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Parshat Vayeshev: Fleeing Outside
(א) וַיֵּ֣שֶׁב יַעֲקֹ֔ב בְּאֶ֖רֶץ מְגוּרֵ֣י אָבִ֑יו בְּאֶ֖רֶץ כְּנָֽעַן׃
(1) Now Jacob was settled in the land where his father had sojourned, the land of Canaan.

וזה ''וישב יעקב בארץ מגורי אביו'' היינו יראה (זוהר בראשית ק"פ.) ובארץ כנען הוא ענוה, ובקש לישב בשלוה, זאת השלוה היינו, כי כשאדם מנהיג א"ע להסתלק מכל ספק ולשמור מכל מעשה רע אז הוא בשלוה, וע"ז אמר לו הש"י כי בעוד האדם בגוף אין באפשר להתנהג בכ"כ שמירה ויראה וענוה, כי הש"י חפץ במעשים של האדם כי בעוה"ז צריך להתנהג באהבה, ומעשה שאינה מבוררת כל כך, וע"ז נאמר לעתיד ''ושב יעקב'' לשון נפשי ישובב בתענוג ממחשבות ד"ת.

"Yaakov was settled in the land of Cannan, in the land of his father's sojournings": The Zohar reads megurei aviv as his father's fear; and in the land of Canaan as humilitiy [kana] - Yaakov sought to live in peace. This peace is attained when a person behaves in such a way as to keep far from all doubt (or situations of uncertainty) and guards himself from any evil act. That is the modality of peace. But in response to Yaakov's desire to settle in this peace G-d said to him that so long people have corporeal existence, it is not possible to live with such extreme wariness, fear, and humility. G-d wants human acts, and in this world human beings must act with love in ways that are not completely clear (without doubt). Because of this it is only said of a time in the future about human life that "...and Yaakov will again have calm and quiet with no one to trouble him" (Jeremiah 30:10)

(ו) וַיַּעֲזֹ֣ב כָּל־אֲשֶׁר־לוֹ֮ בְּיַד־יוֹסֵף֒ וְלֹא־יָדַ֤ע אִתּוֹ֙ מְא֔וּמָה כִּ֥י אִם־הַלֶּ֖חֶם אֲשֶׁר־ה֣וּא אוֹכֵ֑ל וַיְהִ֣י יוֹסֵ֔ף יְפֵה־תֹ֖אַר וִיפֵ֥ה מַרְאֶֽה׃ (ז) וַיְהִ֗י אַחַר֙ הַדְּבָרִ֣ים הָאֵ֔לֶּה וַתִּשָּׂ֧א אֵֽשֶׁת־אֲדֹנָ֛יו אֶת־עֵינֶ֖יהָ אֶל־יוֹסֵ֑ף וַתֹּ֖אמֶר שִׁכְבָ֥ה עִמִּֽי׃ (ח) וַיְמָאֵ֓ן ׀ וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ אֶל־אֵ֣שֶׁת אֲדֹנָ֔יו הֵ֣ן אֲדֹנִ֔י לֹא־יָדַ֥ע אִתִּ֖י מַה־בַּבָּ֑יִת וְכֹ֥ל אֲשֶׁר־יֶשׁ־ל֖וֹ נָתַ֥ן בְּיָדִֽי׃ (ט) אֵינֶ֨נּוּ גָד֜וֹל בַּבַּ֣יִת הַזֶּה֮ מִמֶּנִּי֒ וְלֹֽא־חָשַׂ֤ךְ מִמֶּ֙נִּי֙ מְא֔וּמָה כִּ֥י אִם־אוֹתָ֖ךְ בַּאֲשֶׁ֣ר אַתְּ־אִשְׁתּ֑וֹ וְאֵ֨יךְ אֶֽעֱשֶׂ֜ה הָרָעָ֤ה הַגְּדֹלָה֙ הַזֹּ֔את וְחָטָ֖אתִי לֵֽאלֹקִֽים׃ (י) וַיְהִ֕י כְּדַבְּרָ֥הּ אֶל־יוֹסֵ֖ף י֣וֹם ׀ י֑וֹם וְלֹא־שָׁמַ֥ע אֵלֶ֛יהָ לִשְׁכַּ֥ב אֶצְלָ֖הּ לִהְי֥וֹת עִמָּֽהּ׃ (יא) וַיְהִי֙ כְּהַיּ֣וֹם הַזֶּ֔ה וַיָּבֹ֥א הַבַּ֖יְתָה לַעֲשׂ֣וֹת מְלַאכְתּ֑וֹ וְאֵ֨ין אִ֜ישׁ מֵאַנְשֵׁ֥י הַבַּ֛יִת שָׁ֖ם בַּבָּֽיִת׃ (יב) וַתִּתְפְּשֵׂ֧הוּ בְּבִגְד֛וֹ לֵאמֹ֖ר שִׁכְבָ֣ה עִמִּ֑י וַיַּעֲזֹ֤ב בִּגְדוֹ֙ בְּיָדָ֔הּ וַיָּ֖נָס וַיֵּצֵ֥א הַחֽוּצָה׃ (יג) וַיְהִי֙ כִּרְאוֹתָ֔הּ כִּֽי־עָזַ֥ב בִּגְד֖וֹ בְּיָדָ֑הּ וַיָּ֖נָס הַחֽוּצָה׃
(6) He left all that he had in Joseph’s hands and, with him there, he paid attention to nothing save the food that he ate. Now Joseph was well built and handsome. (7) After a time, his master’s wife cast her eyes upon Joseph and said, “Lie with me.” (8) But he refused. He said to his master’s wife, “Look, with me here, my master gives no thought to anything in this house, and all that he owns he has placed in my hands. (9) He wields no more authority in this house than I, and he has withheld nothing from me except yourself, since you are his wife. How then could I do this most wicked thing, and sin before God?” (10) And much as she coaxed Joseph day after day, he did not yield to her request to lie beside her, to be with her. (11) One such day, he came into the house to do his work. None of the household being there inside, (12) she caught hold of him by his garment and said, “Lie with me!” But he left his garment in her hand and got away and fled outside. (13) When she saw that he had left it in her hand and had fled outside,

וַיְהִי כְּהַיּוֹם הַזֶּה וַיָּבֹא וגו' וְאֵין אִישׁ מֵאַנְשֵׁי הַבַּיִת (בראשית לט, יא), אֶפְשָׁר בֵּיתוֹ שֶׁל אוֹתוֹ הָאִישׁ מִשְׁתַּיֵּר בְּלֹא אִישׁ, רַבִּי יְהוּדָה וְרַבִּי נְחֶמְיָה, רַבִּי יְהוּדָה אוֹמֵר יוֹם נִבּוּל שֶׁל נִילוּס הָיָה וְהָלְכוּ הַכֹּל לִרְאוֹת וְהוּא לֹא הָלַךְ. וְרַבִּי נְחֶמְיָה אָמַר יוֹם תֵּיאַטִּירוֹן הָיָה, וְהָלְכוּ הַכֹּל לִרְאוֹתוֹ, וְהוּא לֹא הָלַךְ, אֶלָּא וַיָּבֹא הַבַּיְתָה לַעֲשׂוֹת מְלַאכְתּוֹ, לַחְשֹׁב חֶשְׁבּוֹנוֹת שֶׁל רַבּוֹ. רַבִּי שְׁמוּאֵל בַּר נַחְמָן אָמַר לַעֲשׂוֹת מְלַאכְתּוֹ וַדַּאי...רַב הוּנָא בְּשֵׁם רַבִּי מַתְנָא אָמַר אִיקוֹנִין שֶׁל אָבִיו רָאָה וְצָנַן דָּמוֹ...

"One such day, he [Yosef] came into the house to do his work and none of the men of the household were there" (Genesis 39:11). Is it possible that in the house of such a man it was deserted with no man there? Rabbi Yehuda and Rabbi Nechemyah [explain this]. Rabbi Yehuda says, it was a Nile festival and all had gone to see it, and he did not go. Rabbi Nechemyah says, it was a day of the theatre [teiatiron] and all had gone to see it, and he did not go. Rather, "he came into the house to do his work", to calculate his master's calculations. Rabbi Shmuel son of Nachman says, "to do his work literally"...Rav Huna in the name of Rabbi Matna says, the image (icon) of his father appeared before him and chilled his blood...

Maggid Devarav Le-Yaakov (Siman 183)
..."The sea saw and fled" What did it see? The sarcophagus of Yosef, which the Jews had carried with them from Egypt.
The Tzaddik selects the good out from amidst the evil. When coming upon something bad, a righteous person is able to pick out that which is good and use it as a means to unite with G-d... This was the situation of Yosef the tzaddik. Potifar's wife tried to persuade him with words and ever changing attractive garments (a midrash on Yoma 35b) , she was beautiful and tried to seduce him. When he looked at her he was able to see the good and attach himself to tiferet, Divine Beauty above. This is what Chazal mean when they said that "the image of his Father appeared before him." He fled outside, the use of the grammar in the word hachutza indicates the he fled outside the physical world and attached himself to the world above. His merit was great that when the Red Sea saw his sarcophagus coming it did the same thing, leaving the world behind and going to the upper world...