Question 1: How important is having children to you? To what lengths would you go? (several matriarchs used surrogates)
Question 2: How much do you think being a mother has/would fundamentally change your identity? Explore this idea for a while and how you feel about it.
Question 3: How does the idea of having a child make you feel? What would be some of your hopes for that child? If you don't plan to/end up having children, how do you feel about your friends and family having children? Do you share their happiness?
Question 4: How far would you go for your child/future child/niece/nephew? To what extent is their happiness more important to you than someone else's?
Question 5: What would be some of your fears in terms of how a child of yours/close to you might turn out? Is this based on anything particular?
Question 6: What kind of sex ed would you like to give to your children/those close to you? Does this relate to your own experiences as a child?
(21) Isaac pleaded with the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren; and the LORD responded to his plea, and his wife Rebekah conceived. (22) But the children struggled in her womb, and she said, “If so, why do I exist?” She went to inquire of the LORD, (23) and the LORD answered her, “Two nations are in your womb, Two separate peoples shall issue from your body; One people shall be mightier than the other, And the older shall serve the younger.” (24) When her time to give birth was at hand, there were twins in her womb. (25) The first one emerged red, like a hairy mantle all over; so they named him Esau. (26) Then his brother emerged, holding on to the heel of Esau; so they named him Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when they were born.
Question 7: How do you feel about pregnancy? How do you feel about twins?!