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The Centrality of Mitzvot bein Adam le-Chaveiro

(ב) שִׁמְעוֹן הַצַּדִּיק הָיָה מִשְּׁיָרֵי כְנֶסֶת הַגְּדוֹלָה. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, עַל שְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים הָעוֹלָם עוֹמֵד, עַל הַתּוֹרָה וְעַל הָעֲבוֹדָה וְעַל גְּמִילוּת חֲסָדִים:

(2) Shimon the Righteous was from the remnants of the Great Assembly. He would say, "On three things the world stands: on the Torah, on the service (prayer) and on acts of lovingkindness."

  • On what three things does the world stand? ________________________________
  • Why do you think gmilut chassadim is one of the "pillars" of the world? ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

(יז) רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲזַרְיָה אוֹמֵר, אִם אֵין תּוֹרָה, אֵין דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ. אִם אֵין דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ, אֵין תּוֹרָה.

(17) Rabbi Elazar ben Azariah says: If there is no Torah, there is no worldly occupation; if there is no worldly occupation, there is no Torah. If there is no wisdom, there is no fear; if there is no fear, there is no wisdom. If there is no understanding, there is no knowledge; if there is no knowledge, there is no understanding. If there is no flour, there is no Torah; if there is no Torah, there is no flour. He would say: Anyone whose wisdom exceeds his deeds, to what is he compared? To a tree whose branches are many but whose roots are few; and the wind comes and uproots it and turns it upside down; as it is said; "And he shall be like a lonely juniper tree in the wasteland and shall not see when good comes, but shall inhabit the parched places of the wilderness, a salty land that is uninhabitable." (Jeremiah 17:6). But one whose deeds exceed his wisdom, what is he like? Like a tree whose branches are few but whose roots are many; since even if all the winds of the world come and blow upon it, they do not move it from its place, as it is said; "He shall be like a tree planted by the waters, and spreads out its roots by the river, and shall not perceive when heat comes, but its leaf shall remain fresh; and it will not be troubled in the year of drought, nor will it cease to bear fruit." (Jeremiah 17:8).

  • Translate this mishna to the best of your ability. ______________________________
  • Describe the relationship between Torah and Derech Eretz, according to this mishna. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • Why do you think the relationship is so interlinked? _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

שוב מעשה בגוי אחד שבא לפני שמאי אמר לו גיירני על מנת שתלמדני כל התורה כולה כשאני עומד על רגל אחת דחפו באמת הבנין שבידו בא לפני הלל גייריה אמר לו דעלך סני לחברך לא תעביד זו היא כל התורה כולה ואידך פירושה הוא זיל גמור

There was another incident involving one gentile who came before Shammai and said to Shammai: Convert me on condition that you teach me the entire Torah while I am standing on one foot. Shammai pushed him away... The same gentile came before Hillel. He (Hillel) converted him and said to him: That which is hateful to you do not do to another; that is the entire Torah, and the rest is its interpretation. Go study.

  • What do you think that Hillel meant when he said that this is "the entire Torah." Was he being literal? ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

In Reality, It's Not Always the Case

We have found righteous and upstanding individuals who will readily sacrifice themselves for the slightest detail and nuance of mitzvot bein adam le-Makom, but when it comes to interpersonal relationships they are extremely lenient, for not everyone is capable of foregoing [what they feel is] their full share. (Chatam Sofer, Derashot, p. 245)

Talk it Out:

  • When you read the above text, did a scenario from your personal experiences come to mind? (school, camp, life) _______________________________________________
  • Have you ever found yourself paying more attention to halacha than another person's feelings? _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • Why is it in some ways easier to pay attention to halacha than mitzvot bein adam le-chavero? ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

A Story from the Talmud that Illustrates the Need for Both

We are told numerous times that the study of Torah is insufficient if it is not accompanied by acts of chesed. The Talmud (Avodah Zarah 17b) relates the story of Rabbi Chanina Ben Teradyon and Rabbi Elazar ben Parta, who were arrested by the Roman authorities at the same time. Rabbi Chanina tells his cellmate that although Rabbi Elazar was being held on account of five counts of anti-Roman activity and Rabbi Chanina was arrested on one, Rabbi Elazar was the one who would be saved because he had involved himself in both Torah and chesed, unlike Rabbi Chanina, who had engaged only in Torah. The Talmud goes on to explain that, in fact, Rabbi Chanina was the gabbai tzedaka, the one in charge of charitable funds and thus heavily involved in feeding the poor and needy; nevertheless, he did not do chesed to the degree expected of a man of his stature, and he was therefore held accountable. (Rav Binyamin Zimmerman)

Jews in the News: Kiddush Hashem Alert

Read the attached article. As you read the story, highlight the different types of mitzvot (bein adam le-Makom, chaveiro, etc.) that make an appearance.

Why Must We Be Kind to Others? Finally, The Logic Behind it All

(כו) וַיֹּ֣אמֶר אֱלֹקִ֔ים נַֽעֲשֶׂ֥ה אָדָ֛ם בְּצַלְמֵ֖נוּ כִּדְמוּתֵ֑נוּ וְיִרְדּוּ֩ בִדְגַ֨ת הַיָּ֜ם וּבְע֣וֹף הַשָּׁמַ֗יִם וּבַבְּהֵמָה֙ וּבְכָל־הָאָ֔רֶץ וּבְכָל־הָרֶ֖מֶשׂ הָֽרֹמֵ֥שׂ עַל־הָאָֽרֶץ׃ (כז) וַיִּבְרָ֨א אֱלֹקִ֤ים ׀ אֶת־הָֽאָדָם֙ בְּצַלְמ֔וֹ בְּצֶ֥לֶם אֱלֹקִ֖ים בָּרָ֣א אֹת֑וֹ זָכָ֥ר וּנְקֵבָ֖ה בָּרָ֥א אֹתָֽם׃

(26) And God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. They shall rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, the cattle, the whole earth, and all the creeping things that creep on earth.” (27) And God created man in His image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.

Talk it Out:

  • What do you think it means to be created in someone’s image? Does being created in someone’s image mean that you are the same as they are? ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • Why do you think the Torah tells us that Adam (and by extension his descendants — all people) were created in the image of God? ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Imitating G-d Through Our Actions

(כב) כֹּ֣ה ׀ אָמַ֣ר ה' אַל־יִתְהַלֵּ֤ל חָכָם֙ בְּחָכְמָת֔וֹ וְאַל־יִתְהַלֵּ֥ל הַגִּבּ֖וֹר בִּגְבֽוּרָת֑וֹ אַל־יִתְהַלֵּ֥ל עָשִׁ֖יר בְּעָשְׁרֽוֹ׃ (כג) כִּ֣י אִם־בְּזֹ֞את יִתְהַלֵּ֣ל הַמִּתְהַלֵּ֗ל הַשְׂכֵּל֮ וְיָדֹ֣עַ אוֹתִי֒ כִּ֚י אֲנִ֣י ה' עֹ֥שֶׂה חֶ֛סֶד מִשְׁפָּ֥ט וּצְדָקָ֖ה בָּאָ֑רֶץ כִּֽי־בְאֵ֥לֶּה חָפַ֖צְתִּי נְאֻם־ה'׃ (ס)

(22) Thus said the LORD: Let not the wise man glory in his wisdom; Let not the strong man glory in his strength; Let not the rich man glory in his riches. (23) But only in this should one glory: In his earnest devotion to Me. For I the LORD act with kindness, Justice, and equity in the world; For in these I delight —declares the LORD.

Talk it Out:

  • According to this text, what are the things that Hashem cares about? __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • What is the connection between this text and the earlier texts about Tzelem Elokim? _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • What do you think is the connection between kindness and Godliness? _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
ואמר רבי חמא ברבי חנינא מאי דכתיב (דברים יג, ה) אחרי ה' אלהיכם תלכו וכי אפשר לו לאדם להלך אחר שכינה והלא כבר נאמר (דברים ד, כד) כי ה' אלהיך אש אוכלה הוא אלא להלך אחר מדותיו של הקב"ה מה הוא מלביש ערומים דכתיב (בראשית ג, כא) ויעש ה' אלהים לאדם ולאשתו כתנות עור וילבישם אף אתה הלבש ערומים הקב"ה ביקר חולים דכתיב (בראשית יח, א) וירא אליו ה' באלוני ממרא אף אתה בקר חולים הקב"ה ניחם אבלים דכתיב (בראשית כה, יא) ויהי אחרי מות אברהם ויברך אלהים את יצחק בנו אף אתה נחם אבלים הקב"ה קבר מתים דכתיב (דברים לד, ו) ויקבר אותו בגיא אף אתה קבור מתים

And Rabbi Chama the son of Rabbi Chanina said, "What is the meaning of the verse, 'After Hashem, your G-d, shall you walk (Deuteronomy 13:5)'? Is it possible for a man to walk after the divine presence? And isn't it already stated, 'For Hashem your G-d is a consuming fire (Deuteronomy 4:24)'? Rather, To follow the character traits of G-d. "Just as he clothes the naked, as it is written, 'And the Lord G-d made for Adam and his wife cloaks of leather, and he clothed them (Genesis 3:21);' so too you shall clothe the naked. The Holy One, Blessed be He, visited the sick, as it is written, 'And he appeared in Ailonei Mamrei [while Abraam was in pain] (Genesis 18:1);' so too you shall visit the sick. The Holy One, Blessed be He, comforted mourners, as it is written, 'And it was, after the death of Abraham, and G-d blessed his son Isaac (Genesis 25:11);' so too you shall comfort mourners. The Holy One, Blessed be He, buried the dead, as it is written, 'And he buried him in the valley (Deuteronomy 34:6);' so too, you shall bury the dead."

Talk It Out:

  • According to this text, when are we considered to be acting in the image of God? ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • When are you able to see the image of God in others’ faces? ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
  • When is it more difficult for you to see the image of God in other people? _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Mazal Tov!

4. בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה הֵ אֱלֹקִינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר יָצַר אֶת הָאָדָם בְּצַלְמוֹ, בְּצֶלֶם דְּמוּת תַּבְנִיתוֹ, וְהִתְקִין לוֹ מִמֶּנּוּ בִּנְיַן עֲדֵי עַד: בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְ-יָ, יוֹצֵר הָאָדָם.

At at Jewish wedding, seven blessing are recited, including this one which celebrates Hashem as having created humans in Hashem's own eternal image.

  • Why do you think that this blessing is recited at weddings?