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Komarno - Make A Rabbi for Yourself

(ו) יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן פְּרַחְיָה וְנִתַּאי הָאַרְבֵּלִי קִבְּלוּ מֵהֶם. יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן פְּרַחְיָה אוֹמֵר, עֲשֵׂה לְךָ רַב, וּקְנֵה לְךָ חָבֵר, וֶהֱוֵי דָן אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם לְכַף זְכוּת:

(6) Joshua ben Perahiah and Nittai the Arbelite received from them. Joshua ben Perahiah used to say: make a teacher for yourself, acquire a friend, and judge every person favorably.

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מהרי"א מקאמארנא

עשה לך רב - אף שאינו ראוי להיות לך לרב, עשה אותו רב ויהיה ראוי.

Notser Hesed on Avot

R.Y.I. of Komarno

Make for yourself a teacher - Even if she is not worthy of being your teacher, make her your teacher, and she will become worthy.

A note on gender and translation:
Historically these texts were written by men, mostly with men in mind.
Inserting feminine pronouns into them can feel (and be) artificial, does not “solve” anything, and can create other problems as well.
I do it because I think it is useful in shaking up our habits of imagination when reading these texts.

רַבִּי מֵאִיר אוֹמֵר כָּל הָעוֹסֵק בַּתּוֹרָה לִשְׁמָהּ, זוֹכֶה לִדְבָרִים הַרְבֵּה. וְלֹא עוֹד אֶלָּא שֶׁכָּל הָעוֹלָם כֻּלּוֹ כְדַי הוּא לוֹ.

Rabbi Meir said: Whoever engages with the Torah for its own sake, merits many things; but even beyond this, the whole world is worthwhile, if only for this person.

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שכל העולם כולו כדאי הוא לו - דע לך אחי, שצדיק אמת העוסק בתורה לשמה נעשה כסא לשכינה,

בודאי יש לו שעה שכל העולם נברא בשבילו, כשעושה איזה נחת רוח למעלה מה שלא קדמו שום אדם, כי אין צדיק דומה לחבירו,

ויש לו שעה שנפשו מרגשת שכל העולם כולו נברא בשבילו, ומתרחבין אצלו המוחין קדישין, ויכול להשפיע לכל העולם כל הטובות ולבטל כל הגזירות רעות,

וכל אלו מדריגות גדולות ולא יושג זה לטפשי עולם, ואל יתטפש לילך מאן דהו בדרך זה, כי הגאוה הוא ממש עבודה זרה אל זר אל נכר.

...ובאמת לצדיק גמור מוסמך לצדיק צריכין התלמידים להרחיב דעתו, כדי שיצא מאין ליש, וישפיע עליהם אור וחיות,

כמו שעשו תלמידי רבי שמעון בן יוחאי, (זוהר ח"א צב:) שהאריכו לספר שבח רבי שמעון בן יוחאי בפניו, כדי שיצא מאין ליש וישפיע עליהם.

וכן נהגתי מעודי לפני מורי ורבי דודי רבינו צבי הקדוש [מזידיטשוב] כשהיה מגלה לי רזין נפלאין או שמסר לי כתבי חידושיו לעיין בהם, הייתי מאריך לספר בשבחו, האיך אף בגן עדן יהיה זה פלא לחדש חידושין כאלו, ובזה נתרחב דעתו "ויאצל מן הרוח אשר עליו ונחה" על השפל הזה.

ולא כטפשי עולם, כשבאין לפני צדיק מקטינין עצמן ומקטינין את הצדיק, וכל חפצם שידבר הצדיק בקטנות ובשפלות, ובזה נשארו בחשך…

Notser Hesed on Avot

R.Y.I. of Komarno

You should know, sister, that a truly righteous person (tzaddik), one who engages in Torah for its own sake, becomes a seat for the Divine Presence (Shekhinah), and most certainly there is a moment when it is true that the entire world was created just for her. This happens in those moments when she brings God pleasure in a way that no one ever has before, for no righteous person is exactly like the other… In such a moment she experiences the entire world being created only for her,

her holy consciousness is greatly expanded, and she can facilitate the flow of all good to the entire world and annul all decrees of evil.

This is a description of a very high rung, not accessible to simple people. Do not stupidly try to walk this path - arrogance is actually idolatry, it is the foreign and other god.

...Rather for a person who is an accomplished tzaddik, who is trusted as a tzaddik, it is the role of her students to help expand her mind. It is their responsibility to help her step out from Nothing into Being and channel a flow of light and life. This is what the students of Rabbi Shimeon bar Yohai did for him as is described in the Zohar. They praised him extensively in his presence to encourage him to step out into being, and channel a flow to them.

This was always my own practice in the presence of my master and teacher, my uncle, our holy rabbi Tsvi (Hirsch of Ziditchov). Whenever he revealed to me wondrous secrets, or gave me some of his own writings to read, I would praise him extensively. I would say how even in Gan Eden all would be amazed at his capacity to offer such novel teachings. And through this his consciousness expanded (Bamidbar 11:25) “and the spirit which was upon him, he put” even on this lowly one.

Do not behave like the idiots of this world, who when coming before a tzaddik bring forth only their smallest self and shrink the tzaddik to their own size as well. All they desire of the tzaddik is that she speak humbly of small things, and thus they remain in the darkness...

This may be a challenging text as it focuses on moments of inspiration of greatness, and as a group we tend at times to be suspicious of charismatic teachers who wield this kind of inspiration…
But precisely because of that I think it is worth our time to listen to the Komarno’s critique - how invested are we in making sure that our teachers are our equals, and how much is that wrapped up in not pushing them to be the greatest they can be? (I know “those two don’t have to be in contradiction”, but still, worth stopping to think about it)
And how good are we in general, in helping people be their greatest rather than their smallest? Your friends? Your co-worker? Your spouse?