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The Masks We Wear
Esther's mask
(י) לֹא־הִגִּ֣ידָה אֶסְתֵּ֔ר אֶת־עַמָּ֖הּ וְאֶת־מֽוֹלַדְתָּ֑הּ כִּ֧י מָרְדֳּכַ֛י צִוָּ֥ה עָלֶ֖יהָ אֲשֶׁ֥ר לֹא־תַגִּֽיד׃
(10) Esther did not reveal her people or her kindred, for Mordecai had told her not to reveal it.

Esther is made to hide her identity as a Jew. How do we conceal our identity today - emotionally, spiritually, physically? Is it helpful or a hinderance?

(א) וַיְהִ֣י ׀ בַּיּ֣וֹם הַשְּׁלִישִׁ֗י וַתִּלְבַּ֤שׁ אֶסְתֵּר֙ מַלְכ֔וּת וַֽתַּעֲמֹ֞ד בַּחֲצַ֤ר בֵּית־הַמֶּ֙לֶךְ֙ הַפְּנִימִ֔ית נֹ֖כַח בֵּ֣ית הַמֶּ֑לֶךְ וְ֠הַמֶּלֶךְ יוֹשֵׁ֞ב עַל־כִּסֵּ֤א מַלְכוּתוֹ֙ בְּבֵ֣ית הַמַּלְכ֔וּת נֹ֖כַח פֶּ֥תַח הַבָּֽיִת׃
(1) On the third day, Esther put on royal apparel and stood in the inner court of the king’s palace, facing the king’s palace, while the king was sitting on his royal throne in the throne room facing the entrance of the palace.
אֶסְתֵּר דִּכְתִיב וַיְהִי בַּיּוֹם הַשְּׁלִישִׁי וַתִּלְבַּשׁ אֶסְתֵּר מַלְכוּת בִּגְדֵי מַלְכוּת מִיבְּעֵי לֵיהּ אֶלָּא שֶׁלְּבָשַׁתָּה רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ כְּתִיב הָכָא וַתִּלְבַּשׁ וּכְתִיב הָתָם וְרוּחַ לָבְשָׁה אֶת עֲמָשַׂי וְגוֹ׳
Esther was also a prophetess, as it is written: “And it came to pass on the third day that Esther clothed herself in royalty” (Esther 5:1). It should have said: Esther clothed herself in royal garments. Rather, this alludes to the fact that she clothed herself with a divine spirit of inspiration. It is written here: “And she clothed herself,” and it is written elsewhere: “And the spirit clothed Amasai” (I Chronicles 12:19). Just as there the reference is to being enclothed by a spirit, so too Esther was enclothed by a spirit of divine inspiration.

What mask does Esther put on here? How does it help or hinder her?

God's Mask
(יח) וְאָנֹכִ֗י הַסְתֵּ֨ר אַסְתִּ֤יר פָּנַי֙ בַּיּ֣וֹם הַה֔וּא עַ֥ל כָּל־הָרָעָ֖ה אֲשֶׁ֣ר עָשָׂ֑ה כִּ֣י פָנָ֔ה אֶל־אֱלֹהִ֖ים אֲחֵרִֽים׃

(18) Yet I [God] will keep My countenance hidden on that day, because of all the evil they have done in turning to other gods.

Deuteronomy 31:18 tells us that God is hidden. Does God wear a mask with us? Why might God wear a mask? Is that helpful or a hinderance to our relationship to God and to ourselves?

Other Masks
(לו) וְעָשִׂ֥יתָ צִּ֖יץ זָהָ֣ב טָה֑וֹר וּפִתַּחְתָּ֤ עָלָיו֙ פִּתּוּחֵ֣י חֹתָ֔ם קֹ֖דֶשׁ לַֽיהוָֽה׃ (לז) וְשַׂמְתָּ֤ אֹתוֹ֙ עַל־פְּתִ֣יל תְּכֵ֔לֶת וְהָיָ֖ה עַל־הַמִּצְנָ֑פֶת אֶל־מ֥וּל פְּנֵֽי־הַמִּצְנֶ֖פֶת יִהְיֶֽה׃

(36) You shall make a frontlet of pure gold and engrave on it the seal inscription: “Holy to Adonai.” (37) Suspend it on a cord of blue, so that it may remain on the headdress; it shall remain on the front of the headdress [of the High Priest].

  • How might we treat people differently if we all walked around with that particular sign on our forehead? (teaching from R' Dusty Klass, from R' Richard Levy z"l)

  • Is that a different kind of mask? Why or why not?

(יז) אֱלֹהֵ֥י מַסֵּכָ֖ה לֹ֥א תַעֲשֶׂה־לָּֽךְ׃
(17) You shall not make molten gods for yourselves.
מַסֵּכָה - mask, disguise; (cosmetics) face mask
מָסָךְ - screen; (theater) curtain
So we could re-read this verse in several ways:
"Do not make masks your God" ~ meaning, do not make what is most external, the masks that we use to deal with others, a God. Do not forget that masks are just that, masks. What is superficial is not supposed to take over your life.
"Do not use your God as a mask" ~ meaning, do not use religion as a curtain to disguise who you are.
(from Nelly Altenberger)
Dr. Norman J. Cohen, Masking and Unmasking Ourselves (2012)
On Purim, Jews dress up and wear masks that change faces etched in pain and suffering into joy and frivolity. On the surface, it seems that Purim involves an escape from reality, one moment in which we can mask the pain and difficulties we experience and don fanciful carnival masks and costumes. All is turned on its head on Purim; even gender roles are ignored, and men and women can dress up as the other. Yet in a deeper way, this Jewish carnival experience allows us to challenge the inevitability of things as they are inherited identities and fates. And in so doing, Purim provides us with the hope that the garments we put on that seem only to mask our present realities can reveal the deep-seated consciousness of our potential for change, our ability to bring happiness and fulfillment to our lives. Purim's masks may seem to conceal, if just for a moment, the chaos and pain of our present lives and enable us to escape this reality, but they may really offer us the chance to don serious masks of conscious determination to bring the light of the Divine into our world.