaks falsehood shall not be established before My eyes” (Psalms 101:7). The Gemara proceeds to relate what happened to each of them: Ben Azzai glimpsed at the Divine Presence and died. And with regard to him the verse states: “Precious in the eyes of the Lord is the death of His pious ones” (Psalms 116:15). Ben Zoma glimpsed at the Divine Presence and was harmed, i.e., he lost his mind. And with regard to him the verse states: “Have you found honey? Eat as much as is sufficient for you, lest you become full from it and vomit it” (Proverbs 25:16). Aḥer chopped down the shoots of saplings. In other words, he became a heretic. Rabbi Akiva came out safely.
- The text explains that entering the pardes, or orchard is code for studying the "loftiest secrets of Torah." Why do you think that could have such different effects on Ben Azzai, Ben Zoma, Aher, and Rabbi Akiva?
- What happens to each one of them? What is implied by their fates about studying Torah?
- Heresy is defined as an opinion profoundly at odds with what is accepted to be true.
- What do you think might have made Aher turn away from Torah and Judaism to become a heretic?
In seeing the angel, Mitatron, sitting in the Divine presence, Aher speculates that there is another Divine power in control of the world in addition to God and this is perhaps what led him to heresy. Why would this thought possibly lead him to heresy?
- Here we have a real problem for the Sages because Aher, they believe, is unduly influenced by the surrounding Greek culture. How do they describe this influence on Aher?
- What is the basic assumption of this text about Jewish and Gentile cultures?
- How does that relate to how Jews live in the modern world?
- Would Aher be considered a heretic today in your Jewish community? In an Orthodox one, a Reform or Conservative one?
- What has been gained for Jews by living in the larger culture as full citizens?
- What has been lost?
- Rabbi Meir was Elisha ben Abuya's student and was very loyal to him. The Sages had many debates about whether or not Aher's Torah should be accepted has valid since he was considered a heretic by many, if not most. Rabbi Meir often spoke in his teacher's name or repeated his teachings even if he did not name Aher and he was questioned about it as we will see in another text.
- This first text shows that Aher still cared about his student, even if he did not care about himself since he does not want Rabbi Meir to transgress the laws of Shabbat.
- The next three texts are disturbing in that they seem to show that Aher is unredeemable, at least this is what he thinks, so he might as well go ahead and be a heretic and a sinner.
- Have you ever felt the way that Aher feels? That nothing that you do will change the situation so you might as well just go ahead and live down to everyone's expectations?
- What do these last three texts teach us about merit as a counter balance to our not so good deeds?
- What do you think of Aher in the end?
- Was he finally vindicated or will he always be Aher?
- What does God have to say about the matter?
