Lech Lecha ~ Choosing Chosenness

וַהֲקִמֹתִי אֶת בְּרִיתִי בֵּינִי וּבֵינֶךָ וּבֵין זַרְעֲךָ אַחֲרֶיךָ לְדֹרֹתָם לִבְרִית עוֹלָם לִהְיוֹת לְךָ לֵאלֹהִים וּלְזַרְעֲךָ אַחֲרֶיךָ. וְנָתַתִּי לְךָ וּלְזַרְעֲךָ אַחֲרֶיךָ אֵת אֶרֶץ מְגֻרֶיךָ אֵת כָּל אֶרֶץ כְּנַעַן לַאֲחֻזַּת עוֹלָם וְהָיִיתִי לָהֶם לֵאלֹהִים. וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים אֶל אַבְרָהָם וְאַתָּה אֶת בְּרִיתִי תִשְׁמֹר אַתָּה וְזַרְעֲךָ אַחֲרֶיךָ לְדֹרֹתָם. זֹאת בְּרִיתִי אֲשֶׁר תִּשְׁמְרוּ בֵּינִי וּבֵינֵיכֶם וּבֵין זַרְעֲךָ אַחֲרֶיךָ הִמּוֹל לָכֶם כָּל זָכָר.

And I will establish My covenant between Me and you and your seed after you throughout their generations for an everlasting covenant, to be a God to you and to your seed after you. And I will give you and your offspring the land of your sojournings, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession; and I will be their God.’ And God said to Avraham: And you, observe My covenant, you and your seed for all generations. This is My covenant that you will observe between you and I, and between your seed after you: circumcise all males.

Chosenness a function of choosing: Avraham could have said no, I won't go. Or No, I won't circumcise. Same idea found below in Rashi on Deut. 33:2

(לה) אַתָּה֙ הָרְאֵ֣תָ לָדַ֔עַת כִּ֥י ה' ה֣וּא הָאֱלֹהִ֑ים אֵ֥ין ע֖וֹד מִלְבַדּֽוֹ׃ (לו) מִן־הַשָּׁמַ֛יִם הִשְׁמִֽיעֲךָ֥ אֶת־קֹל֖וֹ לְיַסְּרֶ֑ךָּ וְעַל־הָאָ֗רֶץ הֶרְאֲךָ֙ אֶת־אִשּׁ֣וֹ הַגְּדוֹלָ֔ה וּדְבָרָ֥יו שָׁמַ֖עְתָּ מִתּ֥וֹךְ הָאֵֽשׁ׃ (לז) וְתַ֗חַת כִּ֤י אָהַב֙ אֶת־אֲבֹתֶ֔יךָ וַיִּבְחַ֥ר בְּזַרְע֖וֹ אַחֲרָ֑יו וַיּוֹצִֽאֲךָ֧ בְּפָנָ֛יו בְּכֹח֥וֹ הַגָּדֹ֖ל מִמִּצְרָֽיִם׃ (לח) לְהוֹרִ֗ישׁ גּוֹיִ֛ם גְּדֹלִ֧ים וַעֲצֻמִ֛ים מִמְּךָ֖ מִפָּנֶ֑יךָ לַהֲבִֽיאֲךָ֗ לָֽתֶת־לְךָ֧ אֶת־אַרְצָ֛ם נַחֲלָ֖ה כַּיּ֥וֹם הַזֶּֽה׃

(35) To you it was shown, that you might know that Ad-nai, He is God; there is none else beside Him. (36) Out of heaven He made you to hear His voice, that He might instruct you; and upon earth He made you to see His great fire; and you did hear His words out of the midst of the fire. (37) And because He loved your fathers, and chose their seed after them, and brought you out with His presence, with His great power, out of Egypt, (38) to drive out nations from before you; greater and mightier than you, to bring you in, to give you their land for an inheritance, as it is this day.

Here choseness is much more a function of ancestry - mingled, of course, with instruction - but that comes later.

אַתֶּם רְאִיתֶם אֲשֶׁר עָשִׂיתִי לְמִצְרָיִם וָאֶשָּׂא אֶתְכֶם עַל כַּנְפֵי נְשָׁרִים וָאָבִא אֶתְכֶם אֵלָי. וְעַתָּה אִם שָׁמוֹעַ תִּשְׁמְעוּ בְּקֹלִי וּשְׁמַרְתֶּם אֶת בְּרִיתִי וִהְיִיתֶם לִי סְגֻלָּה מִכָּל הָעַמִּים כִּי לִי כָּל הָאָרֶץ. וְאַתֶּם תִּהְיוּ לִי מַמְלֶכֶת כֹּהֲנִים וְגוֹי קָדוֹשׁ.

You have seen what I did to the Egyptians, and how I bore you on eagles’ wings, and brought you to Me. Now therefore, if you will hearken to My voice, and keep My covenant, then you shall be Mine own treasure from among all peoples; for all the earth is Mine; and you shall be to Me a kingdom of priests, and a holy nation.

(ג) סגלה. אוצר חביב, כמו (קהלת ב ח) וסגלת מלכים, כלי יקר ואבנים טובות שהמלכים גונזים אותם כך אתם תהיו לי סגלה משאר אמות, ולא תאמרו אתם לבדכם שלי ואין לי אחרים עמכם, ומה יש לי עוד שתהא חבתכם נכרת:

(3) "Treasure" - A beloved trove like "the treasure of Kings" (Ecclesiastes 2:8), a precious vessel with beautiful stones which the kings put away so you will be for Me a treasure from the other nations. You should not say that you alone are mine and I do not have any others with you - what else do I have that my love of you become recognized?

(ג) והייתם לי סגלה מכל העמים אף על פי שכל המין האנושי יקר אצלי מכל יתר הנמצאים השפלים, כי הוא לבדו המכוון בהם, כאמרם ז''ל (אבות) חביב אדם שנברא בצלם מכל מקום אתם תהיו לי סגולה מכלם:

(ד) כי לי כל הארץ וההבדל ביניכם בפחות ויתר הוא, כי אמנם לי כל הארץ וחסידי אומות העולם יקרים אצלי בלי ספק:

And you will be a treasure among all peoples - even though all types of humans are important to me above all the lower beings, since He is represented only in them, as say Hazal (Avot): 'Humans are beloved because they were created in the Image' - still, you will be treasured among them.

Because Mine is all the earth - and the difference between you exists in smaller or bigger amounts, despite the fact that the whole earth is Mine, and the Righteous of the Nations are important to Me without a doubt.

Here we see the tension between choseness and universalism, and two different attempts - the extra text (they are nothing to Me) in Rashi, as seen in Chabad.org and even in Sefaria, does not correspond to the Hebrew text. Rashi can be construed as needing the nonJews to show the love - you can't have preference if there is no option. Still, how far does this preference go? Not too far.

(ב) וַיֹּאמַר ה' מִסִּינַי בָּא וְזָרַח מִשֵּׂעִיר לָמוֹ הוֹפִיעַ מֵהַר פָּארָן וְאָתָה מֵרִבְבֹת קֹדֶשׁ מִימִינוֹ אשדת [אֵשׁ דָּת] לָמוֹ.

(2) And he said: The LORD came from Sinai, And shone forth from Seir unto them; He appeared forth from mount Paran, And He came from the myriads holy, At His right hand was a fiery law unto them.

Rashi:

and shone forth from Seir to them: [Why did He come from Seir?] Because God first offered the children of Esau [who dwelled in Seir] that they accept the Torah, but they did not want [to accept it]. וזרח משעיר למו: שפתח לבני עשו שיקבלו את התורה ולא רצו:
He appeared: to them [Israel] הופיע: להם:
from Mount Paran: [Why did God then come from Paran?] Because He went there and offered the children of Ishmael [who dwelled in Paran] to accept the Torah, but they [also] did not want [to accept it]. — [A.Z. 2b] מהר פארן: שהלך שם ופתח לבני ישמעאל שיקבלוה, ולא רצו:
(ז) לֹ֣א מֵֽרֻבְּכֶ֞ם מִכָּל־הָֽעַמִּ֗ים חָשַׁ֧ק ה' בָּכֶ֖ם וַיִּבְחַ֣ר בָּכֶ֑ם כִּֽי־אַתֶּ֥ם הַמְעַ֖ט מִכָּל־הָעַמִּֽים׃ (ח) כִּי֩ מֵֽאַהֲבַ֨ת ה' אֶתְכֶ֗ם וּמִשָּׁמְר֤וּ אֶת־הַשְּׁבֻעָה֙ אֲשֶׁ֤ר נִשְׁבַּע֙ לַאֲבֹ֣תֵיכֶ֔ם הוֹצִ֧יא ה' אֶתְכֶ֖ם בְּיָ֣ד חֲזָקָ֑ה וַֽיִּפְדְּךָ֙ מִבֵּ֣ית עֲבָדִ֔ים מִיַּ֖ד פַּרְעֹ֥ה מֶֽלֶךְ־מִצְרָֽיִם׃

(7) Ad-nai did not set His love upon you, nor choose you, because you were more in number than any people—for you were the fewest of all peoples— (8) but because Ad-nai loved you, and because He would keep the oath which He swore to your fathers, has Ad-nai brought you out with a mighty hand, and redeemed you out of the house of bondage, from the hand of Pharaoh king of Egypt.

Same idea reflected above -Deut. 4:35-38 - connection to ancestry - Michael Wyschogrod puts it nicely:

If the Jews are chosen to serve for all eternity as a light unto the nations, it is because God, sees the face of his beloved Abraham in each and every one of his children as a man sees the face of his beloved in the children of his union with his beloved. ~ Michael Wyschogrod, The Body of Faith, Jason Aronson, p. 64

וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים יִשְׁרְצוּ הַמַּיִם שֶׁרֶץ נֶפֶשׁ חַיָּה וְעוֹף יְעוֹפֵף עַל הָאָרֶץ עַל פְּנֵי רְקִיעַ הַשָּׁמָיִם.

And God said: ‘Let the waters swarm with swarms of living creatures, and let fowl fly above the earth in the open firmament of heaven.’
Zohar: Creatures that have a "soul"-- that pertains to the Jews, for they are the Children of God, and from God came their holy souls....And the souls of other nations, from where do they come? Rabbi Elazar says that they have souls from the impure left side, and therefore, they are all impure, defiling anyone who comes near them.
Tanya Ch. 1: The souls of the nations of the world, however, emanate from the other, unclean kelipot which contain no good whatsoever.

>>>Here we see the dark face of chosenness: the other as transformed in less-human, since we, chosen, are fully human. Sforno is also aware of this trend, see his commentary above.

The more extreme, and exclusive, interpretations of the doctrine of election among Jewish thinkers, were partly the result of reaction to oppression by the non-Jewish world. The more the Jew was forced to close in on himself, to withdraw into the imposed confines of the ghetto, the more he tended to emphasize Israel's difference from the cruel gentile without. Only thus did his suffering become intelligible and bearable. This type of interpretation reaches its height in the Kabbalistic idea that while the souls of Israel stem from God, the souls of gentiles are merely of base material." ~ Lou Silberman, Encyclopaedia Judaica, sv. Chosen People

Judaism has a structural peculiarity so perplexing and profound that though Christianity and Islam took much else from it, they did not adopt this: it is a particularist monotheism. It believes in one God but not in one exclusive path to salvation. The God of the Israelites is the God of all mankind, but the demands made of the Israelites are not asked of all mankind....[as the Rabbis say]: 'The pious of the nations have a share in the world to come.' (MT Hilchot Teshuvah 3:5)

God the creator of humanity, having made a covenant with all humanity, then turns to one people and commands it to be different, teaching humanity to make space for difference. God may at times be found in the human other, the one not like us. Biblical monotheism is not the idea that there is one God and therefore one gateway to God's presence. On the contrary, it is the idea that the unity of God is to be found in the diversity of creation." ~ Sir Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, Dignity of Difference (Chapter 3, 2002)

We have not chosen God; He has chosen us. There is no concept of a chosen God but there is the idea of a chosen people. The idea of a chosen people does not suggest the preference for a people based upon a discrimination among a number of peoples. We do not say that we are superior people. The "chosen people" means a people approached and chosen by God. The significance of this term is genuine in relation to God rather than in relation to other peoples. It signifies not a quality inherent in the people but a relationship between the people and God. ~ A.J. Heschel,'To be a Jew: What is it?' in: Moral Grandeur and Spiritual Audacity, pp. 11

The idea of race or national superiority exercises divisive influences generating suspicion and hatred...we cannot assume that Israel must at all times possess that spirit to a higher degree than other people. ... Thank God I had the courage to go through with the excision of such a cancerous growth from the Jewish consciousness ... ~ Mordechai Kaplan, Judaism as a Civilization, p. 43

Rabbi Leo Baeck (1873-1956, Germany)

"Jews possess a special genius for ethical monotheism which keeps the idea alive even today. Were the Jews and Judaism to disappear, ethical monotheism would lose its irreplaceable advocate and might itself disappear."

The presence of Jews among the not-yet-extinct peoples of the world can no more be credited to any kind of special trait or behavior than the Tasmanians or the Taino ought to be blamed for their own eradication. In the end human survival is a matter of luck — or destiny, if you prefer — of decisions taken in distant capitals in vanished eras that bore unforeseeable fruit 200 years on, of chaotically intersecting systems of weather, metaphysics and pandemic, of the failures and weaknesses and limitations of our would-be destroyers...

This is, of course, the foundational ambiguity of Judaism and Jewish identity: the idea of chosenness, of exceptionalism, of the treasure that is a curse, the blessing that is a burden, of the setting apart that may presage redemption or extermination. To be chosen has been, all too often in our history, to be culled.

This is the ambiguity that cites the dispensation of God and history, of covenant and Holocaust, to lay claim to a special relationship between Jews and the Land of Israel, then protests when the world — cynically or sincerely — holds Israel to a different, higher standard as beneficiaries of that dispensation.

This is the ambiguity that proudly asserts the will and the obligation of Israel to be a light unto the nations, then points to the utterly evil, utterly bankrupt, utterly degraded, utterly stupid misdeeds of ship-sinking, sailor-massacring North Korea — North Korea! — in an attempt to give context to its own relatively less-evil, bankrupt, degraded and stupid behavior. ~ Michael Chabon, Chosen but not Special, NYT June 5 2010

In a way, the Jewish people have invented the idea of chosenness, but in truth, the idea of chosenness has also invented the Jewish people. Such is Judaism’s wonderfully inverted logic: First comes redemption, only then reasons...

When [the writer] Chabon credits Jewish survival to blind luck, he ignores the essential significance of the idea of chosenness—that only by believing themselves to be God’s dearest children, and therefore bound to principles that distinguish them from the nations of man, do the Jews manage to retain their distinct identity. Now, as in the days of Abraham, we owe all to this rich and strange idea...The idea of chosenness is too deeply ingrained in us to be overlooked, patronized, or definitively repealed. Whether or not we believe that the descendants of Abraham were singled out, in perpetuity, by God, and whether or not we find this to be an outlandish, if not offensive, notion—no matter what, we must grapple with it, for it is, behind our backs, grappling with us. ~ Todd Gitlin and Liel Leibovitz

http://www.tabletmag.com/scroll/35579/the-centrality-of-jewish-chosenness

It is not unreasonable to suggest that this, indeed, was the key to Jewish survival: The belief that the individual Jew must maintain his Jewishness because he is the beloved of God. This belief found expression not simply in creed but also in Jewish practice. The dedication of generations of Jews to Jewish law was not out of a blind sense of duty, but out of a firm belief that these laws were the expression of the Creator’s special love for the Jewish people, and their betrayal would be a betrayal of that love. It is this belief, perhaps above all else, which sustained Jewish communities through the hardships of exile, persecution, and pogrom. And it may still.

Meir Soloveichik, God’s Beloved: A Defense of Chosenness, in Azure Magazine, no. 19 winter 2005

(ג) ר' עזריה בשם ר' יהודה ברבי סימון אומר: משל למלך, שהיה לו פרדס נטוע. שורה של תאנים, ושל גפנים, ושל רמונים, ושל תפוחים. ומסר לאריס והלך לו. לאחר ימים בא המלך והציץ בפרדס לידע מה עשה ומצאו מלא חוחין ודרדרין. הביא קצצים לקוצו והציץ באותן החוחין וראה בו שושנה אחת של ורד נטלה והריח בה ושבת נפשו עליה. אמר המלך: בשביל שושנה זו ינצל כל הפרדס. כך כל העולם כולו לא נברא, אלא בשביל תורה. לאחר כ"ו דורות הציץ הקב"ה בעולמו לידע מה עשה ומצא מלא מים במים. דור אנוש מים במים. דור המבול מים במים. דור הפלגה מים במים. והביא קצצים לקוצצו שנאמר: (תהלים כט): ה' למבול ישב. ראה בו שושנה אחת של ורד, אלו ישראל. ונטלה והריחה בשעה שנתן להם עשרת הדברות ושבת נפשו עליו. בשעה שאמרו: נעשה ונשמע, אמר הקדוש ברוך הוא: בשביל שושנה זו ינצל הפרדס. בזכות תורה וישראל ינצל העולם:

"A lily among the thorns," (Song of Songs 2:2). Rav Azariah said in the name of Rav Judah son of Rav Simon, cited a parable of a king who had an orchard planted with a row of figs, a row of grapevines, a row of pomegranate tress, and a row of apple trees. The king turned the orchard over to a keeper and went away. After a while, the king came back and inspected the orchard to see how it had done, and found it overgrown with thorns and thistles. So he summoned woodcutters to raze the orchard. But when he saw there a rose colored lily, he picked it up and breathed in its fragrance, and his spirit was calmed. The king said, 'Because of this lily, let the entire orchard be spared." So too, all the world was created because of Torah. After 26 generations the Holy One came to inspect the world and found it filled with water in water. The generation of Enosh was water in water. The generation of the Flood was water in water. The generation of the Dispersion was water in water. He brought woodcutters to raze, as it is written 'God brought the flood' (Ps. 29). He saw in it one rose colored lily, Israel. And held it and breathed its fragrance in the moment He gave them the Ten Sayings, and His mind was at peace. At the moment they said 'we will do and we will hear;, the Holy One said: 'Because of this lily the orchard will be spared'. Because of the merit of Torah and Israel the world will be spared.

See also https://www.bc.edu/content/dam/files/research_sites/cjl/texts/cjrelations/resources/articles/rosenthal.htm

and

http://azure.org.il/article.php?id=201&page=all