Mishna, Ketubot 3:4

The seducer gives three things (fines), and the violator four: the seducer gives shame, and "pegam," and a fine; the violator adds to it, for he gives "pain." What is the difference between the violator and the seducer? The violator gives "pain," and the seducer does not give "pain"; the violator gives immediately, and the seducer when he sends away; the violator drinks from his clay pot, but the seducer, if he wants to send her away - he sends her away. [Moreshet translation]