Vayechi - Honest Evaluations - December 26, 2015
(א) וַיִּקְרָ֥א יַעֲקֹ֖ב אֶל־בָּנָ֑יו וַיֹּ֗אמֶר הֵאָֽסְפוּ֙ וְאַגִּ֣ידָה לָכֶ֔ם אֵ֛ת אֲשֶׁר־יִקְרָ֥א אֶתְכֶ֖ם בְּאַחֲרִ֥ית הַיָּמִֽים׃ (ב) הִקָּבְצ֥וּ וְשִׁמְע֖וּ בְּנֵ֣י יַעֲקֹ֑ב וְשִׁמְע֖וּ אֶל־יִשְׂרָאֵ֥ל אֲבִיכֶֽם׃

(1) And Jacob called unto his sons, and said: ‘Gather yourselves together, that I may tell you that which shall befall you in the end of days. (2) Assemble yourselves, and hear, ye sons of Jacob; And hearken unto Israel your father.

Jacob's Descriptions of His Sons
Son Description
Reuben As the first born, he should be mighty and have excellency, but Jacob points out that he is “unstable as water” based on his inappropriate behaviors
Simeon Use violence, quick to anger -- "lawlessness" and "fierce anger"

Levi

Use violence, quick to anger -- "lawlessness" and "fierce anger"
Judah Trusted and accepted by his brothers, brave and successful in battle, steady, thoughtful, dependable, fair and just ruler, clear about his goals and determined to fulfill them, a good host (wine drinker), lives in plenty of wealth
Zebulun Only cares about making a quick buck
Issachar LAZY! Uses others to fight his battles, he hides from work -- "strong-boned ass"
Dan Tells lies about people behind their back – "serpent"
Gad Weakly gives into his opponents, he is a follower
Asher Serves others, lives well, but does nothing to command respect.
Naphtali He says nice things, but he has no control and doesn’t command respect.
Joseph While he seems like the best to his father, he is hated and distrusted by his brothers. He sees himself as better than everyone else. -- "wild ass"
Benjamin He has no patience, doesn’t care about the well-being of others, and can only make snap judgments. -- "ravenous wolf"

"Modern interpreter Pinchas Peli believes that Jacob's evaluation was meant to be helpful to them. His honesty taught them important lessons about their strengths and weaknesses.... He claims that Jacob's evaluation of his sons "was meant to help his children find their proper identity. Such a criticism of them," Peli comments, "would help them find their way towards the future, in which they were destined to assume the roles as heads of the tribes of Israel."

Do you think that Jacob was trying to be honest with his sons to make them stronger? Do you feel that this is the best approach? Would this type of evaluation be better coming from someone else or is it better coming from a parent?

(כח) כָּל־אֵ֛לֶּה שִׁבְטֵ֥י יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל שְׁנֵ֣ים עָשָׂ֑ר וְ֠זֹאת אֲשֶׁר־דִּבֶּ֨ר לָהֶ֤ם אֲבִיהֶם֙ וַיְבָ֣רֶךְ אוֹתָ֔ם אִ֛ישׁ אֲשֶׁ֥ר כְּבִרְכָת֖וֹ בֵּרַ֥ךְ אֹתָֽם׃

(28) All these are the twelve tribes of Israel, and this is it that their father spoke unto them and blessed them; every one according to his blessing he blessed them.

Ibn Ezra and Rashi both noted that the reason it had to be repeated so many times that Jacob blessed his sons was because some of the things he said about his sons did not sound like blessings at all. Instead, these commentators felt that Jacob was prophesizing what was to come for these sons and the tribes named after them.

Does it make sense why Ibn Ezra and Rashi clarified this verse? Do you feel like Jacob's comments are blessings?

"[Don Isaac] Abravanel's theory is that, when it came time for Jacob to die, he decided to pass on the leadership (or rule) of his family to the son who was most qualified.... [H]e assessed carefully the strengths and weaknesses of each son. When he reached his conclusion about how was the most qualified leader, he then gathered his sons together and announced it to them. Because he wanted them to appreciate his conclusions, he honestly shared his evaluation with them. Jacob wanted each of them to understand why he had disqualified him for leadership of the Jewish people."

Does this make more sense to you? Who did Jacob choose? Why? Does it make sense?

Cited: Fields, Harvey. "Vayechi." A Torah Commentary for Our Times. Volume 1: Genesis.