The Traditional Answer
(6) Say, therefore, to the Israelite people: I am Adonai. I will free you from the labors of the Egyptians and deliver you from their bondage. I will redeem you with an outstretched arm and through extraordinary chastisements. (7) And I will take you to be My people, and I will be your God. And you shall know that I, Adonai, am your God who freed you from the labors of the Egyptians.
How can we be free if God still intervenes?
(1) Adonai replied to Moses, “See, I place you in the role of God to Pharaoh, with your brother Aaron as your prophet. (2) You shall repeat all that I command you, and your brother Aaron shall speak to Pharaoh to let the Israelites depart from his land. (3) But I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, that I may multiply My signs and marvels in the land of Egypt. (4) When Pharaoh does not heed you, I will lay My hand upon Egypt and deliver My ranks, My people the Israelites, from the land of Egypt with extraordinary chastisements. (5) And the Egyptians shall know that I am Adonai, when I stretch out My hand over Egypt and bring out the Israelites from their midst.”
Rabbi Ebn Leader, Hebrew College, Boston, MA
The freedom that we gather around tables to celebrate on the first night of Pesach is the freedom that comes of accepting such grace. It is the joyous acknowledgment that we humans do not control everything; all is not dependent on us. Can you tell the story of setting out on a journey in which you do not have to decide the route, the rest stops or the pace, and in which food, water, and shelter are all provided by someone else? Can you enjoy that story and experience God’s love in it? The most important instruction for the Seder night is – lean back. Recline. There are enough other times in life when you have to lean in…
The memory of our slavery on the first night of Pesach functions differently than throughout the year. On all other nights (and days) the memory of our enslavement is a call to action, a moral demand not to allow others to experience the oppression that we did. But on the first night of Pesach, the memory of slavery serves as a contrast to highlight and intensify our appreciation and joy in God’s redemption. Even the eating of Marror (bitter herbs) is part of the celebration.
Like Shabbat, this experience must also ebb and flow. By the end of the second Seder we are back in counting mode, beginning to count the days until we are ready to receive Torah. The experience of basking in God’s love must have some impact on our daily lives, we must ground it in the reality that we are responsible for. So on the first night of the Omer we begin our avodah at the highest reach of love or as the mekubalim call it – Hesed Sh’beHesed. Then slowly, one day at a time, carefully and meticulously we trace the tracks of that love, finding ways for it to manifest in our lives, until after forty-nine days we have totally grounded it in our reality – Malchut Sh’bemalchut. Then we are ready to receive Torah.
Similar to the relation between Shabbat and weekday practice, here too, the capacity to celebrate this particular freedom on Pesach is dependent on the commitment to the practice of the Omer that follows it. Without the commitment to the process of the Omer, it may indeed feel self-indulging to celebrate freedom rather than focus on oppression. But particularly for those who live with constant awareness of our obligation to fix, one night of freedom may be a tremendous gift of love.