חַיָּב כָּל אָדָם לְהַפְרִישׁ עַצְמוֹ מִמְּלָאכָה וּלְהַדְלִיק אֶת הַנֵּרוֹת לְכָל הַפָּחוֹת חֲצִי שָׁעָה קֹדֶם צֵאת הַכּוֹכָבִים. וְאִם אָמְרוּ בְּבֵית הַכְּנֶסֶת מִזְמוֹר שִׁיר לְיוֹם הַשַׁבָּת, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁעֲדַיִן יֵשׁ שְׁתֵּי שָׁעוֹת עַד הַלַּיְלָה, מִכָּל מָקוֹם חָל שַׁבָּת עַל הַמֻעָט וַאֲסוּרִים בְּכָל הַמְּלָאכוֹת. וַאֲפִלּוּ מִי שֶׁבָּא מֵעִיר אַחֶרֶת לְכָאן, חָל עָלָיו שַׁבָּת מִיָּד כְּשֶׁאָמְרוּ בְּצִּבּוּר מִזְמוֹר שִׁיר לְיוֹם הַשַׁבָּת. וּבְעִיר שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּהּ שְׁנֵי בָּתֵּי כְּנֵסִיּוֹת אֵין אֶחָד נִגְרָר אַחַר חֲבֵרוֹ. Every person must put all work aside and light the Shabbos candles at least a half hour before the stars come out. If they recited Mizmor shir leyom haShabbos1Some say from the time Bo’i Kallah in the prayer of Lecha Dodi is said [Mishnah Berurah 261: 31]. in the synagogue even though there is still two hours until night, nevertheless, the Shabbos laws become binding on the minority, and they are forbidden (to do) any manner2Even a shevus [Rabbinic prohibition] is included and even for the purpose of a mitzvah it is forbidden. [See Magein Avraham 261 and GRA 393]. of work. Even someone who arrives from another city, is obliged to observe the [laws of] Shabbos as soon as the congregation has said, Mizmor shir leyom haShabbos. In a city that has two synagogues, one is not bound by the other.
מִצְוָה לְהַרְבּוֹת בְּנֵרוֹת לִכְבוֹד שַׁבָּת. יֵשׁ נוֹהֲגִין לְהַדְלִיק עֲשָׂרָה, וְיֵשׁ מַדְלִיקִין שִׁבְעָה. וְעַל כָּל פָּנִים רָאוּי שֶׁלֹּא לִפְּחוֹת מִשְּׁתֵּי נֵרוֹת, נֶגֶד זָכוֹר וְשָׁמוֹר, וְאַךְ בִּשְׁעַת הַדְּחָק, גַּם בְּחַד סַגִּי. וִיִהְיוּ אֲרֻכִּים שֶׁיִדְלְקוּ לְכָל הַפָּחוֹת עַד לְאַחַר הָאֲכִילָה. וִיהַדֵּר לִקְנוֹת נֵרוֹת יָפִים, דְּאָמַר רַב הוּנָא הָרָגִיל בְּנֵר שַׁבָּת לְהִשְׁתַּדֵּל בּוֹ לַעֲשׂוֹתוֹ יָפֶה, הֲוָיָן לוֹ בָּנִים תַּלְמִידֵי חֲכָמִים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר כִּי נֵר מִצְוָה וְתוֹרָה אוֹר. עַל יְדֵי נֵר מִצְוָה, בָּא אוֹר תּוֹרָה. וְלָכֵן רָאוּי שֶׁתִּתְפַּלֵּל הָאִשָּׁה בִּשְׁעַת הַדְלָקָה, שֶׁיִּתֵּן לָהּ הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בָּנִים זְכָרִים מְאִירִים בַּתּוֹרָה (רס"ג), וְטוֹב שֶׁתִּתֵּן מִקֹּדֶם אֵיזֶה פְּרוּטוֹת לִצְדָקָה. וְאִשָּׁה קְשַׁת רוּחַ בְּגִדּוּל בָּנִים אוֹ שֶׁאֵין לָהּ כְּלָל, סְגֻלָּה שֶׁתֹּאמַר לְאַחַר הַדְלָקַת הַנֵּרוֹת, הַהַפְטָרָה שֶׁל יוֹם רִאשׁוֹן דְּרֹאשׁ הַשָּׁנָה. וְטוֹב שֶׁתָּבִין מַה שֶּׁהִיא אוֹמֶרֶת, וְתֹאמַר בְּכַוָּנָה. It is a mitzvah to (light) many candles in honor of the Shabbos. Some are accustomed to light ten (candles)3Symbolic of the Ten Commandments [Sheloh]. and others light seven (candles).4Representing the seven days of the week [Magein Avraham]. And in no event should less than two candles [be lit] symbolizing [the verses:] Zachor [Remember] and Shamor [Preserve].5Zachor, to remember, is the Mitzvas Asei, the positive commandment of Shabbos, and Shamor, to preserve, is the Lo Sa’asei, the prohibitive commandment of Shabbos. In time of pressing need6If one is poor and cannot afford candles and challah, the order of priority is challah, and then candles. After he has one candle he should buy other foods for Shabbos. Mishnah Berurah 263: 9. even one (candle) is sufficient. The candles should be long (enough) to burn at least until after the meal. And you should endeavor to buy the best candles, for Rav Huna said:7Maseches Shabbos 23b. "He who habitually practices the lighting of Shabbos candles; who endeavors to buy the best ones, will have sons that are Torah scholars." As it says: "For the mitzvah is a candle and the Torah is a light."8Proverbs 6: 23. Through the mitzvah of the (Shabbos) candle will come the light of the Torah. It is, therefore, fitting for the woman to pray at candle lighting time that the Holy One, blessed is He, grant her sons who are bright in the study of Torah. Prior to lighting candles it is good to give some charity. A woman who has trouble raising her children, or who has no children at all, should recite the Haftarah of the first day of Rosh Hashanah9I Samuel 1, 2–1–10. after lighting the candles. It is good if she understand what she is saying, and she should say it with concentration.
מִצְוָה מִן הַמֻּבְחָר לְהַדְלִיק בְּשֶׁמֶן זַיִת. וְגַם שֶׁמֶן הָרָגִיל בֵּינֵינוּ שֶׁקּוֹרִין שֶׁמֶן פְּרָחִים (בלומענעהל) כָּשֵׁר. אֲבָל שְׁאָר שְׁמָנִים, יֵשׁ מֵהֶם שֶׁאֵינָם כְּשֵׁרִים, וְגַם הְַפְּתִילָה יְהַדֵּר שֶׁתְּהֵא מִצֶּמֶר גֶּפֶן אוֹ פִּשְׁתָּן אוֹ קַנָּבוֹס, כִּי בִּשְׁאָר דְּבָרִים, יֵשׁ מֵהֶם שֶׁאֵינָם כְּשֵׁרִים. וּבִמְדִינָתֵנוּ נוֹהֲגִין לְהַדְלִיק בְּנֵרוֹת הָעֲשׂוּיִים מֵחֵלֶב, וְהֵן כְּשֵׁרוֹת אֲבָל לְהַנִּיחַ חֲתִיכַת חֵלֶב בְּתוֹךְ כְּלִי וּבְתוֹכוֹ פְּתִילָה, אָסוּר לְהַדְלִיק כֵּן. הַמַּדְלִיק צָרִיךְ שֶׁיַּדְלִיק עַד שֶׁיֵּאָחֵז הָאוֹר בְּרֹב אוֹתָהּ חֲתִיכַת פְּתִילָה הַיּוֹצְאָה מִן הַנֵּר. וְכֵן בְּנֵרוֹת הָעֲשׂוּיִם מֵחֵלֶב צָרִיךְ שֶׁיֵּאָחֵז הָאוֹר בְּרֹב הַפְּתִילָה הַיּוֹצֵאת. It is a mitzvah done in its perfection to light with olive oil, but even the oil we commonly use that is called "Blumenöl" is kosher. But among other oils, there are some that are not kosher.10This does not refer to Kashruth in regard to eating but only in regard to lighting. Certain oils give off a bad odor and therefore it could cause the family to leave the room and eat in the dark [Shulchan Aruch 264: 3]. Regarding the wick too, it is best to use cotton, flax, or hemp; for among other materials there are some that are not kosher.11For they sputter and you may mistakenly adjust the flame on Shabbos in violation of the prohibition of lighting fire; see Maseches Shabbos 22a. And in our country12The author lived in Hungary. we are accustomed to light with candles of tallow which are kosher.13The tallow need not be kosher but should be made of fat that comes from kosher animals. But putting a piece of fat into a vessel, and inserting a wick into it—is forbidden for the purpose of candle lighting.14Tallow may be used only in the form of candles where it is drawn well into the wick. But you may not use it as you would use oil, because in that form it is not drawn well into the wick. The one who lights the candles must light them until the fire ignites most of the wick protruding from the candle. The same applies to candles made from tallow; the fire must ignite most of the wick that protrudes from the candle.
כְּבָר יָדוּעַ שֶׁכָּל הַמִצְוֹת מְבָרְכִין עֲלֵיהֶם עוֹבֵר לַעֲשִׂיָתָן. אֲבָל בְּהַדְלָקַת הַנֵּרוֹת לְשַׁבָּת, כֵּיוָן שֶׁבְּהַדְלָקָה מְקַבֶּלֶת הָאִשָּׁה שַׁבָּת עַל עַצְמָהּ, וְהַבְּרָכָה הֲרֵי הִיא הַתְחָלָה לַהַדְלָקָה, וְאִם כֵּן אִם תְּבָרֵךְ תְּחִלָּה, לֹא תוּכַל עוֹד לְהַדְלִיק, עַל כֵּן הִיא מַדְלֶקֶת תְּחִלָּה. וּכְדֵי שֶׁתְּהֵא הַבְּרָכָה עוֹבֵר לַעֲשִׂיָּתָן, פּוֹרֶשֶׁת יָדֶיהָ כְּנֶגֶד פָּנֶיהָ שֶׁלֹּא תִרְאֶה הַנֵּרוֹת, וּמְבָרֶכֶת וּמְסִירָה אֶת הַיָּדַיִם וְרוֹאָה אֶת הַנֵּרוֹת, וַהֲוֵי כְּאִלּוּ בֵּרְכָה קֹדֶם הַהַדְלָקָה. (וּמִשּׁוּם לֹא פְּלוּג, נוֹהֲגוֹת כָּךְ גַּם בְּיוֹם טוֹב). וְעִקַּר הַנֵּרוֹת שֶׁבָּהֶן הֲוֵי קַבָּלַת שַׁבָּת, הֵן אֵלּוּ שֶׁעַל הַשֻּׁלְחָן שֶׁאוֹכְלִין עָלָיו, וְעַל כֵּן תַּדְלִיק אוֹתָן בַּאַחֲרוֹנָה. וּבִשְׁעַת הַצֹּרֶךְ, כְּגוֹן שֶׁהִיא צְרִיכָה לָלֶכֶת לַטְּבִילָה אוֹ לַחֻפָּה, אוֹ לִשְׁאָר דָּבָר נָחוּץ, תּוּכַל לְהַתְנוֹת שֶׁאֵינָהּ מְקַבֶּלֶת שַׁבָּת בַּהַדְלָקָה (עַיֵן לְקַמָּן ק"ס סָעִיף ה'), וְאָז תּוּכַל לְבָרֵךְ קֹדֶם הַדְלָקָה. וַאֲפִלּוּ תְּנַאי בַּלֵּב, סַגֵּי. It has already been established that the berachah for all mitzvos must be said before doing the mitzvos. But [this does not apply to] lighting Shabbos candles, for by lighting the candles the woman ushers in the Shabbos; and since the berachah is the beginning of the lighting, if she makes the berachah first she will no longer be able to light the candles. Therefore, she first lights the candles, and in order that the berachah be said before doing [the mitzvah], she covers her face with her hands so that she doesn't see the candles and she says the berachah and removes her hands, and looks at the candles. In so doing, it is like saying the berachah before lighting the candles. (And in order not to differentiate, this procedure is also practiced on Yom Tov.)15Derech Hachaim rules that when a man lights Shabbos candles, he should do it the same way as a woman even though he does not welcome the Shabbos at that time. This is in order not to differentiate in the way we perform the mitzvah. Rabbi Akiva Eiger rules that on Yom Tov the berachah is said before lighting the candles. The important candles with which the Shabbos is welcomed—are those that are on the table where the meal is served, and therefore she should light them last.16Magein Avraham rules the berachah should be said over the candles that are on the table. However, the berachah may also be recited when they are lit in any place that the household will occupy and use. And in time of need, as when she has to immerse herself in the mikvah, or go to a marriage ceremony, or for other important matters, she may light them with the stipulation that she is not assuming [the holiness of] Shabbos with the lighting (of the candles) and then she can say the berachah before lighting. In this regard, even a mental reservation is sufficient.
מִצְוַת הַדְלָקַת הַנֵּרוֹת חָלָה בֵּין עַל הָאֲנָשִׁים בֵּין עַל הַנָּשִׁים, אֶלָּא שֶׁהַנָּשִׁים מֻזְהָרוֹת בָּהּ יוֹתֵר, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהֵן מְצוּיוֹת בַּבָּיִת. וְעוֹד מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהָאִשָּׁה כִּבְּתָה נֵרוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, שֶׁהֶחְטִיאָה לְאָדָם הָרִאשׁוֹן וְהֶחֱשִׁיכָה נִשְׁמָתוֹ שֶׁקְּרוּיָה נֵר, כְּמוֹ שֶׁכָּתוּב, נֵר אֱלֹהִים נִשְׁמַת אָדָם, וְלָכֵן צְרִיכָה הִיא לְתַקֵּן זֹאת בְּהַדְלָקַת הַנֵּרוֹת לִכְבוֹד שַׁבָּת. וְלָכֵן אִם הָאִשָּׁה בְּבֵיתָהּ, הִיא קוֹדֶמֶת לְמִצְוָה זֹאת. וּמִכָּל מָקוֹם יֵשׁ לוֹ לְהָאִישׁ גַּם כֵּן לְסַיֵּעַ בַּמִּצְוָה וִיתַקֵּן אֶת הַנֵּרוֹת וִיהַבְהֵב אוֹתָן, דְּהַיְנוּ שֶׁיַּדְלִיקֵן וִיכַבֵּן, כְּדֵי שֶׁיִּהְיוּ נוֹחִים אַחַר כָּךְ לְהִדָּלֵק. וְאִשָּׁה יוֹלֶדֶת, בַּשַׁבָּת הָרִאשׁוֹן יַדְלִיק הַבַּעַל וִיבָרֵךְ. אֲבָל אַחַר כָּךְ וְגַם בְּכָל פַּעַם שֶׁהִיא נִדָּה, הִיא מַדְלֶקֶת וּמְבָרֶכֶת. The mitzvah of lighting the candles is incumbent on both men and women, but women are urged to be more concerned with the mitzvah because they are usually at home at candle lighting time.17Rambam. The woman extinguished the light of the world when she caused Adam to sin and darkened his soul which is called light,18Ari z’l. as it is written,19Proverbs 20: 27. "The light of God is the soul of man." Therefore she must make amends for this by lighting candles in honor of Shabbos. Therefore if the woman is in her home she takes precedence in performing this mitzvah. Nevertheless the man should also assist with the mitzvah. He should prepare the candles20Ari z’l. and should singe them; that is, he should light them and extinguish them, making it easier to light them afterwards, After a woman gives birth, her husband should light the candles the first Shabbos21Because it is difficult for her to get up and do it [see Siddur Derech Hachaim.] Knesses Hagedolah rules that a candle should be brought to her so that she may light it herself. Sheloh rules that her husband should light (them) for her. and say the berachah, but after that and also each time she is a niddah,22A woman during menstruation is called a niddah. She is considered a niddah until she immerses herself in a mikveh. she should light them and say the berachah.
נוֹהֲגוֹת הַנָּשִׁים שֶׁקֹּדֶם הַדְלָקַת הַנֵּרוֹת, רוֹחֲצוֹת וְלוֹבְשׁוֹת בִּגְדֵי שַׁבָּת, וְאַשְׁרֵי לָהֶן. וּצְרִיכִין לְהִתְפַּלֵּל מִנְחָה תְּחִלָּה, כִּי בְּהַדְלָקַת הַנֵּרוֹת הִיא מְקַבֶּלֶת שַׁבָּת עַל עַצְמָהּ וְאֵינָהּ יְכוֹלָה לְהִתְפַּלֵּל אַחַר כָּךְ מִנְחָה שֶׁל חֹל. וְאִשָּׁה שֶׁנִּתְאַחֲרָה בַּעֲסָקֶיהָ וּבָאָה לְבֵיתָהּ קָרוֹב לַחֲצִי שָׁעָה קֹדֶם שַׁבָּת, שֶׁאִם תִּרְחַץ וְתִלְבַּשׁ, תּוּכַל לָבֹא לִידֵי סְפֵק חִלּוּל שַׁבָּת, מִצְוָה יוֹתֵר שֶׁתַּדְלִיק כְּמוֹת שֶׁהִיא מִשֶּׁתָּבוֹא חַס וְשָׁלוֹם לִידֵי סְפֵק חִלּוּל שַׁבָּת. וְאִם הַבַּעַל רוֹאֶה שֶׁהִיא מִתְאַחֶרֶת מִלָּבוֹא, מִצְוָה גְּדוֹלָה שֶׁיַּדְלִיק הוּא וְאַל יַשְׁגִּיחַ בְּרָגְזָהּ. Before lighting candles women customarily wash themselves and dress up in Shabbos clothes. Fortunate are those who do so. She must recite the Minchah prayer before lighting candles, because by lighting candles she assumes the sacredness of Shabbos, and she can no longer pray the weekday Minchah prayer. If a woman was delayed by her occupation [or business], and came home close to a half hour before Shabbos, and if she would then wash and dress there would be a risk of desecrating the Shabbos, it is a greater mitzvah to light (the candles) as she is, rather than risk, Heaven forbid, a possible desecration of Shabbos. If the husband sees that she is late in coming home it is a great mitzvah for him to light the candles and to disregard her resentment.
אִם הָאִישׁ מַדְלִיק הַנֵּרוֹת, וְהוּא צָרִיךְ לַעֲשׂוֹת אַחַר כָּךְ אֵיזֶה מְלָאכָה, טוֹב גַּם כֵּן שֶׁיַּתְנֶה שֶׁאֵינוֹ מְקַבֵּל שַׁבָּת בְּהַדְלָקָה זוֹ. אֲבָל בְּדִיעֲבַד אִם לֹא הִתְנָה, יָכוֹל לַעֲשׂוֹת אַחַר כָּךְ מְלָאכָה, כִּי בְּהַדְלָקַת הַבַּעַל אֵין מִנְהָג שֶׁהוּא מְקַבֵּל שַׁבָּת. When the man lights the candles, [knowing] that afterwards he must perform some task, it is also advisable that he stipulates that he does not assume the holiness of Shabbos with this lighting, but if he did not make this reservation, he is still permitted to do work after (lighting), because when the husband lights candles it is not ordinarily an act of ushering in the Shabbos.
צְרִיכִין לְהַדְלִיק בְּמָּקוֹם שֶׁיֹּאכְלוּ, שֶׁיְהֵא נִכָּר שֶׁמַּדְלִיקָן לִכְבוֹד שַׁבָּת, וְלֹא לְהַדְלִיק בְּמָקוֹם אַחֵר וּלְהַנִּיחָם אַחַר כָּךְ בְּמָקוֹם אַחֵר. אַךְ בִּשְׁעַת הַדְּחַק, כְּגוֹן שֶׁהָאִשָּׁה חוֹלָה וְאֵינָהּ יְכוֹלָה לָלֶכֶת אֶל הַשֻּׁלְחָן, מַדְלֶקֶת כְּשֶׁהִיא בַּמִּטָּה, וּמַעֲמִידִין אוֹתָם אַחַר כָּךְ עַל הַשֻּׁלְחָן בְּבַיִת זֶה, כִּי כָּל הַבַּיִת נֶחְשָׁב מְקוֹמָן. וְנָשִׁים שֶׁמַּדְלִיקִין הַנֵּרוֹת בַּסֻּכָּה, וְאַחַר כָּךְ נוֹשְׂאוֹת אוֹתָן לְתוֹךְ הַבַּיִת, לֹא יָפֶה הֵן עוֹשֹוֹת. נֵר שֶׁהוּא דּוֹלֵק מֵעֶרֶב שַׁבָּת, צְרִיכִין לְכַבּוֹתוֹ וְלַחֲזוֹר וּלְהַדְלִיקוֹ לִכְבוֹד שַׁבָּת, כְּדֵי שֶׁיְהֵא נִכָּר שֶׁמַּדְלִיק לִכְבוֹד שַׁבָּת. Candles must be lit in the room where the meals are served in order to indicate that they were lit in honor of Shabbos. They should not be lit in one place23This is the correct version. Some editions have a gross error here. See Rema 263:10. and transferred to another place.24They should not be lit in a place where the household does not need them and then transferred to a place where they are needed, because the act of lighting is the mitzvah and it must be done in the appropriate place. The Levush rules that even if they were lit in an appropriate place they should not be moved to another (appropriate) place. When necessary, however, one may be lenient in this regard [Chayei Adam, Mishnah Berurah 263: 48]. However in time of pressing need, for instance when the woman is sick and unable to go to the table, she may light them at her bed, and they may be placed on the table in the house, because the whole house is considered their place. And women who light the candles in the sukkah and bring them into the house afterwards, are not doing the proper thing.25Chayei Adam. A candle that was burning before Shabbos must be extinguished and then relit in honor of Shabbos, in order to make it clear that it is lit in honor of Shabbos.
צָרִיךְ לְהַדְלִיק הַנֵּרוֹת בְּכָל הַחֲדָרִים שֶׁמִּשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ שָׁם. מִי שֶׁהוּא בְּבֵיתוֹ אֵצֶל אִשְׁתּוֹ, כֵּיוָן שֶׁהִיא מְבָרֶכֶת עַל הַנֵּרוֹת שֶׁבְּחֶדֶר אֶחָד, אֵין צְרִיכִין לְבָרֵךְ עַל הַהַדְלָקָה שֶׁבִּשְׁאָר חֲדָרִים. אֲבָל אִם הוּא בְּמָקוֹם אַחֵר, אִם יֵשׁ לוֹ שָׁם חֶדֶר מְיֻחָד, צָרִיךְ לְהַדְלִיק וּלְבָרֵךְ. וְאִם הֵם רַבִּים שֶׁנִּתְאַכְסְנוּ בְּחֶדֶר אֶחָד, יִשְׁתַּתְּפוּ לִקְנוֹת נֵרוֹת, וְיַדְלִיק אֶחָד וִיבָרֵךְ וִיכַוֵּן לְהוֹצִיא אֶת כֻּלָּם בְּבִרְכָּתוֹ, וְגַם הֵם יְכַוְּנוּ לָצֵאת בְּבִרְכָּתוֹ. וְאִם אֵין לוֹ חֶדֶר מְיֻחָד, אֶלָּא שֶׁהוּא בְּחֶדֶר אֶחָד עִם בַּעַל הָאֻשְׁפִּיזָא יִשְֹרָאֵל, אֵינוֹ צָרִיךְ לְהַדְלִיק, כֵּיוָן שֶׁאִשְׁתּוֹ מַדְלֶקֶת עָלָיו בְּבֵיתוֹ. וּבַחוּרִים הַלּוֹמְדִים בְּמָקוֹם אַחֵר, אִם יֵשׁ לָהֶם חֶדֶר מְיֻחָד, צְרִיכִין לְהַדְלִיק בִּבְרָכָה. וְיִשְׁתַּתְּפוּ גַּם כֵּן לִקְנוֹת נֵרוֹת וְאֶחָד יְבָרֵךְ וְיוֹצִיא אֶת כֻּלָּם. וּצְרִיכִין שֶׁיִּהְיוּ הַנֵּרוֹת דּוֹלְקִים עַד שֶׁיָּבֹאוּ שָׁמָּה. וְאִם אֵין לָהֶם חֶדֶר מְיֻחָד, כֵּיוָן שֶׁאֵין לָהֶם נָשִׁים שֶׁמַּדְלִיקוֹת, צְרִיכִין לָתֵת פְּרוּטָה לְבַעַל הַבַּיִת, שֶׁתִּהְיֶה לָהֶם שֻׁתָּפוּת בַּנֵרוֹת. וּמִי שֶׁהוּא סָמוּךְ עַל שֻׁלְחַן בַּעַל הַבַּיִת, הוּא בִּכְלָל בְּנֵי בֵּיתוֹ וְאֵינוֹ צָרִיךְ לְהִשְׁתַּתֵּף. You must light candles in all the rooms that are being used. If you are at home with your wife, since she says the berachah on the candles in one room, it is not necessary to say a berachah on the lighting (of candles) in the other rooms. But if you are in another place, where you have a room for yourself, you must light candles and say the berachah. If several men live in one room, they should all share the cost of buying candles. One of them should light them and say the berachah [and they must all listen to the berachah], and he should have in mind to include all of them in his berachah, and they should also have in mind to be included in his berachah. But if you do not have a private room but you are in one room with the host who is Jewish (who is lighting), you need not light candles since your wife is lighting for you at home. Unmarried students who are learning away from home, and have a private room, must light candles with a berachah, and they should also share (the cost of) buying candles. One of them should say the berachah and have them all in mind. It is necessary that the candles burn until they return to their room. And if they do not have a private room, since they have no wives to light candles for them, they must give a coin to the host in order to acquire a share in the candles. One who is supported by the host is considered one of the household and need not share in the cost of the candles.
נוֹהֲגִין שֶׁאֲפִלּוּ כַּמָּה נָשִׁים, מַדְלִיקִין נֵרוֹת בְּבַיִת אֶחָד וְכָל אַחַת מְבָרֶכֶת עַל נֵרוֹת שֶׁלָּהּ, כִּי כַּמָּה שֶׁנִּתּוֹסַף אוֹרָה, יֵשׁ בָּה שִׂמְחָה יְתֵרָה. וְאַךְ יֵשׁ לִזָּהֵר שֶׁלֹּא תַּדְלִיקֶנָה שְׁתַּיִם בִּמְנוֹרָה אֶחָת. וּבִשְׁעַת הַדְּחַק מְקִלִּין גַּם בָּזֶה. It is a custom that even if many women light candles in one house, each one says the berachah on her (own) candles,26Shulchan Aruch 263: 8. because the more light, the more joy. However, care should be taken that two (women) should not light in one candelabra, but in times of pressing need we may be lenient even in this regard.27Magein Avraham. Peri Megadim relies on this ruling for the benefit of poor women who cannot afford their own candelabra.
אֵין לִתֵּן מַיִם אֲפִלּוּ מִבְּעוֹד יוֹם לְתוֹךְ נֶקֶב הַמְּנוֹרָה שֶׁמַּכְנִיסִין שָׁם אֶת הַנֵּר שֶׁל חֵלֶב אוֹ שֶׁל שַׁעֲוָה, כְּדֵי שֶׁכְּשֶׁיַּגִּיעַ לְשָׁם יִתְכַּבֶּה. וּבִמְקוֹם צֹרֶךְ, יֵשׁ לְהָקֵל אִם נוֹתֵן מִבְּעוֹד יוֹם. אֲבָל לְהַעֲמִיד כְּלִי עִם מַיִם תַּחַת מְנוֹרָה הַתְּלוּיָה, כְּדֵי שֶׁאִם יִפְּלוּ נִיצוֹצוֹת יִתְכַּבּוּ, אִסּוּר גָּמוּר הִיא, אֲפִלּוּ לְהַעֲמִידוֹ מִבְּעוֹד יוֹם. וּלְהַעֲמִיד כְּלִי בְּלִי מַיִם לְקַבֵּל הַנִּיצוֹצוֹת מֻתָּר, אֲפִלּוּ מִשֶּׁחָשְׁכָה, כִּי נִיצוֹצוֹת אֵין בָּהֶם מַמָּשׁ. וּלְהַעֲמִיד הַכְּלִי בִּשְׁבִיל שֶׁיְטַפְטֵף לְשָם הַשֶׁמֶן אוֹ הַחֵלֶב מִשֶׁחָשְׁכָה, אָסוּר, דְּכֵיוָן שֶׁאִם יְטַפְטֵף יֵאָסֵר הַכְּלִי בְּטִלְטוּל, נִמְצָא שֶׁהוּא מְבַטֵּל כְּלִי מֵהֵיכָנוֹ וְאָסוּר, מִשּׁוּם דַּהֲוֵי כְּאִלּוּ דָּבְקוּ שָׁם. אֲבָל לְהַעֲמִידוֹ מִבְּעוֹד יוֹם, מֻתָּר. וְאִם נָטַף לְתוֹכוֹ שֶׁמֶן, אָסוּר לְהִסְתַּפֵּק מִמֶּנּוּ בְּשַׁבָּת, וְהַכְּלִי אָסוּר בְּטִלְטוּל. וְאִם לֹא נָטַף לְתוֹכוֹ, לֹא נֶאֱסָר הַכְּלִי בְּטִלְטוּל עַל יְדֵי מַחְשָׁבָה בְּעָלְמָא. No water should be put—even by day [before shabbos]—into the socket of the candlestick wherein you place the tallow or wax candle, so that it will be extinguished on reaching it; but in case of necessity, this rule may be waived provided the water is put there in daytime. But placing a vessel with water under a candelabra28Even before lighting the candles [Magein Avraham]. so that if sparks fall they will be extinguished—this is strictly forbidden even when placed when it is still daytime.29It is forbidden to cause the extinguishment of sparks, for instance by raising the vessel on Shabbos, to catch the sparks. In order to prevent this—it is forbidden to place the vessel of water under the candle even on Erev Shabbos. See Magein Avraham for additional reasons [Mishnah Berurah 265: 15]. But placing a vessel without water to intercept the sparks is permitted even after dark because sparks are not tangible.30See footnote 31. Placing a vessel to catch the dripping oil or fat is forbidden once it is dark, for should oil or tallow drip into the vessel, it would be forbidden to move the vessel. Consequently, you are neutralizing the vessel from its state of readiness, which is forbidden,31Since the vessel was, until now, allowed to be moved and it is now forbidden to be moved (because it became muktzeh, see chapter 88) it is as though you dismantled it on Shabbos [Rambam]. Rashi (Maseches Shabbos 442b) explains that since you are not allowed to move it, it is as though you cemented it in its place on Shabbos. This is a Rabbinical prohibition, for there is no actual dismantling or building taking place. In the case of the sparks, the sparks do not make the vessel muktzeh for they do not remain there. because it is considered as though it were fastened there. But placing it there while it is still day is permitted. And if oil dripped into it you are forbidden to use the oil on Shabbos and you are not allowed to move the vessel. And if (oil) did not drip into it, it is not forbidden to move the vessel, merely because of intent.
טוֹב לְהַנִּיחַ אֶת הַחַלּוֹת עַל הַשֻּׁלְחָן קֹדֶם שֶׁמַּדְלִיקִין אֶת הַנֵּרוֹת, כְּדִלְקַמָּן סִימָן פ"ט סָעִיף ב'. It is best to put the challos on the table before you light the candles. See further in chapter 89: 2.
אִשָּׁה סוּמָא אִם יֵשׁ לָהּ בַּעַל, יַדְלִיק הַבַּעַל וִיבָרֵךְ. וְאִם אֵין לָהּ בַּעַל וְהִיא דָּרָה לְבַדָּהּ מַדְלֶקֶת וּמְבָרֶכֶת. וְאִם דָּרָה עִם אֲחֵרִים בְּבַיִת אֶחָד וְהָאֲחֵרִים מַדְלִיקִין, מַדְלֶקֶת הַסּוּמָא בְּלֹא בְּרָכָה. אַךְ אִם הִיא עֲקֶרֶת הַבַּיִת תַּדְלִיק הִיא תְּחִלָּה וּתְבָרֵךְ, וְאַחַר כָּךְ יַדְלִיקוּ הָאֲחֵרִים וִיבָרְכוּ. If a blind woman has a husband, he should light (the candles) and say the berachah. And if she doesn't have a husband and she lives alone she lights the candles and says the berachah. And if she lives in a house with others and they light candles, the blind (woman) lights her candles without a berachah.32See Magein Avraham (263: 9). If she is the head of the household she lights first and says the berachah, and afterwards the others should light their candles and say the berachah.
אִשָּׁה שֶׁשָּׁכְחָה פַּעַם אַחַת לְהַדְלִיק, תַּדְלִיק כָּל יָמֶיהָ נֵר אֶחָד יוֹתֵר מִמַּה שֶּׁהָיְתָה רְגִילָה. וְכֵן אִם שָׁכְחָה כַּמָּה פְּעָמִים תַּדְלִיק תָּמִיד נֵר אֶחָד יוֹתֵר, וְהוּא מִשּׁוּם הֶכֵּר, שֶׁתְּהֵא זְהִירָה מִכָּאן וּלְהַבָּא. וְלָכֵן אִם מֵחֲמַת אֹנֶס לֹא הִדְלִיקָה, אֵינָהּ צְרִיכָה לְהוֹסִיף. If a woman once forgot to light the Shabbos candles, for the rest of her life she should light one candle33A very poor woman may add a little oil to one light or use a larger candle [Eliyahu Rabbah]. more than she usually lit.34Rema-Maharil (263: 1). And if she forgot several times she should always light an extra candle [for each time]. This is done to impress upon her to be more careful in the future; therefore, if it was due to an emergency that she did not light her candles, she need not light additional candles.
