Foster Children in Jewish and Pennsylvania Law
The Original Foster Child

(ב) וַתַּ֥הַר הָאִשָּׁ֖ה וַתֵּ֣לֶד בֵּ֑ן וַתֵּ֤רֶא אֹתוֹ֙ כִּי־ט֣וֹב ה֔וּא וַֽתִּצְפְּנֵ֖הוּ שְׁלֹשָׁ֥ה יְרָחִֽים׃ (ג) וְלֹא־יָכְלָ֣ה עוֹד֮ הַצְּפִינוֹ֒ וַתִּֽקַּֽח־לוֹ֙ תֵּ֣בַת גֹּ֔מֶא וַתַּחְמְרָ֥ה בַחֵמָ֖ר וּבַזָּ֑פֶת וַתָּ֤שֶׂם בָּהּ֙ אֶת־הַיֶּ֔לֶד וַתָּ֥שֶׂם בַּסּ֖וּף עַל־שְׂפַ֥ת הַיְאֹֽר׃ (ד) וַתֵּתַצַּ֥ב אֲחֹת֖וֹ מֵרָחֹ֑ק לְדֵעָ֕ה מַה־יֵּעָשֶׂ֖ה לֽוֹ׃ (ה) וַתֵּ֤רֶד בַּת־פַּרְעֹה֙ לִרְחֹ֣ץ עַל־הַיְאֹ֔ר וְנַעֲרֹתֶ֥יהָ הֹלְכֹ֖ת עַל־יַ֣ד הַיְאֹ֑ר וַתֵּ֤רֶא אֶת־הַתֵּבָה֙ בְּת֣וֹךְ הַסּ֔וּף וַתִּשְׁלַ֥ח אֶת־אֲמָתָ֖הּ וַתִּקָּחֶֽהָ (ו) וַתִּפְתַּח֙ וַתִּרְאֵ֣הוּ אֶת־הַיֶּ֔לֶד וְהִנֵּה־נַ֖עַר בֹּכֶ֑ה וַתַּחְמֹ֣ל עָלָ֔יו וַתֹּ֕אמֶר מִיַּלְדֵ֥י הָֽעִבְרִ֖ים זֶֽה׃ (ז) וַתֹּ֣אמֶר אֲחֹתוֹ֮ אֶל־בַּת־פַּרְעֹה֒ הַאֵלֵ֗ךְ וְקָרָ֤אתִי לָךְ֙ אִשָּׁ֣ה מֵינֶ֔קֶת מִ֖ן הָעִבְרִיֹּ֑ת וְתֵינִ֥ק לָ֖ךְ אֶת־הַיָּֽלֶד׃ (ח) וַתֹּֽאמֶר־לָ֥הּ בַּת־פַּרְעֹ֖ה לֵ֑כִי וַתֵּ֙לֶךְ֙ הָֽעַלְמָ֔ה וַתִּקְרָ֖א אֶת־אֵ֥ם הַיָּֽלֶד׃ (ט) וַתֹּ֧אמֶר לָ֣הּ בַּת־פַּרְעֹ֗ה הֵילִ֜יכִי אֶת־הַיֶּ֤לֶד הַזֶּה֙ וְהֵינִקִ֣הוּ לִ֔י וַאֲנִ֖י אֶתֵּ֣ן אֶת־שְׂכָרֵ֑ךְ וַתִּקַּ֧ח הָאִשָּׁ֛ה הַיֶּ֖לֶד וַתְּנִיקֵֽהוּ׃ (י) וַיִגְדַּ֣ל הַיֶּ֗לֶד וַתְּבִאֵ֙הוּ֙ לְבַת־פַּרְעֹ֔ה וַֽיְהִי־לָ֖הּ לְבֵ֑ן וַתִּקְרָ֤א שְׁמוֹ֙ מֹשֶׁ֔ה וַתֹּ֕אמֶר כִּ֥י מִן־הַמַּ֖יִם מְשִׁיתִֽהוּ׃

(2) And the woman conceived, and bore a son; and when she saw him that he was a goodly child, she hid him three months. (3) And when she could not longer hide him, she took for him an ark of bulrushes, and daubed it with slime and with pitch; and she put the child therein, and laid it in the flags by the river’s brink. (4) And his sister stood afar off, to know what would be done to him. (5) And the daughter of Pharaoh came down to bathe in the river; and her maidens walked along by the river-side; and she saw the ark among the flags, and sent her handmaid to fetch it. (6) And she opened it, and saw it, even the child; and behold a boy that wept. And she had compassion on him, and said: ‘This is one of the Hebrews’children.’ (7) Then said his sister to Pharaoh’s daughter: ‘Shall I go and call thee a nurse of the Hebrew women, that she may nurse the child for thee?’ (8) And Pharaoh’s daughter said to her: ‘Go.’ And the maiden went and called the child’s mother. (9) And Pharaoh’s daughter said unto her: ‘Take this child away, and nurse it for me, and I will give thee thy wages.’ And the woman took the child, and nursed it. (10) And the child grew, and she brought him unto Pharaoh’s daughter, and he became her son. And she called his name Moses, and said: ‘Because I drew him out of the water.’

The Obligation to Care for Orphans

(כא) כָּל־אַלְמָנָ֥ה וְיָת֖וֹם לֹ֥א תְעַנּֽוּן׃ (כב) אִם־עַנֵּ֥ה תְעַנֶּ֖ה אֹת֑וֹ כִּ֣י אִם־צָעֹ֤ק יִצְעַק֙ אֵלַ֔י שָׁמֹ֥עַ אֶשְׁמַ֖ע צַעֲקָתֽוֹ׃

(21) Ye shall not afflict any widow, or fatherless child. (22) If thou afflict them in any wise—for if they cry at all unto Me, I will surely hear their cry—

לא תענון אם ענה תענה אותו. אם כשתענה את היתום תהיה כונתך לענותו בלבד, אבל אם תענהו ליסרו ולהיטיב לו אין זה אלא גמילות חסדים:
לא תענון אם ענה תענה אותו; if, in the process of oppressing an orphan your intention was only to oppress him alone; if your “oppressing” him was in the nature of disciplining him in order to ultimately bestowing loving kindness on him after he responded to your rebuking him, your disciplining him is considered an act of loving kindness. [the author interprets verse 22 starting with the word אם as an alternative, moderating what has been written in verse 21. Ed.]
(יט) אָר֗וּר מַטֶּ֛ה מִשְׁפַּ֥ט גֵּר־יָת֖וֹם וְאַלְמָנָ֑ה וְאָמַ֥ר כָּל־הָעָ֖ם אָמֵֽן׃ (ס)
(19) Cursed be he that perverteth the justice due to the stranger, fatherless, and widow. And all the people shall say: Amen.
The Happy Foster Parent

(יז) מוטב לאדם להרבות במתנות אביונים מלהרבות בסעודתו ובשלוח מנות לרעיו. שאין שם שמחה גדולה ומפוארה אלא לשמח לב עניים ויתומים ואלמנות וגרים. שהמשמח לב האמללים האלו דומה לשכינה שנאמר להחיות רוח שפלים ולהחיות לב נדכאים.

(17) It is good for people to increase in their gifts to the poor more than they increase in their meal and the gifts that they send to their companions, for there is no greater or glorious joy than to bring happiness to the hearts of the poor and orphans and widows and strangers, for he who brings happiness to the hearts of these unfortunate people is compared to the Divine Presence, as it says, "To revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones" (Isaiah 57:15).

(תהלים קו, ג) אשרי שומרי משפט עושה צדקה בכל עת וכי אפשר לעשות צדקה בכל עת דרשו רבותינו שביבנה ואמרי לה רבי אליעזר זה הזן בניו ובנותיו כשהן קטנים רבי שמואל בר נחמני אמר זה המגדל יתום ויתומה בתוך ביתו ומשיאן

Happy are those that observe justice, that do charity at all times (Ps. 10:3). ...Is it possible to do charity at all times? Our Rabbis of Jamnia, and according to others R. Eliezer, interpreted it: ... "This refers to one who supports his sons and daughters when they are minors." ... R. Samuel b. Nachmeni said: ... "This refers to one who raises an orphan boy and girl in his house and gives them in marriage."

Foster Parent as Biological Parent
לומר לך שכל המגדל יתום ויתומה בתוך ביתו מעלה עליו הכתוב כאילו ילדו
This tells us that if anyone brings up an orphan boy or girl in his house, the verse treats him as if he had bore him.

Excerpts from the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997 (H.R. 867)

SEC. 101. CLARIFICATION OF THE REASONABLE EFFORTS REQUIREMENT

(a) IN GENERAL.—Section 471(a)(15) of the Social Security Act

(42 U.S.C. 671(a)(15)) is amended to read as follows:

‘‘(15) provides that—

‘‘(A) in determining reasonable efforts to be made with

respect to a child, as described in this paragraph, and

in making such reasonable efforts, the child’s health and

safety shall be the paramount concern;

‘‘(B) except as provided in subparagraph (D), reason-

able efforts shall be made to preserve and reunify

‘‘(i) prior to the placement of a child in foster

care, to prevent or eliminate the need for removing

the child from the child’s home; and

‘‘(ii) to make it possible for a child to safely return

to the child’s home;

‘‘(C) if continuation of reasonable efforts of the type

described in subparagraph (B) is determined to be

inconsistent with the permanency plan for the child,

reasonable efforts shall be made to place the child in a

timely manner in accordance with the permanency plan,

and to complete whatever steps are the permanent placement of the child;

SEC. 103. STATES REQUIRED TO INITIATE OR JOIN PROCEEDINGS TO

TERMINATE PARENTAL RIGHTS FOR CERTAIN CHILDREN

IN FOSTER CARE.

‘‘(E) in the case of a child who has been in foster

care under the responsibility of the State for 15 of the

most recent 22 months, or, if a court of competent jurisdic-

tion has determined a child to be an abandoned infant

(as defined under State law) or has made a determination

that the parent has committed murder of another child

of the parent, committed voluntary manslaughter of

another child of the parent, aided or abetted, attempted,

conspired, or solicited to commit such a murder or such

a voluntary manslaughter, or committed a felony assault

that has resulted in serious bodily injury to the child or

to another child of the parent, the State shall file a petition

to terminate the parental rights of the child’s parents (or,

if such a petition has been filed by another party, seek

to be joined as a party to the petition), and, concurrently,

to identify, recruit, process, and approve a qualified family

for an adoption, unless—

‘‘(i) at the option of the State, the child is being

cared for by a relative;

‘‘(ii) a State agency has documented in the case

plan (which shall be available for court review) a

compelling reason for determining that filing such a

petition would not be in the best interests of the child;

‘‘(iii) the State has not provided to the family of

the child, consistent with the time period in the State

case plan, such services as the State deems necessary

for the safe return of the child to the child’s home,

if reasonable efforts of the type described in section

471(a)(15)(B)(ii) are required to be made with respect

to the child.’’.

From The Lost Children of Wilder by Nina Bernstein

What [Justine Wise Polier, daughter of Stephen S. Wise] called her “first baptism by religious fire” came in 1936, when four neglected children of a mixed marriage were brought before her for placement. The Catholic mother and Muslim father had been married by a Protestant minister. “During one of their many quarrels,” Polier wrote later, “the mother had the oldest boy baptized in the Catholic Church without the knowledge of the father. When a daughter was born, the father retaliated by having her initiated into Islam against the mother’s wishes. Having thus punished each other, neither parent had done anything about the religion of the next two children. None of the four children had received any religious education. The case was brought by Catholic and Protestant institutions to whom the children had been allocated [after their mother fell ill]. Religious baptism became the central issue.” The oldest boy, a tall and swarthy fifteen-year-old, had run away three times from the Catholic institution, insisting he wanted to be a Muslim like his father. The thirteen-year-old girl, blond and blue-eyed like her mother, said she feared her father and wanted to be Catholic. Because of the father’s violent objections to a Catholic placement, the three younger children were in a Protestant institution, but the father was threatening to blow up the church to which they were being sent. After a full investigation, Polier came to a Solomonic decision. The older boy would be placed, as he wished, with a caring paternal uncle who was Muslim. The three younger children would be kept together and placed in a Protestant foster home where they were to receive no religious instruction. The mother would be permitted to take her older daughter with her to the Catholic church, while the father could take the younger children to Muslim services. The judge wrote a detailed opinion, In re Vardinakis, holding that infant baptism did not make a child the property of any church, and that no interests were entitled to consideration except those of parents and children. The outraged response was captured by a sensational headline in the Brooklyn Tablet, a tabloid published by the Brooklyn Diocese: DAUGHTER OF RABBI WISE GIVES CHILD OF CHRIST TO THE BLACK BEARDED PROPHET OF MOHAMMED. Later a Catholic judge telephoned Polier at home to say that Patrick Cardinal Hayes was deeply troubled by her decision.