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Work-Life Balance: Ancient Story, Modern Struggle

A Bride for One Night: Ketubot 62b

Source Sheet by Rabbi Sari Laufer

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Created May 4, 2015 · 871 Views · נוצר 4 May, 2015 · 871 צפיות ·

  1. (ו) המדיר את אשתו מתשמיש המטה, בית שמאי אומרים: שתי שבתות. בית הלל אומרים: שבת אחת. התלמידים יוצאין לתלמוד תורה שלא ברשות שלשים יום, הפועלים שבת אחת. העונה האמורה בתורה, הטילין בכל יום, הפועלים שתים בשבת, החמרים אחת בשבת, הגמלים אחת לשלשים יום, הספנים אחת לששה חדשים, דברי רבי אליעזר.


    (6) One who, by vow, interdicts his wife from intercourse, Beit Shammai say, [she must wait] two weeks. Beit Hillel say one week. Students who leave for the purpose of studying Torah without the consent of their wives [have] thirty days; laborers, one week. [The law of providing sexual] pleasure [to one's wife] that is stated in the Torah [is as follows]: one at leisure, daily; laborers, twice a week; donkey drivers, once a week; camel drivers, once every thirty days; navigators every six months; these are the words of Rabbi Eliezer.


  2. (ו) מאימתי אביו חייב ללמדו תורה משיתחיל לדבר מלמדו תורה צוה לנו משה ושמע ישראל ואח"כ מלמדו מעט מעט פסוקים פסוקים עד שיהיה בן שש או בן שבע הכל לפי בוריו ומוליכו אצל מלמד התינוקות.

    (6) A man should always study Torah and then marry a woman. For if he marries a woman first, his mind will not be available for study. But if his desire overcomes him, such that his heart is not available, he should marry a woman and then learn Torah.

  3. I've long since retired, my son's moved away
    I called him up just the other day
    I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"
    He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I can find the time
    You see my new job's a hassle and kids have the flu
    But it's sure nice talking to you, Dad
    It's been sure nice talking to you"

    And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me
    He'd grown up just like me
    My boy was just like me


    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
    Little boy blue and the man in the moon
    When you comin' home son
    I don't know when, but we'll get together then, Dad
    We're gonna have a good time then


    Cat's In the Cradle:

    Harry Chapin


    My child arrived just the other day
    He came to the world in the usual way
    But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
    He learned to walk while I was away
    And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it, and as he grew
    He'd say "I'm gonna be like you, Dad
    You know I'm gonna be like you"


    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
    Little boy blue and the man on the moon
    When you comin' home, Dad
    I don't know when, but we'll get together then
    You know we'll have a good time then


    My son turned ten just the other day
    He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, come on let's play
    can you teach me to throw", I said "Not today
    I got a lot to do", he said, "That's ok
    And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
    And said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah
    You know I'm gonna be like him"




    You know we'll have a good time then

    Well, he came from college just the other day
    So much like a man I just had to say
    "Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while"
    He shook his head and said with a smile
    "What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys
    See you later, can I have them please"




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